Just came back from a black feminist meeting

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Nah that is where you are wrong...that would be an entirely other thread...and I ain't even in to white chicks like that period...but other races of women...especially white women...are much more likely to stay with a man who has "potential" than wait for a man to be "good"...

First of all.....

On principal alone. Secondly.....

At the thought of a white woman holding down a black man washing dishes at El Cheapo Greasos.

GTFOH

 

[Just like bruddas]

I feel for you, brotha....you posted a real dynamic first hand account about the aims and ambitions of "black feminism". Its falling on deaf ears w/ so many around here, because its inconsistent w/ the silly anti-woman stereotypes that have been reified by the no mamm, coli c00n patrol. You experienced some real sht, with some powerful, good-natured, well meaning sistas who want to be down , but you might as well have taken what you typed in the OP, and wrote it on a piece of paper to discuss it with a pack of wild hyenas. The convo probably wouldnt be any less stimulating.

At any rate, I really salute and commend you for your continued character, and for the brilliant post. Its much appreciated by real heads. We need more like ya, fam.

I know man, but I just had to get this out there. I was so totally caught off guard by these women. No anger at all, just sadness. Wish I could have hug all of them, but whats most important is they understand our struggle as well. All of this time I had no idea they were victims of how society treated us. Let no one ask them how does it feel to lose a love to society all the time, either from jail or death. No one cares, they walk around with the strong look on but inside these women are abandon souls, with no one to listen. shyt hurts man, all this time I thought we only had to protect them, but we get sidetrack with so much shyt, we dont listen.

 

[Will Ross]

Only cause they feel that no one is there to take the lead. Have you fukking read my OP breh. These women are depressed because we are being taken away from them either by the grave or by jail. You saying they want the role, when in fact its thrown on them and have no choice but to take the responsibilities. They respect our place in the household, but its just a case of missing in action.

Youre too busy thinking about the after effects of not have men presented, we are way passed that breh.

The problem with black women is they fail to take responsibility for their actions. That is why the same actions keep getting repeated over and over. When black women look in the mirror and change things will improve.

 

[Dwolf]

No, but I lived and taught in Atlanta for 3 years.

What do you teach?

 

[Will Ross]

...also add in to the fact the way a lot of black dudes just refer to women as bytches so casually. Generally, I hear this in the black community the most often. I'm just saying, I'm sure that not helping black females feel any better about themselves.

No one hates a black woman like another black women. What is funny is most black men born from 1980+ have been raised exclusively by black women. So many black men pick the lingo up from mommy. But it cool to blame black men for the fukk ups. But let that black man become a doctor and it all mommy daddy was not around

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Even if I was a feminist and subscribed to all of the ideology attached to it, I've learned not to discuss real life issues with the men on this board. They are either too stupid to comprehend it or they are way too immature to actually even read/listen to what you have to say before they dismiss it as bullshyt. I learned a long time ago not to waste my time.

So because someone doesn't agree with your viewpoint they are either stupid or immature? Hmmm, that's quite the doctoral mindset right there Dr. Doll.

 

[Just like bruddas]

All we ever talk about is how black women feel. Anytime we address our issue with black women we are told we are bashing. Not one black woman on this site went at another girl. But how many dudes have gotten at chis b?

Since when was it a thread about a woman dealing with depression from having all the black men being taken away from her, and the roles of the house being reversed? The pressure that comes from being judge and expected to be a certain way by a racist society that constantly kill them spiritually and physically. These are the issues that these women have.

where do your issues come from?

 

[B-Rock Odrama]

as for the subject of this thread I've never met an bitter blackman hating black feminist in real life and assumed like the myth most that bm prefer ww over our own their existence is fantasy confined to the cyber world...I really wish their were more black feminist(not including the blackman bashers) though cause they are under attack and need eachother to lean on due to the aforementioned lack of strong blackmen holding them down for whatever reason..as a righteous blackman I feel more of my peers need to step up to the plate to lead our women and community...sadly to far to many blackmen(and women for that matter) are sellouts or too stupid to do anything but fuel the flames of division and destruction of our people.

 

[Elle Driver]

No one hates a black woman like another black women. What is funny is most black men born from 1980+ have been raised exclusively by black women. So many black men pick the lingo up from mommy. But it cool to blame black men for the fukk ups. But let that black man become a doctor and it all mommy daddy was not around

Okay now you're just talking out of your ass.

 

[duckbutta]

You're exposing yourself as someone who either has no experience with black women (or women in general with all of this non-black women all see potential in good men except black women), or you've only messed with a hood booger or two....

I remember when I was in high school, immature as hell....my first couple of girlfriends were non-black, and with my limited experience and knowledge base informing me, I started running off at the mouth with all that "black women dont like regular/smart dude...black women only wanna date b-ball players/thugs/or d boys....I get along better with other races of women and they appreciate me....etc" You spend one night with a smart, beautiful, strong sista and you realize how much of an idiot you were...

You can date whomever you prefer. Im not opposed to IR dating. Life is too short not to maximize your personal utility...but all of these poisonous and absurd stereotypes you're condemning black women with, speaks to you and you alone.

What stereotype? What condemnation? I said black women are not good at judging what a "good" man is....

Before you respond...just set back and look at the state of black women...

Do you think that black women right now...as a whole...are "healthy"...do you think black women...as a whole...do make very good decisions at judging life partners? I mean really...honestly...do you...?

 

[SouthernBelle]

What do you teach?

Elementary school...I taught 2nd grade for two years and third grade for a year (all subject areas). Now I teach undergrad sociology and education.

 

[Crakface]

Lowkey i think Will is running game on them bytches and even He dont even know it.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

The pressure that comes from being judge and expected to be a certain way by a racist society that constantly kill them spiritually and physically. These are the issues that these women have.

Glad us black men don't have to worry about all that.

 

[SouthernBelle]

So because someone doesn't agree with your viewpoint they are either stupid or immature? Hmmm, that's quite the doctoral mindset right there Dr. Doll.

I didn't say anything about disagreeing. In real life, I've disagreed with many people without them misinterpreting what I'm saying, trying to get me argue points that I never said to begin with (because they didn't comprehend what I said), or without them saying what I said was complete bullshyt without listening to the argument. That happens a lot on the coli which led me to the conclusion that most of the men on this board to too stupid or too immature to engage in adult conversation. That has nothing to do with my education and a lot to do with common sense and lived experience on this board.

Example...I didn't say anything about agree or disagreeing with my view point...

 

[Just like bruddas]

No one hates a black woman like another black women. What is funny is most black men born from 1980+ have been raised exclusively by black women. So many black men pick the lingo up from mommy. But it cool to blame black men for the fukk ups. But let that black man become a doctor and it all mommy daddy was not around

Nope. These women has learn to stop blaming us for our actions thats created from conditioning our minds so you need to stop blindly blaming them also. They got most of yall guys on here beat when it comes to knowledge of social engineering of black men and women. They know why we do what we do and thats why its no anger, just disappointed that the ones that know areng setting to the plate and inform other men about this. Also we pick up that lingo from television, music and society. These are the items that raised us, single parent home or not.

This isnt about the placing blame anymore.