Desirous
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Not implying they're not white...was just referring to Jewish people specifically
Just came back from a black feminist meeting
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Anyone can be a Jew like anyone can be Islamic or Christian tho.
Desirous
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They can convert to Judaism, but I'm just pointing out why it's easier for them to be united.
I can't speak on experience but on observation. In my opinion, I have never seen such a divide as the one between black men and women, just based on what I read here. And it's not like every woman should be treated with respect anyways. I think society is mainly to blame for breaking up the homes. I can't pull the stats but most of the prison population is black males. And I bet most of them are drug related. Black women and mothers are fighting a losing battle. The appeal of making fast money draws these young kids to get caught up. And of course it's from generations past and causes a chain reaction. father leaves the home and leaves a single mom, kid sees mom struggling and since they can only afford to live in a poor neighborhood, that's where they get influenced by their peers who already have experience in the streets. it all starts at the family home if you want to be successful. everybody struggling these days cuz the economy ain't shyt. I do see more black women and women in general in power. dreams of marrying a rich corporate business woman. anyways if black women weren't having to raise kids on their own, they can better take control of things. not saying they don't do that, but take Chicago for example recently. the reason why the OP said that black males are dieing is because of all the crime going on there. and it's all a matter of pride and peer pressure. the youth today is on some, oh you don't wanna be down with us, forget you then. I'm sure not every kid in Chicago is a gang member but when you growing up and that's all you see and friends are, then yeah you gonna be intrigued. now can the government do something? sure they can build parks, gyms, rec centers, but Chicago has all that and so does every major city. so it's not like they can't do that instead. but again the money issue comes into play and every one tries to make that fast cash no matter what. the odds of making it big or being successful are very hard. everyone should be working together to make the world a better place for all. like desirous mentioned how it was hard for there to be a black community due to various background. that can be said for everyone. we just have to get past all that race bullshyt and work as one. besides money gets counted the same whether it comes from a black, white, or Asian. do respect your interest in gaining knowledge and participating in their group discussion.
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I think Jews and Muslims are the most united groups in the world. every country or maybe every country has Jews and Muslims, yet you see them all united no matter where they are from. only issue is the beef between the two sides but I think that's more of a political agenda and the regular folks aren't trying to go out there and kill or be killed.
LOUD
King Of All Kings
What was the build of these women?
Feminists can't even agree on that. A lot of them hate sex work of any kind.
yes, i'm certain most of our problems could be solved with money and resources. the lack of money in the black community is the main reason why there's currently lack of respect and love for one another. most of us aren't coming to each other for opportunities, we go to white folks and other non-blacks. we aren't passing anything on either, which leaves black women devalued -- and part of the reason a lot of these nikkas swear they can make black children by non-black women.
don't you live with your parents though
I see your point, but to me money is the reason why dont we dont respect each in the first place.
and I live in the 3rd apartmentof a house that my parents own and pay 500 rent every month. along with other expenses, my father isnt working due to surgery and wont be back up to full strength until jan so my 500 a month is helping them out. But That doesnt mean im cant fukk a nikka up threatening my fam or provide for a woman.
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well the issue is that most black men start off so far behind the 8 ball that they are very rarely good from the jump...as a black man you have to learn how to be "good"...you have to want to be "good"...you have to dedicate yourself to being "good"...and the problem with black women is that they don't really want to have you around while you are going through this process...
When a black man is washing the dishes...a black women won't want anything to do with him...girl please...this nikka wash dishes for a living...
But when that black man is washing dishes he has that moment when he realizes...damn i am 22 and washing dishes i got to get my shyt together
Then he move from washing dishes to waiting tables...but a black woman won't want anything to do with him...girl please...this nikka wait tables for a living ...girl lets scrape all this food on one plate to help this nikka out
But when that black man is waiting tables he realizes that a few months ago he was washing dishes...and well slow motion is better than no motion
Then he move from waiting tables to cooking...but no black woman will want anything to do with him...girl please this nikka a cook...this nikka back here in all that grease all day...nikka go home every night smelling like crisco...
But when that black man is cooking...well now he been there awhile...now people who been there know him as the guy who went from washing to cooking...and now that black man is seeing the in and outs of the business...and he is thinking...you know i could add a lil spice here...try this...try that...get a little creative...
Then he move from cooking to bartending...and now that black woman might not want him...but now she kinda interested... now he on her radar...now she see him out here mixing drinks and flirting with chicks and they tipping him 10 dollars and damn who is this white dude in a suit he seems to be all buddy buddy with......damn i see some 20's in that jar
And now that black man is right there on the precipice...cause he has washed dishes...busted tables...served food...and cooked food...and been a bartender...and you know what...it took 3 years but damn everybody know this guy...people who have been coming here know him by name...when he says he used to be a cook people say "so that was YOUR eggplant paremesean
And then...they got a management gig open up...a new place opening up...and who do they ask...that black man of course...because he has seen every ounce of this place and knows it in and out
And now this nikka got a suit...now you look at the restaurant owned by or property managed by or team management manager is...this nikka...
And now all these black women are like...girl that is a good man...girl he OWNS something...girl look at him in that suit i bet he got a big dikk...girl he worked his way up the right way...girl that is a gawd damn good man right there you think he single...
But...what those black women don't realize is that he was a good man when he was just washing dishes...
And well you didn't want him then...and now...well now he owns something and he doesn't really have time for you...he doesn't have any emotional attachment to you, black woman, because when he first became a good man washing that sticky ass alfredo off them plates...he looked around and didn't see you...black woman......you were to busy bashing him for washing dishes and being a 20 year old still living at home and having no ambition remember...
You don't want a good black man who is a good black man...you want a regular black man who is making the transition to a good black man...cause that transition is a very real struggle...and when he makes it that black man will always look back and remember the people around him in that struggle...or the lack of people...black woman...
LOUD
King Of All Kings
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Probably clowns though.IDK been, even when I was broke these bytches loved me
Anytime you can learn something you didn't know, that's a good thing. I've tried to be sympathetic to the black woman's plight and discuss topics with them but I gave it up. A lot of those woman are so broken down and bitter towards black men that I don't see a point of even hashing it out with them. They literally hate black men and distrust them. when it gets to that point, nothing you can do but wish them well and move on. But I can't worry myself with black women problems, that shyt will cause you serious headaches.
I just treat everyone with respect and keep it moving.
I just treat everyone with respect and keep it moving.