Just got child support taken out my check

[MR. SNIFLES]

serious quesiton. what happens if you just fly out to japan or europe somewhere until the kid turns 18?

IF SHE GOT THE CASE ON YOU BEFORE YOU LEAVE YOUR BALANCE JUST PILES UP. YOU NEVER GET AWAY FROM IT. AS SOON AS YOU TOUCH DOWN AND YOUR WARRANT SHOWS UP IN CUSTOMS YOU MIGHT GET ARRESTED.

 

[Phitz]

Smart brehs!! Don't fall for the trap...


But then again, this could be the cac plan to wipe out our people.

Make us too scared to reproduce because we wind up in jail for trying to have families, they think we'll eventually die off as a race.
Evil fukks...

yt males are leading the no marriage/no kids charge though

 

[the cool]

IF SHE GOT THE CASE ON YOU BEFORE YOU LEAVE YOUR BALANCE JUST PILES UP. YOU NEVER GET AWAY FROM IT. AS SOON AS YOU TOUCH DOWN AND YOUR WARRANT SHOWS UP IN CUSTOMS YOU MIGHT GET ARRESTED.

what about if you move to mexico?

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

yt males are leading the no marriage/no kids charge though

Oh....didn't know that.

Good, as long as they doin it too...we'll be winning.

Cause you know their genetics suck ass...and their endurance too.
All our people do is survive...everyday since inception.
Their candy asses expire when they lose their job.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

what about if you move to mexico?

Like I said...better plan on staying there.

 

[onelastdeath]

Sound as psycho as OP BM.

You know I'm joking baby

 

[Paradise50]

They do go by both incomes. Again, keep having kids with broke ass women


My kid mother know not to even try it cause she'll end up looking dumb as hell.

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

what about if you move to mexico?

JUST DON'T PLAN ON COMING HOME. JUST EASIER TO PAY FOR YOUR KID. ARE PEOPLE REALLY SERIOUS ABOUT ABANDONING THEIR KIDS?

 

[Citi Trends]

dont know why i should care that nikkas are abandoning these little miscreants when no one cares about shyt like this
oh well sweety. shoulda strapped up or got that slime ball yanked. but im supposed to feel bad for single mothers

 

[Draje]

what about if you move to mexico?

Then stay there because when you come back and try to apply for jobs, places to stay, do your taxes, etc...you'll be arrested.

 

[PinotNoir]

You must have did something for her to take you to court. My friend lives in NY and his kid's mother took him because they got into an argument amongst other things . Judge ordered him to pay $1400 a month for one kid, but was ultimately cut in half because she makes way more. Now he's talking about finding a second job, something under the table. Got to do what you got to do.

 

[BrandonBanks]

Have a baby mama brehs

 

[GoGetMyDamnBelt_]

fukk my life
I thought there was an error
Then I seen -$487 child support
I got to pay this every 2 weeks
I support my kids as much as I can
They don't need nothing
This shyt is rediculous
I won't be able to pay my rent
Or phone bill
Or eat
Or pay my car insurance
Or health insurance
I would basically have to work like 80 hours a week just to live check to check

This ain't living brehs
Strap up

I learned something from an old co-worker of mine. I think it'll help in your situation.

You see, what the court basically doing is charging you to take care of your kids. So, play them at their own game. EVERYTHING is about paper trail. What my co-worker did was open an account that was only used for his three girls. When he got divorced, judge granted the wife the kids, cars, house and had him on both child & spousial support. He moved back to Florida into his parents home since he couldn't afford his own well being. So, he opened up a bank account that was used only for his girls. Doctor appointment, co-payment, he swiped, day care, he swiped, shopping, he swiped. And now you know with technology and all, for every transaction you can add a memo to it. So, he joins the reserves and got promoted quickly. At that point in time, he was more than $70k a year. He left this job to go active duty. Even while at this job, he was making over $40k annually. But the same amount he was paying from the start, which I believe was $500 or some change, continued to stay the same. Before he left, he actually mentioned how the child support payments decreased to about $280 a month. Whenever his ex-wife would go to court and demand more, seeing as he was continuing to make more, he would show up to court with statements. Paper trail. They saw that outside of his payments, he was diligently taking care of his children.

I would suggest doing what he did. It actually make sense. Keeping receipts isn't enough. They can always excuse that as you just withdrawing money but it not really being for them. Open a bank account just for your kids. Whatever activities you do, use that account to make purchases on them. Ask your bank how you can sticky note memos to every transaction (some banks- like mine- can be done even thru the mobile app.) After some time, months or even a year or so, go back to court and contest the amount and show the monthly statements as proof of what you're doing for your kids.



I hope this helps.

 

[Lord_nikon]

It's actually really sad seeing shyt like this. I don't know, maybe it's because I saw the way my mother con her baby daddies (my oldest brother dad disappeared and just refused to work since the birth of my brother, my dad was in jail for not paying child support for like 4-5 years. He died when I was 13, now the father of my last 3 siblings. This guy was with my mom since I was 2. He paid all the bills in the house, her car, food, rent, giving her an allowance when he can, giving all 5 of her kids [including my older brother and I who weren't his biological kids] AND STILL he was on child support. All while he was living with us. They split when I was 15). I don't see what fukking enjoyment any girl get out of making someone else's life miserable like that.

It's so desperate.

If I were to ever get pregnant out of wedlock (not an option now, obviously, or ever for that fact) & the man even makes me THINK he doesn't want this child whether it is questioning me if it's his, abortion, etc. I'll personally hand deliver him the forms where he can terminate his parental rights. I don't want my child loving nor following a man who runs from responsibilies as such.

If that isn't the case, we can rejoice and raise our child together. If not together but he still wants to be in his/her life, I'll never rob him of that. We can settle everything out of court like grown folks. That's the thing there too, girls that do that kitty shyt of hitting a man's pockets like that not caring about his own well-fair is child-minded women. It's despicable. And they do it for the wrong reasons too. I watched my mother use all the money she was collecting for shyt that didn't pertain to us (her children) at all & im gonna assume majority of women are doing the same.

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

I learned something from an old co-worker of mine. I think it'll help in your situation.

You see, what the court basically doing is charging you to take care of your kids. So, play them at their own game. EVERYTHING is about paper trail. What my co-worker did was open an account that was only used for his three girls. When he got divorced, judge granted the wife the kids, cars, house and had him on both child & spousial support. He moved back to Florida into his parents home since he couldn't afford his own well being. So, he opened up a bank account that was used only for his girls. Doctor appointment, co-payment, he swiped, day care, he swiped, shopping, he swiped. And now you know with technology and all, for every transaction you can add a memo to it. So, he joins the reserves and got promoted quickly. At that point in time, he was more than $70k a year. He left this job to go active duty. Even while at this job, he was making over $40k annually. But the same amount he was paying from the start, which I believe was $500 or some change, continued to stay the same. Before he left, he actually mentioned how the child support payments decreased to about $280 a month. Whenever his ex-wife would go to court and demand more, seeing as he was continuing to make more, he would show up to court with statements. Paper trail. They saw that outside of his payments, he was diligently taking care of his children.

I would suggest doing what he did. It actually make sense. Keeping receipts isn't enough. They can always excuse that as you just withdrawing money but it not really being for them. Open a bank account just for your kids. Whatever activities you do, use that account to make purchases on them. Ask your bank how you can sticky note memos to every transaction (some banks- like mine- can be done even thru the mobile app.) After some time, months or even a year or so, go back to court and contest the amount and show the monthly statements as proof of what you're doing for your kids.



I hope this helps.

PAY FOR KIDS TO AVOID PAYING FOR YOUR KIDS BREHS.