Just got child support taken out my check

[Heretic]

How much do you make after taxes where 12k hurts like that?
How much did you make when you got her pregnant twice?

Breh, 12k would hurt almost anybody especially if you budgeted you lifestyle around it.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

My Nicca, can't you petition the Court for at least shared custody? Your kids are older now too, they should by at least be with you half of the time, which sould reduce your amount or erase it.

Seriously!
If you're not gonna leave the country, murk her ass or get her doped up....

GET A LAWYER AND GET JOINT CUSTODY!!!

The only other option is living like a pauper for the next 9-10 years of your life and starting over again when CS ends.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

I've seen cases where he'd still have to pay because he's been the dad this long. CS ain't no joke.

Yuuup!
Once they have you in their system...you ain't getting out.
They will do anything including setting you up with false evidence to keep you paying.
They get a cut of every nikka they get in the CS system...that's why they're so gung ho to put men in it.
Black, white, asian, mexican..it don't matter. If you got a dikk...they gonna find a way to get your money or threaten you with jail to get you to give them that money.

fukkin legalized bullies with the backing of the corrupt police.

You'd be better off assaulting someone or attempting grand theft than gettin in child support.

 

[13473]

men don't have a 50/50 chance when getting primary custody you dumb fukk. what the article states is: of men who seek custody in a divorce ~50% are granted custody. This could be because those who have especially good chances of being granted custody seek it more often than those who may not have such a strong case...
it's like saying if 95% of people who drive lambos are millionaires then you have a 95% chance of becoming a millionaire if you drive a lambo

and that huffington post article doesn't dispel gender bias in family courts. all it says it that most men don't bother going thru the court system (likely because of the bias).

brush up on your reading comp u moron

you're being rude as if i'm your baby mama

the article addresses gender bias that the court is biased towards granting women custody when nearly all cases aren't settled in court. that's like whites blaming affirmative action on blacks getting jobs when so few jobs are granted to blacks via affirmative action.

individual millionaire customers did not create the lambo, so they have no rights to owning or operating a lambo. 2 parents produce a child together and have legal rights to the child. Those two examples you listed are not the same. You're comparing a customer to essentially an owner

saying "bu-bu-but what if the 1.5% have a good case and i don't?" is a BS excuse. You have no proof of that claim.

 

[Phitz]

On another note, funny that Umar Johnson said on a radio show that he's running into record numbers of young black males who are not getting married and will not have children.

 

[Cladyclad]

is wrong wit u? Is she ur 1st cousin? going on breh

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

even if you are building a family, if the woman wants a divorce, you're screwed.

I din't know when/if I'll get married, but there's gonna be an ironclad prenup if possible.

Don't count on it breh.

They been throwin those prenups out the window for celebrities and regular dudes that make bank more and more often these days.
They gotta get that money so they do whatever evil deeds they need to ta get that homie enrolled in their system so they can take his check.

Jonnie Cochran is dead...so I'd advise against getting married unless you got a backup plan that involves hiding a body.
I already told my wife...blood in, blood out.
She try to go anywhere and put me back in the fukked up CS system for not one day...I'll murder her ass and hide the pieces all over the desert.

 

[the cool]

serious quesiton. what happens if you just fly out to japan or europe somewhere until the kid turns 18?

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

On another note, funny that Umar Johnson said on a radio show that he's running into record numbers of young black males who are not getting married and will not have children.

Smart brehs!! Don't fall for the trap...


But then again, this could be the cac plan to wipe out our people.

Make us too scared to reproduce because we wind up in jail for trying to have families, they think we'll eventually die off as a race.
Evil fukks...

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

No they don't.. My homey has a second job and he said they don't touch that check. She'll only find out about the extra income/job if he tells her/somebody else tells her.

It's NY homie!
Some punk ass jealous hatin rat bytch gonna find her and tell her...just to try and get in her pants or get on her good side. bytches do that shyt every damn day.

shyt, I had one of my baby momma friends try to talk to me after I got out.
Told that bytch to hit the bricks...

fukk I look like talkin to you?? Everything I say to you gonna end up in my shyt-ass baby momma ear.

Call me paranoid, but after all the shyt that fukkin evil bytch put me through, I stopped trustin people LONG ago.

 

[Rekkapryde]

OP knocked up his broke ass cousin?

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

serious quesiton. what happens if you just fly out to japan or europe somewhere until the kid turns 18?

Don't plan on coming back.
Once you use your social security number for anything, the IRS will hunt you down...garnish your whole check and send the pigs after you.
Their gang is INTENT on getting their money.

 

[Elle Driver]

I planted cocaine in my BM's car already so just in case she ever tries that "I'm taking your son away from you" shyt, I'm framing her as a drug addict and snitchin

Then taking my son

I doubt it'll come to that though .

That's my boo

Sound as psycho as OP BM.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

Not trying to shyt on you OP but child support factors in the income of both parents. Knocking up a broke ass woman is

Yall keep talkin but those of us that been through it ain't hearin that bullshyt.
They don't give a fukk about both incomes!!
They look at the NCP (Non-Custodial-Parent) income and base everything off of that!
My trash ass fukk-bytch baby momma presented the whole worksheet of her supposed bills and they didn't even read the goddam thing.
They ONLY went down the list of what I put down...and not even considering my bills.
They looked at:
1. How much money I make.
2. How much taxes I last paid during tax season.
3. My employer.
And that was it.
I tried explaining that if I paid the amount of child support they were setting, I wouldn't be able to eat!
fukkin judge didn't give a flyin fukk my nikka.
They didn't factor in NOTHIN from that trick hoe ass bytch or make her do anything afterwards.

They got you.
And they ain't lettin go no matter what...they gonna get their money.
Believe that happy bullshyt if you want to...yo ass gonna be weighing 115 lbs at age 23 like I was for years and years.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

Just make sure she's a good one before you have kids with her. I honestly don't know how dudes just have kids with any ol woman. Like pulling out isn't 100% effective.

It ain't...lemme tell ya...


I spent the last 18 years alternating between and and .

Play that "Pull out" russian roulette if you want to...Eventually you come up losing.