Just got child support taken out my check

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1000 for two kids is not much! A one week summer day camp can cost 300. I pay 1500 for rent!

My God how can anyone argue this. OP stop dating and hustle. My man has two major sources of income. One alone takes care of all living expenses.

Also, draft a voluntary child support agreement and file it next time so she can't switch up on you even though the 400 you were paying is comedy!

You sound stupid. This guy makes 50k a year, he wouldn't spend 1k on his kids every month if he had full custody. It's too much of a strain on his income.

Nobody asked about your living arrangement, but since you went there.. it seems like your man works like a dog just to make ends meet... What do you do? :mjlol:
 

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You sound stupid. This guy makes 50k a year, he wouldn't spend 1k on his kids every month if he had full custody. It's too much of a strain on his income.

Nobody asked about your living arrangement, but since you went there.. it seems like your man works like a dog just to make ends meet... What do you do? :mjlol:

I make like 35000
After taxes and shyt it's less than 25000
1000 a month is half that
 

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I don't understand how a woman can watch her cousin struggling to care for two children on a limited salary with baby momma drama, and STILL allow herself to get preganat by him.

Anyway, I hope you and the first mother can come to an agreement that can satisfy both parties.
 

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thats why i always make sure to keep plan bs and rubbers on deck, if the rubber ever breaks she got to take that plan b right there on the spot. Aint no child support over here bih
how do you plan on making her take it? What if she doesn't want to?
 

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When ever this topic comes up, I am always appalled by the attitudes that some of you nikkas display when it comes to taking care of your own goddamn kids. It's truly sad and pathetic.
 

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When ever this topic comes up, I am always appalled by the attitudes that some of you nikkas display when it comes to taking care of your own goddamn kids. It's truly sad and pathetic.


im appalled BY YOUR AGGRESSIVE IGNORANCE :camby:

taking care of your own goddamn kids and EXPLOITATION of a man's salary is two different damn things

don't let your HATRED OF MEN blind you to the reality that Child Support is being exploited by SOME greedy vengeful babymamas and a shallow biased court system

i feel for the OP....

I was there for my son from the beginning signed the birth certificate right there at the hospital...had my girl living with me

took on a extra job as a contractor to pay off my debts to get a bigger place and support my family

because i happened to have subcontracted alot of work for the city...i was able to get a hookup on some government housing

helped get her a nice section 8 apartment in the suburbs where all she had to pay was 85 bucks a month for rent....



the plan was for it to be TEMPORARY....the following year i had plan to marry her with money i saved for us to move OUT OF SECTION 8 into a OUR OWN HOME.... so much for that plan :mjcry:

im sending her money for her place ....while im on the road busting my azz to work..

she didnt work always had an excuse....and when she eventually decided to go to school she wound up on academic probation (failure)

so i guess somebody taught her the "game" ...and when i arrived home from working out of town, she decides to start these crazy off the wall arguments and shyt .....just giving me hell.....not to mention she was stepping out on me

so finally she says she want's to breakup..i was like cool...we wasnt getting along ..and it wasn't healty for us or the baby

come to find out this was a GAME!!!.....the byatch NEVER had her own place prior to me....

so that place she got and the bread she was getting from me was a comeup

so now that we broke up ....not less than a week later I GET SERVED WITH CHILD SUPPORT PAPERS....

i go to pick up my son now..and she still ain't working .....balling out at at the mall and done moved a new boyfriend in the aparment i hooked her up with ....

yet SHE COULDN'T AFFORD THE COPAY AT THE DOCTOR'S VISIT FOR MY SON :stopitslime:

and the utilities!!!...all she had to pay was 85 bucks for rent...yet my azz had to pay the electricity bill cause god knows what she did with her child support money

meanwhile my black azz.....struggling to pay 645 dollars for one child (live in georgia and have a kid with a woman on assistance breh)...ONE DAMN CHILD YALL! :damn:

had to leave my apartment......work 7 days a week.....and move into a fukking rooming house....living off raman noodles and value meals from fast food restaurants..

fearing that if i didn't make a payment I COULD HAVE MY LICENSE SUSPENDED OR FIND MYSELF IN JAIL.. :snoop:

ASK YOURSELF IS THAT FAIR?? :why:


so DON'T YOU DARE STEROTYPE EVERY MAN AS SOME "DEADBEAT" HAVING DADDY...I DID AND CONTINUE TO DO FOR MY SON

THAT BYATCH JUST TOOK ADVANTAGE OF THE SYSTEM...WITH NO REGARDS FOR ME OR MY SON.. :ufdup:

BUT HEY YOU KNOW THE STORY...HATE THE GAME NOT THE PLAYER

SO IF ANYTHING I BLAME THE SYSTEM...MORE THAN THE SORRY BABYMAMS
 
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