Just got child support taken out my check

[360dagod]

Husband pays it.

Congrats if u lucked up in the game..

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

If me and my girl ever break up what is the first thing I should do? We only have one kid. She's a stay At home mom. How much am I looking at giving away to her? Just incase can't hurt to know the info. Better to be proactive.

Child support calculator

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/child-support-calculator-for-each-state.320277/

 

[360dagod]

If me and my girl ever break up what is the first thing I should do? We only have one kid. She's a stay At home mom. How much am I looking at giving away to her? Just incase can't hurt to know the info. Better to be proactive.

Be prepared for the worst...

How old is the child?

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

So what do you do for a living?

Look at that.. A woman who doesnt work thinks 1000 a month in cs aint shyt.. Go figure

 

[stepbackj34spud]

So what do you do for a living?

I knew she was a bum bytch.

I raise my daughter like my man asked me to.

Ma go sit your allowance having ass down and stop trying to derail the thread.

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

yes the fukk you can nikka if it already runs in the family

 

[360dagod]

Look at that.. A woman who doesnt work thinks 1000 a month in cs aint shyt.. Go figure

This is why i cant cosign a stay at home mother in these times..

Homegirl wanted to take her man's credit for paying rent...

I couldnt do it..

That poor lil baby gonna get thrown into every fukking argument

 

[151_Pr00f]

We need to bring back arranged marraiges and we need to bring them back pronto


Because I swear its the same song with you guys and for some odd reason birth control measures just aint enough

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

This is why i cant cosign a stay at home mother in these times..

Homegirl wanted to take her man's credit for paying rent...

I couldnt do it..

That poor lil baby gonna get thrown into every fukking argument

Obviously she thinks cs includes spousal support.

 

[Chubbs]

$400 a month don't even pay for food for 2 kids.

Unless you're feeding the mother too, $400/mo is more than enough to feed two small kids.

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

.damn...

buh buh buh wait it got worst

since the byatch was too trifling to pay for doctor co pay visits for my son

she decides to stop going to doctor visits all together.....

basically endangering my child's life

my son was losing weight....her home was in terrible conditions....

and she was basically avoiding me from letting me see my son..cause she didn't want to hear me "preaching" to her about doing better for the child

so i decide i have no choice but to go to WAR to save my son's life

and this when i found out how the court system don't give ZERO FUKKS when it comes to a father trying to do the right thing

i file my claim for custody rights.....i get social services involved along with a probono lawyer as well as my child's doctor to testify on my behalf

everybody is saying a got a strong case..i'll get to have my son ...

then Social Servicesand my own LAWYER turned on me in court....

telling the judge that im basically a guy trying to get out of child support

im like WTF?!!?....my son's life is in danger...and the woman is doing nothing on her part to support her child

Im looking at my lawyer..."like MAN DO YOU HEAR THIS SHYT?!?!"

so during a break in the session ..we meet in the private chambers.....

and this phaggot azz sorry excuse for a lawyer...

tells me..."why don't you just cooperate and settle for what social services is offering you...the mother isn't neccisarily neglectful..just some post mortum stress....the best i can do for you is get you visitation rights"

im like WTF?!?!?

then within that same week....im getting strange phone calls

a person calling my phone saying "SNITCH" and hanging up......and another one where some dude is threatning to kill me and even knew where the neighborhood where i was living at....

i wasn't dumb...this byatch had her people (family, friends) calling in these threats

so eventually i was granted visitation rights....but i REFUSED TO DROP MY CUSTODY CASE against her

i knew i was right.....yet the court was making shyt mad difficult for me....having me come to all these dumb counseling and parenting sessions like as if im the neglectful parent..when i wasn't with this woman for over a year now..and wasn't even able to see my son on a regular basis...

and come to find out....the STATE was taking up her case....and doing other things

if she couldn't make it to trial these byatches in social services would GO PICK HER UP..they even provided her with a laywer free of charge

did my research and found out if i lost this shyt i would have to PAY FOR ALL THESE SERVICES on top of the child support

why you might ask?...would the STATE do all this for her...

because my child's mother was considered a WARD of the state..with all that assistance she was getting....

so i fired my lawyer.....cause i found out HE WAS IN ON THE HUSTLE TOO

he was in cahoots with Social Services...cause he was running for the family court Judge position the following year.......so he wasn't gonna vouch for me

so i eventually had to pay a real lawyer and continued my "fight"...everything seemed like it was going to go my way ....till i go to pick up my son for my scheduled visitiation....and as im knocking on her door....

she never answered ....

im waiting calling her on the phone....go to sit in my ride waiting 30 minutes and then THREE COP CARS pull up

this byatch done CALLED THE POLICE on me

they approached my car.....and ask for ID and shyt....and they tell me that they were called by a resident that somebody was harrasing them by beating loudly on the door repeatedly.....

i explained myself im just here to pick up my son..here's my paperwork...

they talk to her azz..and she changes her story saying "Well he CAME to early for his vistiation and she felt threatned by my presance"

cops didn't buy it.....they made her give the child over to them to hand to me while i waited downstairs.....

then a week later.....im called into HR at my job...thier is a DETECTIVE.....a fukking DETECTIVE asking me about the whereabouts of my child mother......

so now IM THE PERSON OF INTREST in A MISSING PERSON'S CASE .....

THANK GOD my boss was there to vouch for me that i was at work the whole time, the night she disappeared and i hadn't had contact with her since last week...

come to find out they found the byatch was out of state getting high and partying and didn't notify her mom or anybody about her whereabouts.....

by this time i was sooo fed up with the situation..i actually wished that they found her

and all i would have to do is identify the body

cause i realized this woman and the court system whole intent was to destroy me


and women wonder why i am so HARD ON HOES

 

[concise]

So what do you do for a living?

I raise my daughter like my man asked me to.

Congrats to you being a stay at home mom...

How u paying 1500 in rent though if your not employed

Husband pays it.

Look at that.. A woman who doesnt work thinks 1000 a month in cs aint shyt.. Go figure

I knew she was a bum bytch.

 

[AAKing23]

This will never be me

 

[wickedsm]

Never mind.

 

[Chubbs]

The kids are 7 and 9 not babies.
I don't know what ramen and tap water yall live off of for the month but no, 400 a month for groceries isn't more than enough for 3 healthy meals and snacks for an entire month.especially not with prices in nyc. But even of it was,
What about clothing, medication, school supplies, activities etc?

"And snacks"
If you know how to budget, $400 is enough to feed two children.
I was only referring to the comment about feeding the children; not clothing, etc.