Damn
Just got divorced after 12 yrs...ama
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Piff Perkins
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What type of job you got? When you started making more money/success did you consciously realize she was drifting apart, and that you were focusing more on work?
HipHopStan
Top 113 Poster
This is the problem tho, y’all be on that “if you do it we can do it too” shyt
But for some reason it’s only when it come to negative shyt
If a man pay all the bills u don’t feel like “if a man can do it I can do it too”. Only when it come to fukkin around
this is an excellent point.
Dolla$
Minus the bullsh*t...life's great
For the love of God do not listen to these nikkasI'm not married but I want at least 2-4 kids. I don't believe in having children out of wedlock. Especially because of the statistics surrounding the Black community and the child's future.
So are you essentialy saying I'm fukked? My chances of having a family with a proper women is almost null...
Say it ain't so..
Lookin at my girl likewhile reading this thread.
Another thing I wanna point out is the troubling fact that Y’all keep repeating the same sh1t someone said to u, without really thinking. “My grandma said marriage is hard. U gotta work through it”.
there are some things u shouldn’t work thru.
if your wife starts a heated fight with you because she never sees u, cause you’re always working. That’s something u work through. Getting a hotel near ur job. Having her come stay with u there. Having more date nights. Etc. that’s the type of things to work thru.
If ur wife cheats on u, no coming back from that. U end it. If she’s thinking of cheating on u, I.e flirting with guys, disrespecting you in public, reckless with money, you end it.
but wait what if the guy cheats. If she wants to break up with u over u cheating, especially if you’re apologetic, then she never really loved u. A man can really love his wife but go fucck someone else. That other person means nothing. Men and women are different and cheating by either sex hold different weight. That’s a fact.
For instance, if a man cheats on his wife with women who are far better looking than she is, she’ll be mad for a while but deep down she’ll know your a catch and will be far more willing to forgive, as long as you’re not a total douchebag. Men on the other hand, if ur wife cheats on u, a lot went into the act of her doing it. No man will ever gaze upon his adulterous wife with admiration based on how good looking the men she fukked looked.
there are some things u shouldn’t work thru.
if your wife starts a heated fight with you because she never sees u, cause you’re always working. That’s something u work through. Getting a hotel near ur job. Having her come stay with u there. Having more date nights. Etc. that’s the type of things to work thru.
If ur wife cheats on u, no coming back from that. U end it. If she’s thinking of cheating on u, I.e flirting with guys, disrespecting you in public, reckless with money, you end it.
but wait what if the guy cheats. If she wants to break up with u over u cheating, especially if you’re apologetic, then she never really loved u. A man can really love his wife but go fucck someone else. That other person means nothing. Men and women are different and cheating by either sex hold different weight. That’s a fact.
For instance, if a man cheats on his wife with women who are far better looking than she is, she’ll be mad for a while but deep down she’ll know your a catch and will be far more willing to forgive, as long as you’re not a total douchebag. Men on the other hand, if ur wife cheats on u, a lot went into the act of her doing it. No man will ever gaze upon his adulterous wife with admiration based on how good looking the men she fukked looked.
this is highly disturbing
Who earns more? Be honest
That’s your fault for going to a gun fight (lawyers) with a plastic spoon (yourself and a bank document). You weren’t even properly represented by counsel. You fukked yourself
Gets divorced, comes to The Coli for daps 
SlickHomie
All-Pro Kufi Smacker
Me thats who.....cant lead a horse to water......
You can lead a horse to the water. Just can’t make it drink.
You are a lucky man. You made out like a bandit.