Keke Palmer defends why she dates men who makes less.. Her Thot/OF/feminist followers turning on her

[Gloxina]

People always value unconditional love the most. the way babies loves momma, the ways dogs love their owners. the way a sibling love their little brothers or sisters.

yet want to place conditions on their romantic love, this man loves me, but he doesn't earn enough money to deserve my love back

Romantic love is always conditional.

If your romantic partner— spouse— isn’t holding up their end of the bargain the relationship will most likely end, or someone will cheat. Divorce and cheating wouldn’t be so common if people had unconditional love in romantic relationships.

And no it’s not all about money, but the same way a lot of men have issues with women gaining too much weight/letting themselves go, is the same way women have issues with a man who isn’t in a position to care for a family.
Unconditional love is for your family and children.
A man is supposed to keep a roof over his family’s head. A woman is supposed to manage/maintain what happens inside the home he provides for her.

The problem isn’t her being with a man who makes less than her; the problem is the type of man she goes for.


Be clear, Keke could’ve gotten knocked up by a damn accountant, a nurse, a physical therapist, etc and her situation would be 1000x better than it is right now. Those are respectable careers that would allow a man to provide for his child. SHE CHOOOSES BUMS. And it’s way worse when she does it because she LITERALLY has access to the most successful men because of her career.

Like I said before, when STEVE HARVEY of all people tried to hook her up and she turned him down that’s when I knew she was gone-gone. You can literally see how he takes care of Marjorie; you think he’s going to introduce you to men who ain’t on the same wavelength?!

 

[Gloxina]

The thing is, it isn’t even really about whether the woman makes more than the man. That’s just Keke’s specific situation. The women mad at her is because they just feel like a man should pay everything, period, with nothing in return, regardless of who makes what. At the end of the day Kekes overall message is really just finding a decent dude that you actually like and who works hard that u can build with.

Yeeea. It falls on deaf ears because she’s talking all that, but she getting knocked up by a dude who was basically unemployed.

The women who are demanding the traditional dynamic who aren’t traditional themselves are idiots, we know that. They are screaming about that because they want the opposite of what Keke has. No one should be looking to celebs anyway, but Keke literally did the same thing the broke(n) girls with no foresight do.

 

[10bandz]

Yeeea. It falls on deaf ears because she’s talking all that, but she getting knocked up by a dude who was basically unemployed.

The women who are demanding the traditional dynamic who aren’t traditional themselves are idiots, we know that. They are screaming about that because they want the opposite of what Keke has. No one should be looking to celebs anyway, but Keke literally did the same thing the broke(n) girls with no foresight do.

and she actually liked him

and he isn't even a bum he played college ball on a scholly and became a fitness trainer afterwards. Trainers can make hella money once they build up their clientele, which he could've done with Keke helping him.

And last time I checked the split happened not because of him.....because she was acting like a hoe at the Usher show. Looks like she has since realized all that social media hoe phase shyt is for the birds, it ruined her chance at building a family.

And it's all a lot better than being 35 with no man, no real prospects but you think you have options because you got flown out fukked and flown back home by guys who aren't even rich. Another thing that gets lost in these discussions is most of these women aren't hanging with "rich dudes".....it's cappers flexing rented shyt, tricking off scam proceeds.

It can "fall on deaf ears" so what, she still has her career while all the hoes in her comments have cap fantasies.

 

[Bumblebreh]

People always value unconditional love the most. the way babies loves momma, the ways dogs love their owners. the way a sibling love their little brothers or sisters.

yet want to place conditions on their romantic love, this man loves me, but he doesn't earn enough money to deserve my love back

Why is that an issue? I do believe that a relationship between two adults should be conditional. The average man can love a Keke Palmer, but you cannot expect a woman that is in her tax bracket to be submissive. He cannot match her lifestyle, he will feel out of place in her world. When a woman earns significantly more, as in she earns 500k a year and her man earns 60k a year, it never works in the long run.

and she actually liked him

and he isn't even a bum he played college ball on a scholly and became a fitness trainer afterwards. Trainers can make hella money once they build up their clientele, which he could've done with Keke helping him.

And last time I checked the split happened not because of him.....because she was acting like a hoe at the Usher show. Looks like she has since realized all that social media hoe phase shyt is for the birds, it ruined her chance at building a family.

And it's all a lot better than being 35 with no man, no real prospects but you think you have options because you got flown out fukked and flown back home by guys who aren't even rich. Another thing that gets lost in these discussions is most of these women aren't hanging with "rich dudes".....it's cappers flexing rented shyt, tricking off scam proceeds.

It can "fall on deaf ears" so what, she still has her career while all the hoes in her comments have cap fantasies.

Breh, you can like someone, but that does not mean that the person that you like is a suitable long term partner. Now I cannot comment on her ex current situation. But I will say this, I do think it is a huge gamble when a woman builds a man up, and in most cases it never ends well.

 

[Gloxina]

Why is that an issue? I do believe that a relationship between two adults should be conditional. The average man can love a Keke Palmer, but you cannot expect a woman that is in her tax bracket to be submissive. He cannot match her lifestyle, he will feel out of place in her world. When a woman earns significantly more, as in she earns 500k a year and her man earns 60k a year, it never works in the long run.




Breh, you can like someone, but that does not mean that the person that you like is a suitable long term partner. Now I cannot comment on her ex current situation. But I will say this, I do think it is a huge gamble when a woman builds a man up, and in most cases it never ends well.

 

[#1 pick]

Wasn't they on her side not long ago?

Yep, making her bd life hell but now she's seen the light and is perfectly fine with her bd

 

[#1 pick]

and she actually liked him

and he isn't even a bum he played college ball on a scholly and became a fitness trainer afterwards. Trainers can make hella money once they build up their clientele, which he could've done with Keke helping him.

And last time I checked the split happened not because of him.....because she was acting like a hoe at the Usher show. Looks like she has since realized all that social media hoe phase shyt is for the birds, it ruined her chance at building a family.

And it's all a lot better than being 35 with no man, no real prospects but you think you have options because you got flown out fukked and flown back home by guys who aren't even rich. Another thing that gets lost in these discussions is most of these women aren't hanging with "rich dudes".....it's cappers flexing rented shyt, tricking off scam proceeds.

It can "fall on deaf ears" so what, she still has her career while all the hoes in her comments have cap fantasies.

She's back with him and he joined the military

 

[DrBanneker]

This has always been the truth. Interracial marriages are still only about 10% of all marriages.

i know.

Insecure mufukkaz keep running with that narrative. But the 10% and outliers keep the computers and insecurity 'putin'

This is the truth.

I have been thinking part of the reason for the obsession and highlight online and in the media though is that the center of entertainment is Southern Cali which has some of the highest swirl rates (and biggest Black biracial population) in the USA. It is a bigger deal for Black people there than elsewhere except the rest of the west coast.

What Black folks in the South and DMV see is a lot different from folks like @Piff Perkins and @dora_da_destroyer. Almost all my Black friends out east and down South have Black spouses. People I know in the Bay Area it is like almost 50/50 for Black professionals men or women.

 

[Neuromancer]

This is the truth.

I have been thinking part of the reason for the obsession and highlight online and in the media though is that the center of entertainment is Southern Cali which has some of the highest swirl rates (and biggest Black biracial population) in the USA. It is a bigger deal for Black people there than elsewhere except the rest of the west coast.

What Black folks in the South and DMV see is a lot different from folks like @Piff Perkins and @dora_da_destroyer. Almost all my Black friends out east and down South have Black spouses. People I know in the Bay Area it is like almost 50/50 for Black professionals men or women.

Most of my friend group is black and all that are expect for one are either dating or married to a black woman.

 

[Rekkapryde]

Most of my friend group is black and all that are expect for one are either dating or married to a black woman.

Exactly the same for my college friends. Just one not married to a black woman

 

[Neuromancer]

Exactly the same for my college friends. Just one not married to a black woman

But then again people aren't looking at regular black men when they talk about the IR marrying pool just at athletes.

 

[The ADD]

Exactly the same for my college friends. Just one not married to a black woman

Mans was PAWGin in North Ave

 

[Black Magisterialness]

This is the truth.

I have been thinking part of the reason for the obsession and highlight online and in the media though is that the center of entertainment is Southern Cali which has some of the highest swirl rates (and biggest Black biracial population) in the USA. It is a bigger deal for Black people there than elsewhere except the rest of the west coast.

What Black folks in the South and DMV see is a lot different from folks like @Piff Perkins and @dora_da_destroyer. Almost all my Black friends out east and down South have Black spouses. People I know in the Bay Area it is like almost 50/50 for Black professionals men or women.

Out of my friend group, I was the only one with a not 100% black girl. But even she was mixed. I think the issue is that because of the low rates of interracial marriage, it's still an anomaly in the general public. So the Gods of Content push this stuff to make it seem like the "divestors" and "pawgers" are some sort of monolithic force coming to erase Black Consciousness. It's literally "Great Replacement Theory" for Black people.

 

[DrBanneker]

Most of my friend group is black and all that are expect for one are either dating or married to a black woman.

Out of my friend group, I was the only one with a not 100% black girl. But even she was mixed. I think the issue is that because of the low rates of interracial marriage, it's still an anomaly in the general public. So the Gods of Content push this stuff to make it seem like the "divestors" and "pawgers" are some sort of monolithic force coming to erase Black Consciousness. It's literally "Great Replacement Theory" for Black people.

Same for me and my wife's friend circles. Almost all Black except a handful.

I agree the anamoly aspect is a part of it.

For certain parts of the country and certain fields it seems, the skew is different and obsessing over these small non-representative groups makes IR look bigger than it really is.

Black American men and women have some of the lowest IR rates in the western world across all income and levels of education, even compared to the "on code" groups, but if you look at Black male athletes or some top percent professional Black women in some areas (lots of lawyers and women in tech for some reason from my experience) you can create or push narratives that are contrary.

I live in Philly which has a lot of Black love but go to some of these suburbs and the (small) Black population there has a way high IR couple proportion.

 

[Black Magisterialness]

Same for me and my wife's friend circles. Almost all Black except a handful.

I agree the anamoly aspect is a part of it.

For certain parts of the country and certain fields it seems, the skew is different and obsessing over these small non-representative groups makes IR look bigger than it really is.

Black American men and women have some of the lowest IR rates in the western world across all income and levels of education, even compared to the "on code" groups, but if you look at Black male athletes or some top percent professional Black women in some areas (lots of lawyers and women in tech for some reason from my experience) you can create or push narratives that are contrary.

I live in Philly which has a lot of Black love but go to some of these suburbs and the (small) Black population there has a way high IR couple proportion.

I actually talked to my auntie about this who managed/bartended a bar for a number of years so she knew tons of NBA, MLB players back in the day. She said her and some friends were hanging out with John Salley and Rick Mahorn and asked them "why do ya'll date so many white girls?"

And Salley basically said, "I'm all over the country and most of the country ain't Black. You go to a league party, your accountant/lawyer/team owner throws an event...it's all white women there. It's just proximity."

This is why if you notice, the more educated and wealthy black women got....the more wealthy black men married them.