He definitely has a point.
My observations of couples and the dating scene at the small liberal arts school vs the large hbcu was like night and day (no pun intended
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Were there serious relationships and couples at the HBCU? Of course.
But the pursuit of serious and long term relationships wasn't nearly as much of a priority there as the small liberal arts PWI.
Now if I had spent time at a large public PWI I'm sure I would've witnessed more casual flings but I've spent enough time near the large schools to know that despite all the casual fukking (and cheating) that goes on at these PWIs, at least most of those white and non black students still prioritize finding a future partner.
I will say that both the men and women were in On the action, so You can't just paint this picture that black woman are not looking for a mate in college.
because there were PLENTY of brothas that were just tryna get some ass by any means necessary...
Which resulted in a lot of the young women getting hurt and reinforcing what they probably heard from their mother and aunties about "forget a man, just get your degree so you won't depend on a man" etc etc al. man
But a lot of bw don't even really know what to look for in a man when it comes to dating, outside of physical attraction and "clout".
They're really setting themselves up to get screwed over in many cases.
Tldr: Kevin is right, but you can't just fault black women for focusing on their degree instead of marriage.
