Exactly breh lmfao. Id argue from 25-29 every year i was hitting up a classmates wedding. Thats why im like for men either find your wife in college and if you dont grind it out and then play the field once established.
No question. I was one of the first in my circle to get married, but even still, I was either in or invited to a bunch of weddings throughout my 20’s. I wasn’t looking to get married, but found a girl I wanted to build with. Prior to that, my mind was on getting my life on point and playing the field and then finding a wife in my 30’s.
A man with his head on straight usually does one or the other, marry early with a rider to build with or get your shyt together and then take your pick. Doing it my way gave me an adventure with a day one rider, but I had to miss out on a prolonged period of strange ass getting and she had to be patient through the grind and starve years. A breh that chooses to wait to get married is more of a man and able to provide, but doesn’t get that same institutional knowledge of a woman that is seasoned and built to his specification while in his prime years.
Both are good paths and a matter of preference. But the point that we’re both making is that the people that think of it with this kind of intention will always find each other in undergrad if they want to.