The first guy brought this up before Kevin cut him off, but an escort is just sex. Most folks value more; a bond. Sex is nice, but a home-cooked meal, cuddles, confiding in someone, sharing your success, etc. For some guys, the investment in a relationship is priceless. If you find an amazing partner, it should be a mutual investment.
Someone in the chat explained it best: An escort doesn't have a good return on investment. A good partner does.
EDIT: I wasn't trying to be mean, I forgot your were a female poster. This isn't about men looking relationship at the moment of the interaction.
So dudes gonna to clubs getting liquored up, running trains with their boys, hitting DM, etc., etc. for;
*checks notes*
Most folks value more; a bond. Sex is nice, but a home-cooked meal, cuddles, confiding in someone, sharing your success, etc.
???
Again, ya'll cannot separate just
fukking versus looking for a wife.
I, personally, would not indulge, but, Kevin is right.
These dudes talking this "talking to women builds characters" are joking. Chasing tail doesn't help your professional life.
He's right, instead of $1,500 a month in dating, hitting the club <<< $500 for a pro and $1000 in mentoring, buying the right suits.
Today's show isn't about Backpage vs. Getting a wife.
Only about 30% of black people are married. This ain't working. Especially when so many of us wanna waste two years to DECIDE if we wanna get married.