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:ohhh: Oh, ok. So you can have the skillset, but not get the matching job bc you're not qualified to get into the bldg where the job takes place.


:francis: Simple, selfish, and crazy. I feel bad for that old man. She the type to kill him for the insurance, but mad sloppy so you know she gon get caught.
Yes. I'd still be on the job had I not lost my clearance. Because I had a Top Secret Clearance before I got the job despite knowing nothing about the job when I was hired.


She defemitely tried to kill his career dude got to be a laughing stock on the yard
 

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Even on here, we just scared of divorce and our culture doesn't value husbands.

We overindulge in wives/mothers and act like men are dead weight in the homes. But, most of us can deal with that if it wasn't for family court and divorce court on the other end. It feels like a lose-lose.

iu


Kevin was 100% right about this pic. Will is one of the biggest block office draws ever and still makes it about Jada and that still ain't enough not to embarrass him in public.
That's the thing she embrassed him. Marriage important to dude. He fukked around on her and it never came out yet she moved extremely sloppy.
 

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:heh: Lying ass, 'grass is greener' friends, who also cry on their shoulders about these men. I know, it doesnt make sense, but let me explain: you'll have a bunch of women who been friends since their 20s, never married. So, even in ltr's, they're still officially single, hang out with single women, and think like single women. (This is also true for women with short marriages.)

I've never been in these groups, but from what I gather, they just positively reinforce themselves into spinsterhood. No, you dont need to do what he say. No, enjoy your food. No, if he dont let you do girls night out/ girls trips, he's restricting your freedom, this ain't the 50s. You can do better.

I'm sure brehettes in these friend groups will tell me I'm wrong, how would I even know, right? But tell me this. Has a homegirl ever said to you, ":usure: Girl, you getting too big"? Or, ":patrice: Maybe you should try to work it out. Yall got two kids and this is probably the best deal you gon get"?
It's fukked up but it's kinda not their fault it's the way women are designed. They are supposed to seek out the best genetic deal and they can't too attached to any one Man because if that dude dies she'll have to get with a new Man for protection and provision.
The fittest genes survive

We can and should overcome base biological urges

It's the same for Men it really doesn't make sense to go way out of your way for the possibility of sex especially with multiple women but we do.

Again Men's job is to spread their seed widely so that there can be genetic variety.


Civilization is about maintaining the all important balance of pair bonding.
 

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Even on here, we just scared of divorce and our culture doesn't value husbands.

We overindulge in wives/mothers and act like men are dead weight in the homes
. But, most of us can deal with that if it wasn't for family court and divorce court on the other end. It feels like a lose-lose.

iu


Kevin was 100% right about this pic. Will is one of the biggest block office draws ever and still makes it about Jada and that still ain't enough not to embarrass him in public.
I esp liked what Kevin said about the wives of hvm playing the background bc that's exactly what I do. I'm the cheerleader, helper, and inspirational speech giver. The only attention I'm supposed to attract is the kind that says I make him look better.

And that's not even me. If you knew us personally, you'd know that I'm the more... personally magnetic of the two of us, but I purposely keep my light under a bushel. I dont even have sm. I have ONE pic on the internet, and that was at a charity event.

This is what I signed up for, and no, it's never been said outright. I just do what I'm supposed to do bc I know better.
 

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It's fukked up but it's kinda not their fault it's the way women are designed. They are supposed to seek out the best genetic deal and they can't too attached to any one Man because if that dude dies she'll have to get with a new Man for protection and provision.
The fittest genes survive
Not exactly. Pair bonding is advantageous to women. The modern women having kids with no pair bonding is starkly unnatural.

Further, this 'best genetic' deal thing is murky. Bc the likelihood of your children to survive long enough to pass on your genes is predicated on your partner living long enough to protect and provide until they reach adulthood. I dont see any of that calculus taking place. The men they have kids for dont even be that physically desirable if we being honest.

You're right about the attachment thing, but at the same time, we also know that a man will never protect another man's children with the same vigor, so staying with the father is optimal. Again, I see no large scale acknowledgement of these facts.
 

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Not exactly. Pair bonding is advantageous to women. The modern women having kids with no pair bonding is starkly unnatural.

Further, this 'best genetic' deal thing is murky. Bc the likelihood of your children to survive long enough to pass on your genes is predicated on your partner living long enough to protect and provide until they reach adulthood. I dont see any of that calculus taking place. The men they have kids for dont even be that physically desirable if we being honest.

You're right about the attachment thing, but at the same time, we also know that a man will never protect another man's children with the same vigor, so staying with the father is optimal. Again, I see no large scale acknowledgement of these facts.
I was talking about base survival going back to Homo Erectus and continuing till the beginning of the Agricultural revolution.

But yes Modern women move funny based on what's most important on child rearing. Thotting then having a baby by the only Man stupid enough to shoot up a club is dumb, but it's hard to tell "grown folks" what to do.


Think that society that's been established for thousands of years needs major reformation brehettes.
 

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Why the fukk are women so scared of marriage...but complain about how terrible the dating scene is?

The best bar Kevin had was; ain't nothing out there but dikks ("cock carousel" I avoid red-pill terms).

Because that's the ultimate accountability sign. So scared of being held to a high standard, that they'll rather be known as a Baby Mother than an Ex-Wife
 

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The black family needs to take lessons. This whole broken relationship system is killing folks.
It ain't looking good. Black Gen-Z/Millennial women are the main ones using silly terms like "Talking Stage", "Situatonship" and subscribing to the notion to "date multiple men until someone shows you they're serious". All of which put up roadblocks well before marriage - but not kids necessarily:snoop: How are you so busy with school, work, your "business" but have time to talk, text, and go on dates with multiple men every week?

And I understand the "Living Apart Together" scenario Kevin has brought up recently, but modern women will interpret this as yet another fail-safe unless Kevin clarifies its intended for women beyond their childbearing years 45+
 

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It ain't looking good. Black Gen-Z/Millennial women are the main ones using silly terms like "Talking Stage", "Situatonship" and subscribing to the notion to "date multiple men until someone shows you they're serious". All of which put up roadblocks well before marriage - but not kids necessarily:snoop: How are you so busy with school, work, your "business" but have time to talk, text, and go on dates with multiple men every week?

And I understand the "Living Apart Together" scenario Kevin has brought up recently, but modern women will interpret this as yet another fail-safe unless Kevin clarifies its intended for women beyond their childbearing years 45+
A lot of these women don't know how to be girlfriends let alone wives, but you can't tell women anything about romance because they invented it. :troll:
 

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Not exactly. Pair bonding is advantageous to women. The modern women having kids with no pair bonding is starkly unnatural.

Further, this 'best genetic' deal thing is murky. Bc the likelihood of your children to survive long enough to pass on your genes is predicated on your partner living long enough to protect and provide until they reach adulthood. I dont see any of that calculus taking place. The men they have kids for dont even be that physically desirable if we being honest.

You're right about the attachment thing, but at the same time, we also know that a man will never protect another man's children with the same vigor, so staying with the father is optimal. Again, I see no large scale acknowledgement of these facts.
Are we in the fall of Greece?
 

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I esp liked what Kevin said about the wives of hvm playing the background bc that's exactly what I do. I'm the cheerleader, helper, and inspirational speech giver. The only attention I'm supposed to attract is the kind that says I make him look better.

And that's not even me. If you knew us personally, you'd know that I'm the more... personally magnetic of the two of us, but I purposely keep my light under a bushel. I dont even have sm. I have ONE pic on the internet, and that was at a charity event.

This is what I signed up for, and no, it's never been said outright. I just do what I'm supposed to do bc I know better.
Your man also ensures you're taken care of because you're both playing your roles. Do you think the need to be in the limelight is what causes competition between genders in our community?
 

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Are we in the fall of Greece?
:pachaha: You just asked me that like two weeks ago.

:jbhmm: My specialty was classical Greece, understood as the history, architecture, art, and literature of 5th-4th c bc Athens. It was a period of increased autonomy and expansion. In some ways, my view might be more optimistic than you expect bc I studied how to come up, not how to fail.

So. What preceded classical Athens was a murky period they refer to as their dark ages. I feel we, as both bp and americans, entered a similar period in the 80s. It's been downhill societally ever since. We're obviously in decline, but a decline eventually ends. We just have to be ready to re build. The internet in and of itself is accelerationist, so I don't think we'll have to wait long.

An ending is coming, but there's always something on the other side. :ld:


Do you think the need to be in the limelight is what causes competition between genders in our community?
Definitely. But that's a facile reading. The limelight can be lucrative. Who can blame a woman who has to work for using all tools at her disposal?

Its an unfortunate situation. Even itt, you got grown men who balked at working 60 hrs plus when necessary and in their youth. Well, what that means is, any woman they deal with long term or marry will be forced to 'shop herself around' for the best deal and acquiesce to that third party's demands. So, no vacay when you want- she cant get time off. No, she can't stay home and nurture your children optimally during their most important years- you need her income to maintain your lifestyle.

:francis:
 

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:pachaha: You just asked me that like two weeks ago.





Definitely. But that's a facile reading. The limelight can be lucrative. Who can blame a woman who has to work for using all tools at her disposal?

Its an unfortunate situation. Even itt, you got grown men who balked at working 60 hrs plus when necessary and in their youth. Well, what that means is, any woman they deal with long term or marry will be forced to 'shop herself around' for the best deal and acquiesce to that third party's demands. So, no vacay when you want- she cant get time off. No, she can't stay home and nurture your children optimally during their most important years- you need her income to maintain your lifestyle.

:francis:

Sorry I took a nasty head kick last week. Memory hazy.:mjgrin:


What if you both agree to live minimalisticly?
 
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