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I want to feel sorry for the 38 year old lady, started to, but when he asked or she made mention of the 3 men she dated and didn't know their last name, my empathy shut down :francis:



That there, what he pointed out is a MAJOR issue with modern women, they do not know who they are dating. I promise you, kid you not, I could date a woman and still be married and she at least in the beginning would not know, especially with me not having any social media. Women do not ask questions about the dudes they are dating until AFTER sex or 30 or so days down the line. They do not know how to VET dudes that they are interested in dating or getting to know.

I use to get frustrated about why women didnt ask me anything about myself upon meeting or talking to them other "how's your day" or "What you have planned", I would find myself knowing everything about the woman I was messing/dating and in return they would know NOTHING about me. Ask them what's my favorite thing to eat, and they had a million dollars on the line if they chose the correct answer, they wouldn't be able to tell you. That use to upset me until I realized I got further with women (still do) by remaining a mystery. Dumb as that sounds

I could literally live a double life with the women that I mess with, they don't start to privy with the questions from what I've noticed, is when they have started to care/like you more than you liking them. that's when the questions starts but those questions are more so along the lines of insecurity and not peek of interest, and that's when I know, I got you bytch.
"Are you still talking to other girls, do you still have female friends" etc. Not the "What can I do to make you happy or what has a woman done outside of sex to make you happy" etc :wow:

They ask questions to keep from getting hurt, they ask those insecure type of ass questions :mjlol:

But the fact that this woman on his call didn't know those dudes full names, I am not shocked about that at all:francis:



It got to the point, where women would say "I feel like I done told you everything about me, or you know all my life and drama, I don't know anything about you" I sit back saying "shiddd you don't ask, I aint telling you shyt" but my reality answer be on some "You have an interesting life" or "I just be wanting to know all and everything about you" which is me really deflecting to keep her from asking questions because she's done told me all her story and now feeling guilty, shame (depending on how fukked up her life is) or having the "selfish, it's all about me feeling"

It's nah with me, once she fails to ask question about me in the beginning, you don't get access to me now since you didn't care in the beginning to know, you won't know shyt going forward and many of my answers will be vague like a motherfuker. :russ:
 
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I want to feel sorry for the 38 year old lady, started to, but when he asked or she made mention of the 3 men she dated and didn't know their last name, my empathy shut down :francis:



That there, what he pointed out is a MAJOR issue with modern women, they do not know who they are dating. I promise you, kid you not, I could date a woman and still be married and she at least in the beginning would not know, especially with me not having any social media. Women do not ask questions about the dudes they are dating until AFTER sex or 30 or so days down the line. They do not know how to VET dudes that they are interested in dating or getting to know.

I use to get frustrated about why women didnt ask me anything about myself upon meeting or talking to them other "how's your day" or "What you have planned", I would find myself knowing everything about the woman I was messing/dating and in return they would know NOTHING about me. Ask them what's my favorite thing to eat, and they had a million dollars on the line if they chose the correct answer, they wouldn't be able to tell you. That use to upset me until I realized I got further with women (still do) by remaining a mystery. Dumb as that sounds

I could literally live a double life with the women that I mess with, they don't start to privy with the questions I've noticed, when they have started to care/like/ you more than you liking them. that's when the questions starts but those questions are more so along the lines of insecurity not peek of interest, and that's when I know, I got you bytch.
"Are you still talking to other girls, do you still have female friends" etc. Not the "What can I do to make you happy or what has a woman done outside of sex to make you happy" etc :wow:

They ask questions to keep from getting hurt, they ask those insecure type of ass questions :mjlol:

But the fact that this woman on his call didn't know those dudes full names, I am not shocked about that at all:francis:



It got to the point, where women would say "I feel like I done told you everything about me, or you know all my life and drama, I don't know anything about you" I sit back saying "shiddd you don't ask, I aint telling you shyt" but my reality answer be on some "You have an interesting life" or "I just be wanting to know all and everything about you" which is me really deflecting to keep her from asking questions because she's done told me all her story and now feeling guilty, shame (depending on how fukked up her life is) or having the "selfish, it's all about me feeling"

It's nah with once she feels that, you don't get access to me now since you didn't care in the beginning to know, you won't know shyt going forward and many of my answers will be vague like a motherfuker. :russ:
I wonder if that's narcissism or what? You date a dude and don't know what his last name is or what he enjoys doing for a living.
 

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Even on here, we just scared of divorce and our culture doesn't value husbands.

We overindulge in wives/mothers and act like men are dead weight in the homes. But, most of us can deal with that if it wasn't for family court and divorce court on the other end. It feels like a lose-lose.

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Kevin was 100% right about this pic. Will is one of the biggest block office draws ever and still makes it about Jada and that still ain't enough not to embarrass him in public.
This pic always rubbed me the wrong way. He is joking but it took me along time to realize she doesn't think he is and neither does the people looking at it. I don't think Will realized it either .
 

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This pic always rubbed me the wrong way. He is joking but it took me along time to realize she doesn't think he is and neither does the people looking at it. I don't think Will realized it either .
Even her pose (head up, chest out ) is kinda masculine. She looks like she just accomplished some great feat. :skip:

The pose clashes with the dress, imo.
 

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It ain't looking good. Black Gen-Z/Millennial women are the main ones using silly terms like "Talking Stage", "Situatonship" and subscribing to the notion to "date multiple men until someone shows you they're serious". All of which put up roadblocks well before marriage - but not kids necessarily:snoop: How are you so busy with school, work, your "business" but have time to talk, text, and go on dates with multiple men every week?

And I understand the "Living Apart Together" scenario Kevin has brought up recently, but modern women will interpret this as yet another fail-safe unless Kevin clarifies its intended for women beyond their childbearing years 45+

Breh, and I really hope KS do a show on this element, I'm not sure how he's going to do it, but breh, I've dated women with a kid or kids, and they seem to be the most available women on earth, I'm talking always free :snoop: I would think that they would be the ones that I would have to fight for their time, by them having kids, Nope, Never the case, I have yet to run into a problem where a woman that I was dating with a child, said, nah we can't go because I have lil man man tonight or me and the kid, kids are doing something.

It's like, you have 1, 2 or so or more kids, I should be the one trying my hardest to fit in your schedule:what:


These chicks be so bored with kids, and I'm like how are you bored with kids in the house or a child :what: Play some checkers or UNO with man man or do some extra Homework, you shouldn't be BORED and you have a child or children, the fukk:what:


Breh, no lie, I thought it was a joke at first, but the term "fukk them kids" is really a serious thing :pachaha:


I can't tell you how many times, I've said to myself, dayum she has a lot of time on her hand with a child, and truth be told, women with a kid or kids be so easy to date/smash. They're just looking for something at this point in their lives smh.

But to add on what you said, these women are not busy at all. They have kids and still be Bored. If had 2-3 kids, no way my ass is sitting up in a house being bored :mjlol:
 

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I wonder if that's narcissism or what? You date a dude and don't know what his last name is or what he enjoys doing for a living.

I have no idea breh, he had a few callers on his show about two or three weeks ago and he asked the ladies "what did your s/o graduate in college, what does he have his degree in" and they couldn't tell him :mjlol::mjlol:


Chicks been living with their dudes for 1-4 years and couldn't tell Kevin what their s/o had a degree in :mjlol:


shyts sad out here breh
 

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I want to feel sorry for the 38 year old lady, started to, but when he asked or she made mention of the 3 men she dated and didn't know their last name, my empathy shut down :francis:



That there, what he pointed out is a MAJOR issue with modern women, they do not know who they are dating. I promise you, kid you not, I could date a woman and still be married and she at least in the beginning would not know, especially with me not having any social media. Women do not ask questions about the dudes they are dating until AFTER sex or 30 or so days down the line. They do not know how to VET dudes that they are interested in dating or getting to know.

I use to get frustrated about why women didnt ask me anything about myself upon meeting or talking to them other "how's your day" or "What you have planned", I would find myself knowing everything about the woman I was messing/dating and in return they would know NOTHING about me. Ask them what's my favorite thing to eat, and they had a million dollars on the line if they chose the correct answer, they wouldn't be able to tell you. That use to upset me until I realized I got further with women (still do) by remaining a mystery. Dumb as that sounds

I could literally live a double life with the women that I mess with, they don't start to privy with the questions from what I've noticed, is when they have started to care/like you more than you liking them. that's when the questions starts but those questions are more so along the lines of insecurity and not peek of interest, and that's when I know, I got you bytch.
"Are you still talking to other girls, do you still have female friends" etc. Not the "What can I do to make you happy or what has a woman done outside of sex to make you happy" etc :wow:

They ask questions to keep from getting hurt, they ask those insecure type of ass questions :mjlol:

But the fact that this woman on his call didn't know those dudes full names, I am not shocked about that at all:francis:



It got to the point, where women would say "I feel like I done told you everything about me, or you know all my life and drama, I don't know anything about you" I sit back saying "shiddd you don't ask, I aint telling you shyt" but my reality answer be on some "You have an interesting life" or "I just be wanting to know all and everything about you" which is me really deflecting to keep her from asking questions because she's done told me all her story and now feeling guilty, shame (depending on how fukked up her life is) or having the "selfish, it's all about me feeling"

It's nah with me, once she fails to ask question about me in the beginning, you don't get access to me now since you didn't care in the beginning to know, you won't know shyt going forward and many of my answers will be vague like a motherfuker. :russ:
I want to feel sorry for the 38 year old lady, started to, but when he asked or she made mention of the 3 men she dated and didn't know their last name, my empathy shut down :francis:



That there, what he pointed out is a MAJOR issue with modern women, they do not know who they are dating. I promise you, kid you not, I could date a woman and still be married and she at least in the beginning would not know, especially with me not having any social media. Women do not ask questions about the dudes they are dating until AFTER sex or 30 or so days down the line. They do not know how to VET dudes that they are interested in dating or getting to know.

I use to get frustrated about why women didnt ask me anything about myself upon meeting or talking to them other "how's your day" or "What you have planned", I would find myself knowing everything about the woman I was messing/dating and in return they would know NOTHING about me. Ask them what's my favorite thing to eat, and they had a million dollars on the line if they chose the correct answer, they wouldn't be able to tell you. That use to upset me until I realized I got further with women (still do) by remaining a mystery. Dumb as that sounds

I could literally live a double life with the women that I mess with, they don't start to privy with the questions from what I've noticed, is when they have started to care/like you more than you liking them. that's when the questions starts but those questions are more so along the lines of insecurity and not peek of interest, and that's when I know, I got you bytch.
"Are you still talking to other girls, do you still have female friends" etc. Not the "What can I do to make you happy or what has a woman done outside of sex to make you happy" etc :wow:

They ask questions to keep from getting hurt, they ask those insecure type of ass questions :mjlol:

But the fact that this woman on his call didn't know those dudes full names, I am not shocked about that at all:francis:



It got to the point, where women would say "I feel like I done told you everything about me, or you know all my life and drama, I don't know anything about you" I sit back saying "shiddd you don't ask, I aint telling you shyt" but my reality answer be on some "You have an interesting life" or "I just be wanting to know all and everything about you" which is me really deflecting to keep her from asking questions because she's done told me all her story and now feeling guilty, shame (depending on how fukked up her life is) or having the "selfish, it's all about me feeling"

It's nah with me, once she fails to ask question about me in the beginning, you don't get access to me now since you didn't care in the beginning to know, you won't know shyt going forward and many of my answers will be vague like a motherfuker. :russ:


If I could encapsulate my success with women it's because I know way more about them than they ever knew about me. It was usually my fault I generally like people and want to know more about them. Then when I meet someone with a similar background I'll bring up something that someone else told me and chicks will just tell you all about them right there.

I know that con men use it to "cut into" someone and spies call it elictitation. Meet some one from somewhere else in a place they are new to and you have a best friend. If you bend your two fingers to a Vietnamese person and you told them that a Vietnamese person told you it was the "Thumbs Up" sign They'd get mad then laugh because that's their version of the middle finger. Little shyt like that endears you to people especially women who rather talk about themselves or their feelings than you. Like you said the only time they'll ask you questions is when they love you and trying to figure out a good present to give you.
 
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