I want to feel sorry for the 38 year old lady, started to, but when he asked or she made mention of the 3 men she dated and didn't know their last name, my empathy shut down
That there, what he pointed out is a MAJOR issue with modern women, they do not know who they are dating. I promise you, kid you not, I could date a woman and still be married and she at least in the beginning would not know, especially with me not having any social media. Women do not ask questions about the dudes they are dating until AFTER sex or 30 or so days down the line. They do not know how to VET dudes that they are interested in dating or getting to know.
I use to get frustrated about why women didnt ask me anything about myself upon meeting or talking to them other "how's your day" or "What you have planned", I would find myself knowing everything about the woman I was messing/dating and in return they would know NOTHING about me. Ask them what's my favorite thing to eat, and they had a million dollars on the line if they chose the correct answer, they wouldn't be able to tell you. That use to upset me until I realized I got further with women (still do) by remaining a mystery. Dumb as that sounds
I could literally live a double life with the women that I mess with, they don't start to privy with the questions from what I've noticed, is when they have started to care/like you more than you liking them. that's when the questions starts but those questions are more so along the lines of insecurity and not peek of interest, and that's when I know, I got you bytch.
"Are you still talking to other girls, do you still have female friends" etc. Not the "What can I do to make you happy or what has a woman done outside of sex to make you happy" etc
They ask questions to keep from getting hurt, they ask those insecure type of ass questions
But the fact that this woman on his call didn't know those dudes full names, I am not shocked about that at all
It got to the point, where women would say "I feel like I done told you everything about me, or you know all my life and drama, I don't know anything about you" I sit back saying "shiddd you don't ask, I aint telling you shyt" but my reality answer be on some "You have an interesting life" or "I just be wanting to know all and everything about you" which is me really deflecting to keep her from asking questions because she's done told me all her story and now feeling guilty, shame (depending on how fukked up her life is) or having the "selfish, it's all about me feeling"
It's nah with me, once she fails to ask question about me in the beginning, you don't get access to me now since you didn't care in the beginning to know, you won't know shyt going forward and many of my answers will be vague like a motherfuker.