Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

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A few of them are, but their mostly worried about me saving hoes or being taken advantage of.
Just be careful and run things past your own longevity detector. My own mother, a married woman herself, has, at times, given me TERRIBLE advice. When I told her, "That's not my busines and im not getting involved," she had a damn epiphany and said, and I quote, "if I had a friend like you, me and your father mighta still been together."

Old =/= wise.

I have found a mixed bag on line for mentors. Some older brehs who have better marriages than others but also realized their first marriages messed up due to their own issues. They are a lot of them times married to women who are more traditional in their second marriages it seems.
That's the result of not being red pilled before marriage. Plus, a lot of redpill stuff neglects the relationship stuff. I have one resource for married men or men in ltrs who are having trouble maintaining frame long term, etc.

 

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Yeah. I think that kinda any black dude in10000⁰900 there since the issues white folks have are more so entitlement Eliot Rodgers type shyt. With us a lot of it is years of trauma and security/survival related.
:deadrose: People on this board blaming Kevin Samuels for a home invasion

Because, and I quote; his content algorihthm leads to more extreme shyt on YouTube.

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link?
 

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Just be careful and run things past your own longevity detector. My own mother, a married woman herself, has, at times, given me TERRIBLE advice. When I told her, "That's not my busines and im not getting involved," she had a damn epiphany and said, and I quote, "if I had a friend like you, me and your father mighta still been together."

Old =/= wise.


That's the result of not being red pilled before marriage. Plus, a lot of redpill stuff neglects the relationship stuff. I have one resource for married men or men in ltrs who are having trouble maintaining frame long term, etc.


You read this?
 

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She keeps saying I and He. Its really an important thing in couples therapy.

When discussing problems you should say "How can WE recover from job loss?" "How can WE retire?" "How can WE raise more children?" "How can WE get our spark back?"

The other way implies its the other person's problem and that's not a MARRIAGE.

:wow: Never even crossed my mind

she seemed to have good intentions though, just timid and focused on self preservation.
 

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Brehette espcapes dude trying to break into her Bronx apartment

Brehette espcapes dude trying to break into her Bronx apartment (can't quote cuz I blocked 'em right after)

:wow: Never even crossed my mind

she seemed to have good intentions though, just timid and focused on self preservation.

Too many women on this wave.

Even my little sister posting "Ladies, watch your surroundings this Winter when you're alone" type shyt :ohmy:

All over Facebook, too (family and high school friends)
 

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When he said could you date a man making 42,000 a year...instead he needs to say what about the man that fixes your A/C, the man who works on your car, the man who delivers your mail, the man who does your taxes, the man who checks you out at CVS, the man who gives you money at the bank, the man who is the security officer at your job, the man who pumps your gas...THAT is your level at 38.

No lies told. My neighbor was 42 and still single. She made over 80k and her bf made like $35k. She went and locked him down anyway. They instinctively know when the last train is leaving the station, and they’re a lot more open to brothas making much less.
 

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The manosphere was always white supremacist, eat the meat and spit out the bones. Sometimes I find value in just watching wp without getting involved. The early manosphere was one such occasion.

Peep game tho: they started the manosphere, ww got on code, and a few years later you got #tradwife and marriages producing children. :usure:
It's some half truths in there, but your right regarding what it turned into. I give them credit for coming up with the name, but the real manosphere started in cotton fields, and alot of those teachings can still be heard in black male spaces. I understand why you thought that tho, our ancestors never really gave it a name. They just called it "Game". Long story short, all Cody did was sit outside the Barbershop with a pen and some paper, and called it "Red Pill"

:lolbron:

About - Negromanosphere For us, by us. :ehh:
 

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My own mother, a married woman herself, has, at times, given me TERRIBLE advice.
Yeah parents are human too and as we grow we realize they sometimes have less answers than we do.

Plus, a lot of redpill stuff neglects the relationship stuff.
I think that's because at its core it's about the individual growth and not ltr which seems kind of short sighted or limiting. But you can be Red pill and be in an LTR, but it seems like a lot of people leave that part out of the equation.
I have one resource for married men or men in ltrs who are having trouble maintaining frame long term, etc.
This seems useful. I think a lot of dudes get exhausted with maintaining frame if they weren't RP for a very long time. It feels like sleeping with the enemy I guess, always having guard up. Though I suppose it doesn't have to be.
 

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It's some half truths in there, but your right regarding what it turned into. I give them credit for coming up with the name, but the real manosphere started in cotton fields, and alot of those teachings can still be heard in black male spaces. I understand why you thought that tho, our ancestors never really gave it a name. They just called it "Game". Long story short, all Cody did was sit outside the Barbershop with a pen and some paper, and called it "Red Pill"

:lolbron:

About - Negromanosphere For us, by us. :ehh:
There was a white guy who had a site that admitted that the PUA shyt and Red Pill shyt was just old school black pimp game. I can't remember the site. I think what @HarlemHottie was saying is that there are cac women who are adapting to be those traditional wives for these red pill cacs and we either don't have that or don't have much of it. Which is odd because Scherazade Ali has been around longer than these red pill cac women. But black folk have more issues that split us up, which lend credence to Willie Lynch.
 

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There was a white guy who had a site that admitted that the PUA shyt and Red Pill shyt was just old school black pimp game. I can't remember the site. I think what @HarlemHottie was saying is that there are cac women who are adapting to be those traditional wives for these red pill cacs and we either don't have that or don't have much of it. Which is odd because Scherazade Ali has been around longer than these red pill cac women. But black folk have more issues that split us up, which lend credence to Willie Lynch.
Ah, ok. Yeah, I didn't see the full conversation, I only caught the middle. She's not wrong tho, I just wanted to add some clarity on the origins.
 

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Watching/Listening to the show tonight.

KS says nursing isn't a career, that it's a job. I disagree. Nursing is a career. A very stable albeit demanding one.
I feel the same about USPS and Feds....once you get in you stay, with pension. Career IMO.

A quick add to my other point about women and working. Once they work for like 8-10 years FT, every day, normal amount of time off...they get super tired of working and want to be taken care of because they tired of being independent. I know a woman who told me straight up she would love to be taken care of and not work. Maybe work PT if she gets bored. She's 39.
 

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Watching/Listening to the show tonight.

KS says nursing isn't a career, that it's a job. I disagree. Nursing is a career. A very stable albeit demanding one.
I feel the same about USPS and Feds....once you get in you stay, with pension. Career IMO.

A quick add to my other point about women and working. Once they work for like 8-10 years FT, every day, normal amount of time off...they get super tired of working and want to be taken care of because they tired of being independent. I know a woman who told me straight up she would love to be taken care of and not work. Maybe work PT if she gets bored. She's 39.

whats the 20 yr trajectory of roles a nurse achieves on their ladder/hierarchy
 
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