Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

[BujuBoombastic]

6 months to a year is not enough time to marry someone in most cases. You don’t really know a person until you live with them for a year.

Rassss

Don Cheadle married his long time partner last year.
They been together for over 28 years now. He took that long to married his long time partner.
It's mind blogging but I understand

 

[Two Stacks]

6 months to a year is not enough time to marry someone in most cases. You don’t really know a person until you live with them for a year.

I say 1 to 2 years then you should know. 3 maximum if you're trying to do something like finish a difficult degree or pay some debt off. if you been around the person kicking it/talking; dating/fukking for 2-3 years and you ain't tryna marry them...leave. UNLESS you have both agreed you don't wanna be married but you DO want to be exclusive with each other.

Women today go have fun, have babies, THEN try to go to school and get married after school. So now you 31-32 like where's my husband Doing it backwards. Thinking somebody gone sit around and wait till you "allow" them to marry you. What do they get? Nothing much of value. Yea we want p*ssy but the OTHER shyt keeps us there.

 

[Two Stacks]

the young 17 year old breh with the internships and the jobs; along with the Stanford breh made me proud

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

6 months to a year is not enough time to marry someone in most cases. You don’t really know a person until you live with them for a year.

You will never truly know someone
As a man you know what time it is after 6 months
Hell
Most men automatically put women in categories the first night
I’m not saying to rush into marriage between 18-25
Those are tough years to navigate emotionally
Young marriages are subjected to monumental failure unless both parties know they are working to a common goal
Have A1 communication skills
Understand that growth will happen and they may not see each other in the same light
Pre-marriage counseling
After 26 you know
shyt you know at 30 if this woman is right for you and worth the risk
People use the prequalifier of “ moving in” as a shield
You can move in with someone for a year and they could still be on their best behavior
Get married
Happy for years and a trigger could occur and demons come rushing out the closet
Nothing is guaranteed and people sway like the wind
Old nikkas know
Old bytches know too
The problem lays in people being guarded, wanting guarantees and not dealing with their crosses to bare
Ain’t no guarantees in this bytch
Either you want to be married
Or
You like being single and living your life
Having companionship from time to time
People just can’t be real with themselves
And stay lying to kick it
Wasting each other’s time when they both could find mates suitable for the lifestyle they want to really live in

 

[LauderdaleBoss]

You will never truly know someone
As a man you know what time it is after 6 months
Hell
Most men automatically put women in categories the first night
I’m not saying to rush into marriage between 18-25
Those are tough years to navigate emotionally
Young marriages are subjected to monumental failure unless both parties know they are working to a common goal
Have A1 communication skills
Understand that growth will happen and they may not see each other in the same light
Pre-marriage counseling
After 26 you know
shyt you know at 30 if this woman is right for you and worth the risk
People use the prequalifier of “ moving in” as a shield
You can move in with someone for a year and they could still be on their best behavior
Get married
Happy for years and a trigger could occur and demons come rushing out the closet
Nothing is guaranteed and people sway like the wind
Old nikkas know
Old bytches know too
The problem lays in people being guarded, wanting guarantees and not dealing with their crosses to bare
Ain’t no guarantees in this bytch
Either you want to be married
Or
You like being single and living your life
Having companionship from time to time
People just can’t be real with themselves
And stay lying to kick it
Wasting each other’s time when they both could find mates suitable for the lifestyle they want to really live in

powerful post my nikka.

 

[ajnapoleon]

6 months to a year is not enough time to marry someone in most cases. You don’t really know a person until you live with them for a year.

You missing the point

6 months to a year to KNOW if you want to marry


I will never get those storys about being together for 10 plus years and never venture have the convo


Thats wild

And to those that brought up Don chedle it doe mean they was together that entire time they might have broke up and got back together multiple times

 

[ajnapoleon]

the young 17 year old breh with the internships and the jobs; along with the Stanford breh made me proud

Those 2 was amazing they know what to do now

I Damn near cried

 

[Neuromancer]

the young 17 year old breh with the internships and the jobs; along with the Stanford breh made me proud

Recent show?

 

[Neuromancer]

Do y'all remember this?

Coli gonna hate this

 

[CanesMiamiLakers]

You missing the point

6 months to a year to KNOW if you want to marry


I will never get those storys about being together for 10 plus years and never venture have the convo


Thats wild

And to those that brought up Don chedle it doe mean they was together that entire time they might have broke up and got back together multiple times

It’s up to you. Kevin think 6 months to a year is enough, I don’t. People put on good presentations out here and can pretend for a long time.

 

[Two Stacks]

It’s up to you. Kevin think 6 months to a year is enough, I don’t. People put on good presentations out here and can pretend for a long time.

Respect...In my opinion the women I've dealt with over the years didn't take long to reveal the real them. It was anywhere from 3-12 months and then it became did I want to tolerate it. Women really don't have life plans in New Orleans and it saddens me. then they move somewhere else and do the same shyt. women here panic like crazy if they hit 35-40 and aren't married, yet are okay with being in long 5-10 relationships/situationships or having 4-6 "serious" partners in a 5-10 year span. they damaged as fukk down here breh, plus a lot of them are way overweight for their heights/frame. and a lot of women here look "hard" dude to partying smoking and drinking PLUS they act like hood nikkas, masculine as fukk.

 

[KingDanz]

Listening to Bobby Lee podcast today called "Bad Friends" and the last 20 minutes they were discussing Kevin Samuels. They want him in on the show I'll post vid later

 

[ajnapoleon]

I said it before corey holcome fukked up by taking shots at kevin


I would have loved to see him on 5150

But corey never thinks about the long game

 

[Easy-E]

The biggest problem with marriage.

We're searching for convenience, not commitment.

6 months to a year ain't enough? Then what is? Is there a manual with check offs? What exactly does "knowing someone" have to do with a successful marriage?

This is how people end up 7 years "still thinking about it" and nothing's changed since the first date except maybe a kid or two, now.

 

[DaMos Supreme]

Do y'all remember this?

Not to derail the thread completely, but it seems like ROC is rarely mentioned at all when it come to the lore of black sitcoms , even with the good casting. And both the theme songs were good (First one was great).

FOX had a nice run in early- mid 90s