richaveli83
Veteran
This current girl on is cute! 

This current girl on is cute!![]()
That becky with the bbl topic is because of the white girl from tuesday that was talking about how she is moving to atl
I want to feel sorry for the 38 year old lady, started to, but when he asked or she made mention of the 3 men she dated and didn't know their last name, my empathy shut down
That there, what he pointed out is a MAJOR issue with modern women, they do not know who they are dating. I promise you, kid you not, I could date a woman and still be married and she at least in the beginning would not know, especially with me not having any social media. Women do not ask questions about the dudes they are dating until AFTER sex or 30 or so days down the line. They do not know how to VET dudes that they are interested in dating or getting to know.
I use to get frustrated about why women didnt ask me anything about myself upon meeting or talking to them other "how's your day" or "What you have planned", I would find myself knowing everything about the woman I was messing/dating and in return they would know NOTHING about me. Ask them what's my favorite thing to eat, and they had a million dollars on the line if they chose the correct answer, they wouldn't be able to tell you. That use to upset me until I realized I got further with women (still do) by remaining a mystery. Dumb as that sounds
I could literally live a double life with the women that I mess with, they don't start to privy with the questions from what I've noticed, is when they have started to care/like you more than you liking them. that's when the questions starts but those questions are more so along the lines of insecurity and not peek of interest, and that's when I know, I got you bytch.
"Are you still talking to other girls, do you still have female friends" etc. Not the "What can I do to make you happy or what has a woman done outside of sex to make you happy" etc
They ask questions to keep from getting hurt, they ask those insecure type of ass questions
But the fact that this woman on his call didn't know those dudes full names, I am not shocked about that at all
It got to the point, where women would say "I feel like I done told you everything about me, or you know all my life and drama, I don't know anything about you" I sit back saying "shiddd you don't ask, I aint telling you shyt" but my reality answer be on some "You have an interesting life" or "I just be wanting to know all and everything about you" which is me really deflecting to keep her from asking questions because she's done told me all her story and now feeling guilty, shame (depending on how fukked up her life is) or having the "selfish, it's all about me feeling"
It's nah with me, once she fails to ask question about me in the beginning, you don't get access to me now since you didn't care in the beginning to know, you won't know shyt going forward and many of my answers will be vague like a motherfuker.![]()
Yea Every time I'm in atl I notice thatdamn i cant lie i been seeing them in atl
When he said could you date a man making 42,000 a year...instead he needs to say what about the man that fixes your A/C, the man who works on your car, the man who delivers your mail, the man who does your taxes, the man who checks you out at CVS, the man who gives you money at the bank, the man who is the security officer at your job, the man who pumps your gas...THAT is your level at 38.
Yep!!Those men are invisible to them
They rather be alone then work and build with those men
But as soon as that man gets married to a non black woman he a sellout
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Will doesn’t boast about “entanglements” with other people or write diatribes about learning how to find love at 50 or go on and on and on about how much he loves his dead ex-girlfriend to the point that their DAUGHTER is writing letters to her asking her to cole back from heaven so that he can be happy.
Jada is the example why you don't chose wrong. You gotta choose right and at one point, Jada was playing her position and Will was winning like no other man in Hollywood
When he said could you date a man making 42,000 a year...instead he needs to say what about the man that fixes your A/C, the man who works on your car, the man who delivers your mail, the man who does your taxes, the man who checks you out at CVS, the man who gives you money at the bank, the man who is the security officer at your job, the man who pumps your gas...THAT is your level at 38.
exactly! I wrote this in response because a lot of women play dumb. "I can't believe 51% of men are single!"this is def the level for 35-40 year cute 6-7s with kids. if HE doesn't have kids and makes more than 50k that's a huge bonus. if he makes 70k or more she hit the middle age jackpot
Black Beauty says she wants a man who is a boss and will conquer the world.
Says in the world of Black excellence 250K is not that much.