Ladies, Do Y'all Approach w/out Approaching? And do Dudes Have a "Resting Breh Face"?

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I don't approach men because they always move too fast immediately after. They used to thirsty characteristics I guess

You can barely smile or look at some men for two seconds and he gonna take it as a sign to shoot

Nah breh I'm just a nice person :hubie:
 

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Women will approach if it's "worth it." Basically a famous/wealthy or extremely good looking man. Athletes and other celebrities get females coming at them all the time.

Now a regular breh....nah. Women are too self conscious for that shyt. It's tough for MEN to approach and most of us have been doing that since middle school. Females are terrible at reading men because they only get aggressive with dudes that have ZERO interest. They will literally ignore 10 dudes checking them out for the one (very good looking) breh that is playing on his phone.

Also doesn't work because men have more diverse tastes. Just about any woman will get some dikk without putting in any effort. If women did they approaching, they all hit up the same group of brehs.

Some women (I've only witnessed hood rats) will choose up on authority also. When i was management at walgreens i had a dress shirt, pants, shoes and a tie and women fell in line.

(Im security now and don't get chosen but people look, move out the way and hold the door)

Bus driver earlier tapped her hand around the corner (i was sitting behind her) and asked me what fragrance i was wearing. I showed her on my phone and she said i smell good and she smelled me when i first got on and that she glad im sitting behind her.

I dont think she was choosing tho.
 

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I don't approach men because they always move too fast immediately after. They used to thirsty characteristics I guess

You can barely smile or look at some men for two seconds and he gonna take it as a sign to shoot

Nah breh I'm just a nice person :hubie:

I be tryna tell brehs and they think i be trippim and missing signs
 

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Some women (I've only witnessed hood rats) will choose up on authority also. When i was management at walgreens i had a dress shirt, pants, shoes and a tie and women fell in line.

(Im security now and don't get chosen but people look, move out the way and hold the door)

Bus driver earlier tapped her hand around the corner (i was sitting behind her) and asked me what fragrance i was wearing. I showed her on my phone and she said i smell good and she smelled me when i first got on and that she glad im sitting behind her.

I dont think she was choosing tho
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:stopitslime:

It's highly probable she was choosing breh.

She def open to you shooting your shot.

Ain't no woman gonna compliment an ugly nikka on they scent because they don't even wanna give an ugly nikka the slighest hint that they want him to shoot his shot.
 

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So guys that want her doesn't equal guys that she wants.

A shorty may run across a breh who makes her p*ssy tingle and in that moment she decided to let breh know what it do.

bytches got 5 of those nikkaz...
She might be fukking 3 in that same week...
They ain't pressed unless they desperate...
If she really likes ur style, the most a regular bytch will do is try to make dumb convo wit u ...
 

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Muthafukaz really in here telling women how to act..
The 1st issue is, what do u actually mean by "approach"
In the context of thinking someone is attractive, it could mean just making small talk (which can be seen as not even approaching cause ur interested in that person)

Or it can mean approach a person and actually trying to holla at them, see if they are single and get their number.

A woman would be considered "desperate" if she straight up tried to holla because most women, if not all women, dont have to holla at men cause men tend to holla and approach.
All women got a dude they fukking, a dude they like, nikkaz in their phone, nikkaz on their ig, nikkaz at work etc.... all tryna get p*ssy...
So if a woman is willing to risk rejection, something that they cant handle and dont ever really have to go thru... just to get a dude...
That bytch probly is desperate, or super horny...
And if the dude got any sense, he should know that

The first paragraph is what i was referring to; the last really is not the case because a woman might wanna choose up on a dude she actually is interested in outside of sex
 

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I don’t give a fukk about a signal. If a bytch look at me for more than 2 seconds, she wanna fukk :mjgrin: And even if the bytch ain’t looking at me, i think she probably wanna fukk a nikka anyway. So bytch I’m shooting my shot regardless. And I like to get real close up on these hoes and invade they personal space and make em uncomfortable:troll:

But I’m an a$$hole in general and really be out her having fun with the shyt. But yeah, I’m not into these games these hoes play. I don’t got time to be catching signals. My signal is I see a bytch I want to fukk so I’m getting up to go see what the fukk going on

I dnt know u....
But we're best friends now..
The End
 

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Women will often come on to you in a timid, roundabout way as opposed to doing it how men are conditioned to. My wife stood at a vending machine in the lobby of our residence hall in undergrad, tapped me on my shoulder while I was walking towards the elevator in a group, and asked me if I had change for a $20 so she could cop a Snickers. There were at least 35 other people in that lobby and I had on headphones. :dead:


She didn't want any change, she wanted to strike up conversation. A lot of women will move that way as opposed to outright hitting you with a verbal :damn: because it gives them the chance to feel out the situation and interact with you without outright declaring they're interested and risking blunt rejection.

1) what was your response?

2) my dumbass woulda said naw i dont got no change on me
:mjcry:

3) saying you dont got change woulda still been a rejection

:yeshrug:
 

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In everyday life? No, if it's someone I see often, I'll find ways to be up in their space, make conversation. A lot of men are hella oblivious tho so this does not work ime lol

In the past when I was at a party or out dancing with friends and wanted someone to dance with ? Definitely. I'll find a cute, non threatening looking guy and ask him to dance in a heartbeat. I'm just trying to have a good time , though I have got a date or two that way.
Never been turned down for a dance either :mjlit:
 

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:stopitslime:

It's highly probable she was choosing breh.

She def open to you shooting your shot.

Ain't no woman gonna compliment an ugly nikka on they scent because they don't even wanna give an ugly nikka the slighest hint that they want him to shoot his shot.

I feel you.
She mighy not have thought i was ugly but she might not have necessarily choosing. Like the brehette said in here, sometimes they just be being friendly.
:yeshrug:

1) she was on the job too
2) we know stank folks be getting on the bus so i know its a good thing to have somebody get on that smells good
 

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In everyday life? No, if it's someone I see often, I'll find ways to be up in their space, make conversation. A lot of men are hella oblivious tho so this does not work ime lol

In the past when I was at a party or out dancing with friends and wanted someone to dance with ? Definitely. I'll find a cute, non threatening looking guy and ask him to dance in a heartbeat. I'm just trying to have a good time , though I have got a date or two that way.
Never been turned down for a dance either :mjlit:

What about if you dont see him often?
 
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