I don't think I'm doing a good job explaining my point so let me try one more time. The things you outlined in the OP seem like traits you've identified as negative and are looking to change. There is nothing wrong with that. However, just because you do those things doesn't necessarily qualify you as submissive if that makes sense.
I am just doing an experiment. You and gina are trying to argue semantics and your personal definitions. The things I listed are traits generally seen as submissive traits. The purpose is to see how man react to these general "submissive" traits. That is all. Telling me that you will only be submissive when told to do is kinda irrelevant to the thread. The only thing that really matters is the results/reactions of the men.