SO IM LYING?He's highly dramatic. It gets him off.
Ladies Ever Consider Submission as a Way to Win?
- Thread starter ™BlackPearl The Empress™
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I have resources; I didn't need to be submissive to get them.
I see how that method works for some women, though.
I see how that method works for some women, though.
SO IM LYING?
Submissive for resources?
You don't need to be submissive to attain resources. Maybe it's to maintain healthy drama free relationships. You are trying too hard to cause drama in my thread. And now you are encouraging others. Go somewhere and be happy for God sakes man.
Great thread! It's always fun doing little experiments like this. lol I've only really did it once though for a class project (much less intersting that this one). I should try again sometime.
I think being submissive will work well with men who you aren't really close to. I bet most of them aren't used to it.
I think in a relationship, males will like it in the beginning, but get bored after a while. I've heard quite a few men be honest about like sassy women or women with smart mouths. "a mind of her own". That's what the whole "men love bytches" book was about. Men liking women who don't let them walk all over them.
I think being submissive will work well with men who you aren't really close to. I bet most of them aren't used to it.
I think in a relationship, males will like it in the beginning, but get bored after a while. I've heard quite a few men be honest about like sassy women or women with smart mouths. "a mind of her own". That's what the whole "men love bytches" book was about. Men liking women who don't let them walk all over them.
so you out here being submissive just for affection?Submissive for resources?
Go somewhere and be happy for God sakes man.
i thought this was about manipulating men to have access to/control his resources and direction in life.
so you out here being submissive just for affection?
I am just doing it to see what happens. There are plenty of reasons women would want to do it. You're just determined to make everything as ugly as possible .
The people who should really be answering are the women in the thread who claim to already be submissive.
I think you assuming submission = doormat is the problem. You can have a opinion and still be submissive.
A lot of men love fukking bytches. I don't think they love marrying bytches. And the ones who do marry them are the ones who seem to like being a doormat/child like. Let's be honest, that's not the type of man most women want. Beside you can be exciting and edgy without being a bytch. I have been on this forum like 3 years and I haven't read once one of these guys saying they want to marry a bytchy ass women.
Youhadasparkwhenustarted
Superstar
I think that's the disconnect some of us are having, when I think of the term submissive I think of it as being synonymous with being dominated. I think some (and only some) of what you've described could just be called compromising, and to me compromise =/= submission. To me compromise literally falls right in between being submissive and dominant.
I didn't want to get into semantics though,I just wanted to clarify what I thought. What you're doing is still interesting nonetheless and I wanna see you're results.
The men love bytches wasn't really about being bytchy, it was about not letting guys walk all over you, not being too nice, having boundaries, not being a doormat. I guess he used bytch b/c that's what some people call women who are more assertive or who aren't extremely submissive.
Elle Driver
Veteran
That seems so difficult.Now hear me out ladies.
I'm conducing an experiment. I've been listen to this guy Steve Williams on youtube. He's an "alpha male" dating expert. You will probably hate him so don't click if you don't have a strong stomach. He's a dikk but I can't lie if I was a dude I would want to be just like him. This dude be schooling the hell out of these boys on the sex game too.
Anyway he's big on submission in women and he said something in one of his videos like "If men from all over the world want this (submission) why don't you ladies get the hint." So it got me to thinking. How can I use this to my advantage?
So I decided to conduct an expert. For 2 weeks, I am going to be "submissive" to men. This will include men I know and strangers. This "submission" will include:
Not being argumentative
Not critiquing or criticizing men
Stating my opinion in a brief, respectful and non-emotional manner
Being "happy" and smiling more
Being complimentary
The purpose of this experiment is to observe the differences in responses of men (if any) compare to my normal opinionated self.
Now it was hard for me to put my ego to the side to even think about doing this but I am always down for a challenge. I'm just fukking curious to see how men response. I already on day three. I will post the results I had so far in the next post.
Wish me luck.
Here is his channel. Enter at your own risk.
steve williams
PS The only time will not be submissive is when I am on thecoli
SheWantTheD
Veteran
So I am having this disagreement via text with my old friend/possible new boo. He is asking me a series of stupid ass questions to try to get his point across and eventual says something that rubs me the wrong way. During the whole thing I made sure I was calm and respectful but after the last comment I was kinda pissed. I typed out this long emotional text and then deleted, I typed another long text and then deleted it, I did this like 5 timesWin.
Biscayne
Ocean air
I'm lookin for a Black woman who's ready and willing. We can have a beautiful life together. Submitting to one another. Sacrificing our happiness to make the other happy. Basically creating a joyous synergy. An infinity symbol of Marital Bliss.
Or I can just be a nikka....
Or I can just be a nikka....
Girls, I don't think it's rocket science. lol Get your money up and treat everyone the same: with respect. Of course not everybody's going to reciprocate, which is why you should keep your distance from toxic men. They only act out because they expect a reaction, so don't feed them with attention, negative or positive.