So I rustled me up a date this weekend. 
Time to try this thang out.
Time to try this thang out.
Ladies Ever Consider Submission as a Way to Win?
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SheWantTheD
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Western women y'all 
I am failing...miserably!
It's a good experiment. more women should do this more often.
Keep going brehette.
You should try it.
Yes, you are correct. Once you know the true concept of submitting and it's benefits, it really is awesome. It is SO VERY easy with men that I am fond of/respect/have a good repoire with.It's a good experiment. more women should do this more often.
There's 2 men at my work that I am trying this on. Lucky for me, I get plenty of opportunities with them, LOL.
Nah.Keep going brehette.
You should try it.
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So I went on my date last night. It was this dude who I have been going on dates with for like 4 years. We've never touched, kissed or held hands. 
I guess he would be considered a simp. 
I like hanging out with him so it's all good. Anyway, there wasn't too much that I did different. I always let him choose the restaurant, am always nice and attentive anyway so there wasn't too much difference there. But I did take a page out of the "Dean's" book and when our appetizer came out I made sure to grab a plate and serve him first. When I was thinking about doing it I was mentally struggling. 
But I did it and it was honestly painless. He was like "
Who? What? Where? Why? How?..................
Thank you!!" He had invited me on groups trips before but after that it turn into. "I want to take you on a trip; just me and you" and "I will pay for your ticket." He then devised this scheme where he would pay for a ticket for me to travel home and change his flight plans so he would have a layover and spend one day with me. I declined. I can't say if serving him first really made him do all that but it's the first time he hasn't "played it cool." So it might have. 
So far I am loving the results. I need a real date with someone I've never been out with before. I'll work on it this week. The saga continues...
I guess he would be considered a simp. I like hanging out with him so it's all good. Anyway, there wasn't too much that I did different. I always let him choose the restaurant, am always nice and attentive anyway so there wasn't too much difference there. But I did take a page out of the "Dean's" book and when our appetizer came out I made sure to grab a plate and serve him first. When I was thinking about doing it I was mentally struggling. But I did it and it was honestly painless. He was like " Who? What? Where? Why? How?.................. Thank you!!" He had invited me on groups trips before but after that it turn into. "I want to take you on a trip; just me and you" and "I will pay for your ticket." He then devised this scheme where he would pay for a ticket for me to travel home and change his flight plans so he would have a layover and spend one day with me. I declined. I can't say if serving him first really made him do all that but it's the first time he hasn't "played it cool." So it might have. So far I am loving the results. I need a real date with someone I've never been out with before. I'll work on it this week. The saga continues...
So I went on my date last night. It was this dude who I have been going on dates with for like 4 years. We've never touched, kissed or held hands.
lmao dude probably thinks he's in there now
"4 long hard years of being just a friend and now she finally see's my worth, I knew it would pay off god"
Only for it to be a social experiment
But seriously your not going to get bad results from this unless your just dealing with a$$holes or selfishmen.
4 years of "dating" ? Dude aint all there in the head, be careful.
Interesting thread. I wouldn't consider any of this "submissive" but then I'm an old nikka by Coli standards.
Interesting thread. I wouldn't consider any of this "submissive" but then I'm an old nikka by Coli standards.