Somewhere For Me
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most women think submissive = bein walked over n shyt lmao. good job tho. u
I think it has to do with the problem of abusive, controlling men glossing their actions under the banner of submission. I read a lot of material on domestic relations of couples and when it comes to a couple where the male is being the abusive one, the male loves to claim it's all in the name of having a submissive wife.
It seems to be a particular problem of religious couples as well.
Also, a lot of women I've talked to over the years (I'm talking old head, traditional women) have spoken how they were the good, submissive wife 24/7 and their husbands still didn't treat them any better.
So yeah, the word has a lot of negative weight to it and I can understand the cautiousness whenever that word is uttered.