Ladies Ever Consider Submission as a Way to Win?
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To be honest, I'm not sure you're gonna change if he allowed the behavior up to this point.
You gonna have to meet a dude who checks you on Day 1 that makes you go
and you'll have to still be open to change at that specific moment.Your current dude already let you disrespect him and be mean, you ain't gonna stop now
Don't be negativeTo be honest, I'm not sure you're gonna change if he allowed the behavior up to this point.
You gonna have to meet a dude who checks you on Day 1 that makes you go
Your current dude already let you disrespect him and be mean, you ain't gonna stop now
I call it how I see it.
colicolicoli
Droid Gang
Yep.To be honest, I'm not sure you're gonna change if he allowed the behavior up to this point.
You gonna have to meet a dude who checks you on Day 1 that makes you go
Your current dude already let you disrespect him and be mean, you ain't gonna stop now
Lasted 3 days.
Are you a toxic person? It seems like you may have experienced a toxic relationship and been poisoned by it.Yep.
Lasted 3 days.
So what's funny. Over the weekend I just got up and got a glass for a breh. Didn't even ask. I didn't realize what I was doing or why I was doing it. shyt is like second nature now. lol
Update
So I just went back and reread this thread. Wow this was a great thread with super interesting dialogue. I can't believe it's been 3 years since I made this thread. This is so dope. The push back I got in this thread is hilarious. Anyway...
I have been on the same road since I made this thread. The benefits have been substantial. Now it's second nature and carries over to all my relationships. I would say I am much more likeable in general. I have acquired probably triple the friends and associates I had when I made this thread. I have like 4 seperate groups of people I kick it with regularly. It's been great and my social skills are through the ruff. I can win over damn near anyone.
Mr. Beautiful faded into the background but popped back up a year late. Breh completely changed his game up and was trying the whole courtship routine. I wasn't really interested at that point and never linked back up with him.
Mr. 4 years is now Mr 7 or 8 years lol. Breh still wants to take me out. Again, never had any type of sexual interaction with him nor Mr. Beautiful. He's had a few girlfriends in this time but I guess they never work out idk. He recently had a female friend ask me why I don't like him. I'm like 'girl it's been almost 10 years. The any potential fire has died long ago.' She claims 'He doesn't know how.' Girl bye. I'll keep riding the wave until I get into a relationship or he finally decides to put his foot down and makes me tell him I'm not interested. lol
Been a few dudes/dates in between. Nothing to right home about but generally happy with how they turned out even though I wasn't interested.
Got a whole situation now that is working out pretty well for me. Maybe I'll share it one day. It's been a whole adventure and I know with absolute certainty that if I didn't switch up my style I wouldn't be benefiting. One day...maybe.
All in all my experiment was well worth it and I have adopted the practices to the point it's second nature. The results have been nothing but positive. As you all may known I haven't lost a bit of my personality. I'm still as 'Blackpearl-ish' as ever but I have molded my personality to be more advantages to me with men and women. And as I stated before, gained a lot more friends/associates in the mean time which is dope.
I haven't been taken advantage of in the least. There is one sutuation I wasn't sure about but it turned out to be the biggest W ever. Again, maybe I'll detail it one day. It's a whole saga. Outside of that, it has been straight positivity.
I have found that instead of trying to take advantage men seem so happy to find someone who is 'cooperative' that they are usually ready to lock it down fast in addition to being generous.
In conclusion, I am super glad I did it. I helped me socially in a million ways and I will continue doing it and continue to get better as time goes on.
Thanks for listening.
So I just went back and reread this thread. Wow this was a great thread with super interesting dialogue. I can't believe it's been 3 years since I made this thread. This is so dope. The push back I got in this thread is hilarious. Anyway...
I have been on the same road since I made this thread. The benefits have been substantial. Now it's second nature and carries over to all my relationships. I would say I am much more likeable in general. I have acquired probably triple the friends and associates I had when I made this thread. I have like 4 seperate groups of people I kick it with regularly. It's been great and my social skills are through the ruff. I can win over damn near anyone.
Mr. Beautiful faded into the background but popped back up a year late. Breh completely changed his game up and was trying the whole courtship routine. I wasn't really interested at that point and never linked back up with him.
Mr. 4 years is now Mr 7 or 8 years lol. Breh still wants to take me out. Again, never had any type of sexual interaction with him nor Mr. Beautiful. He's had a few girlfriends in this time but I guess they never work out idk. He recently had a female friend ask me why I don't like him. I'm like 'girl it's been almost 10 years. The any potential fire has died long ago.' She claims 'He doesn't know how.' Girl bye. I'll keep riding the wave until I get into a relationship or he finally decides to put his foot down and makes me tell him I'm not interested. lol
Been a few dudes/dates in between. Nothing to right home about but generally happy with how they turned out even though I wasn't interested.
Got a whole situation now that is working out pretty well for me. Maybe I'll share it one day. It's been a whole adventure and I know with absolute certainty that if I didn't switch up my style I wouldn't be benefiting. One day...maybe.
All in all my experiment was well worth it and I have adopted the practices to the point it's second nature. The results have been nothing but positive. As you all may known I haven't lost a bit of my personality. I'm still as 'Blackpearl-ish' as ever but I have molded my personality to be more advantages to me with men and women. And as I stated before, gained a lot more friends/associates in the mean time which is dope.
I haven't been taken advantage of in the least. There is one sutuation I wasn't sure about but it turned out to be the biggest W ever. Again, maybe I'll detail it one day. It's a whole saga. Outside of that, it has been straight positivity.
I have found that instead of trying to take advantage men seem so happy to find someone who is 'cooperative' that they are usually ready to lock it down fast in addition to being generous.
In conclusion, I am super glad I did it. I helped me socially in a million ways and I will continue doing it and continue to get better as time goes on.
Thanks for listening.
Negged @BlackPearl The Empress
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
I'm glad it worked out for you, sis. Good thread.
m0rninggl0ry
All Star
I might try this. I rarely interact with men like that. Of course I’ll say hello and have casual conversations with them but I don’t even know where to begin, really
Let me ask you this when it’s all’s said and done, do you think this experiment can work for someone looking for marriage?
I might try this. I rarely interact with men like that. Of course I’ll say hello and have casual conversations with them but I don’t even know where to begin, really
Let me ask you this when it’s all’s said and done, do you think this experiment can work for someone looking for marriage?
I am a very observant person and I like to do what works. One thing I have personally noticed is that women assume men are stupid or just dumbfounded off of coochie. For a man worth having that is not the case at all. Men are way more observant than your average women. They judge you, smiling in your face and will talk about you like a dog when you aren't around.
And women's egos are so out of control they never think about themselves being that girl being talked badly about. They think their looks and their "flyness" is enough. And men will gas that up just to skeet then skeet.
What you have to realize is that every woman has a coochie and a lot chicks are fly and good looking. If you want to win you have to go against the grain and you have to learn what MEN value.
They pay attention. Little things matter to them. If you want something you need to study it.
I would tell you to take some time and just pay attention to people. And put yourself in a man's shoes. Take note of how your friends act and treat men. Do they have a man? Is their man happy? Then pay attention to what the men respond best to. Take a results oriented approach to dating.
And yes It will help 100% if you are going the marriage route because you will be and overall better partner. You'll have a jump of the vast majority of women because you will come off as unselfish, pleasant and a team player.
I have many friends and my main squad is mostly men and they are VERY candid about how they feel about women in general. They play women easily by just playing up their egos. And I'm not talking about bummy chicks. I mean lawyers, doctors, chicks with old money etc.
But the beautiful thing about being a woman is that can win just off of looks and personality alone. Men aren't really concerned about material things because they can get their own. They want someone who makes them feel good. So if you can learn to make others feel good you can move in all sorts of circles or into the relationship you want.
When you become really good at making people (men and women) like you. You'll have your pick of men. And that starts by being positive and learning how to fall back and let them shine. They shine in the short term in while you shine in the long term.
*sorry I'm rambling. I went out last night. I will share a few stories later when my thoughts are a little clearer about how women fukk up and how not to be that girl.
ReadOneBookAWeek
Smoking on a Cac Pack
Such a beautiful way of thinking blackpearl