This is how it happened. COnstantly being accused and questioned until I said fukk it and hit. It's a poor excuse but I did what I did.
It's not right but I understand it.
This is how it happened. COnstantly being accused and questioned until I said fukk it and hit. It's a poor excuse but I did what I did.
I'm just saying those same women can be up to no good. I've seen it.shyt, my mother's father had 3 women outside of his wife, and his wife didn't say shyt.
Honestly I don't want to be a cheater. I want to be faithful and treat my woman good. My only problem is that I may cheat once and a while. I'm going to see a therapist and see if that can help me. She wants to get back with me but I know I might cheat again and I don't want to hurt her again.It's not right but I understand it.
Let's work on expanding your vocabulary beyond "bytch" and "fukk you", mkay?bytch, fukk YOU!
How many men do you know taking care of 10 women plus the children?
How many men do you know fighting over one women to provide for them?![]()
in those situations, why is it so important for the woman to be loyal anyway? if they're all in a committed relationship, her getting affection on the side wouldn't matter if she and the main guy are coming home to each other. and how do we know they are loyal? there's no way a man with 10 women can meet every woman's needs every night. at some point she is going to get lonely and he's not there so...Well, Yard Man do that all the time, and all the women loyal![]()
I don't know why people say this. This has to be the worst type advice ever. No. If you don't want your man to cheat on you, you have to find a man who has a high level of character, morality, self-control, self-discipline and prides himself in those things.
There are plenty of men that love their wives but go on ahead and do things that are not loving such as cheating. And people don't even respect that. A lot of people see "you loving them more than they love you as a form of weakness, something to exploit, etc". And women aren't attracted to men that worships the ground a woman walks on. That's why simps and "nice" guys get used and abused. It wasn't too long ago a thread was posted on here on a woman cheating on her husband and arrogantly expressing how he would never leave her because of how great she is.
There are plenty of men out here who value loyalty and are as loyal as loyal can be.
If y'alls mentality is "I have to make sure I do everything in my power so my man doesn't cheat on me" you are coming from a terrible place. This is not a mentality you should have. I don't know where or who you heard it from, but a good man isn't going to cheat because certain things he wants aren't being done. He will try and communicate and work on it together with you. And if trying time and time again doesn't work, he might just part ways.
Y'all perception of men and possibility of a man being faithful is too jaded.
Let's work on expanding your vocabulary beyond "bytch" and "fukk you", mkay?
It ABSOLUTELY makes you a worse husband
Yall say the dumbest sh*t on here
in those situations, why is it so important for the woman to be loyal anyway? if they're all in a committed relationship, her getting affection on the side wouldn't matter if she and the main guy are coming home to each other. and how do we know they are loyal? there's no way a man with 10 women can meet every woman's needs every night. at some point she is going to get lonely and he's not there so...
Eh I'm a cheater. I've done it to all my girlfriends as an adult. I don't even know how to be faithful real talk. I'm good for a few months but when she says don't cheat for some reason I do. I can't say I have low self control because I don't fukk everything, I'm discerning. I just got dumped by a good woman because of my cheating. This shyt is a cycle for me that I don't know how to break. I need help
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there are ways to tell that don't involve going through phones or emails. People act differently. You may think you're being discrete but there are tale tell ways to discern when someone is cheating. Some people are nicer, some are meaner. Some act more affectionate, some more distant, some give it away in how they look at others, comments they make. Some buy more gifts for their partners, some subtly hint they want more. If your side is saying your real spouses are dumb,t hat's because it's so obvious and she doesn' t see why they don't pick up on it. I can guarantee that every woman knows in some way, even if they don't tell you. I would;t count that as a win though. Doesn't it hurt that someone secretly resents you but won't tell you they feel that way?I don't understand how you dudes get caught, how? Yes women will always have their suspicions but it's super hard to prove today with technology and peoples busy schedules unless your just a sloppy ass dude who doesn't give a fukk.
It's funny, my gf always called my ex wife and the 2 women I was dating all at the same time stupid bytches for not knowing I was cheating but I always told her if I was cheating on you, you would never know.
Everytime my gf acts up and I get sick of trying I emotionally cheat, ain't nothing to turn it physical but I'm over adding notches in my belt.