Ladies, How Many Of you Feel That ALL Men Cheat?

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i support a woman's right to choose me jahahahahaa
more will always be more and one will never be enough
there is no one woman that can love me more than all the women in my life combined

just accept that monogamy is a choice not a natural default

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Life is to short to constantly being worried when that person comes home late, or who they are texting or calling .

If someone cheats I dont care that's it, no counselling no giving it another go it's done, don't care if I have ten kids, or its ony honeymoon or 50 years after marriage


I don't think all men cheat, but cheating is a deal breaker for me. It's a serious violation of trust and no matter how forgiving a person is, the relationship will never be the same.
 

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I am sorry to hear that. The key is to find a man that loves you more than you love him. Me and my husband talk all the time about how messed up it is out here with the std rates and stories we hear. Don't get me wrong we argue all the time but we both realize it's not worth it to lose what we have. We went through that at the beginning of our relationship and realized we really are meant to be together.
I don't know why people say this. This has to be the worst type advice ever. No. If you don't want your man to cheat on you, you have to find a man who has a high level of character, morality, self-control, self-discipline and prides himself in those things.

There are plenty of men that love their wives but go on ahead and do things that are not loving such as cheating. And people don't even respect that. A lot of people see "you loving them more than they love you as a form of weakness, something to exploit, etc". And women aren't attracted to men that worships the ground a woman walks on. That's why simps and "nice" guys get used and abused. It wasn't too long ago a thread was posted on here on a woman cheating on her husband and arrogantly expressing how he would never leave her because of how great she is.

There are plenty of men out here who value loyalty and are as loyal as loyal can be.
 

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I did make sure i didnt give my ex a reason to but he told me when it was over and done that although he had deep feelings for me and saw a long future with me that he couldnt help himself :manny:

A little of me felt that he felt i wasnt the right woman for him which i why things sizzled. we are still in contact til this day but i will never let him waste my time again
If y'alls mentality is "I have to make sure I do everything in my power so my man doesn't cheat on me" you are coming from a terrible place. This is not a mentality you should have. I don't know where or who you heard it from, but a good man isn't going to cheat because certain things he wants aren't being done. He will try and communicate and work on it together with you. And if trying time and time again doesn't work, he might just part ways.

Y'all perception of men and possibility of a man being faithful is too jaded.
 

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Getting p*ssy on the side doesn't make you no less of a great father or a husband.
Seriously my nikka??:sas1:
Now substitute 'father' and 'husband' with the words 'mother' and 'wife' then tell me if you feel the same way about your flawed notion...:sas2:
 

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From a true to life good dude that can be/ has been monogomous for extended time periods. The idea of "new puzzy" is fleeting...but real. That is the case with a good relationship. When the relationship is souring or bottomed out and in that dark phase, there is a noticable shift in my logic/aptness to consider risking such a thing. If I'm in a bad place energy wise, it's sharply feasable. :yeshrug:

That's a shyt excuse tho, and is a smart dunmb nikka justification...and I still wouldn't be shyt after shame bustin. :birdman:
 

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my women is hella good to me.

gives me p*ssy or head any time i want, buys me gifts, pays for dinners, and is just a good girlfriend.

I truthfully kind of struggle not to cheat on her tho, i have so many options, and my sex drive is crazy.

funny thing is i know that i probably wouldn't have fun if i cheated on her.

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I don't know why people say this. This has to be the worst type advice ever. No. If you don't want your man to cheat on you, you have to find a man who has a high level of character, morality, self-control, self-discipline and prides himself in those things.

There are plenty of men that love their wives but go on ahead and do things that are not loving such as cheating. And people don't even respect that. A lot of people see "you loving them more than they love you as a form of weakness, something to exploit, etc". And women aren't attracted to men that worships the ground a woman walks on. That's why simps and "nice" guys get used and abused. It wasn't too long ago a thread was posted on here on a woman cheating on her husband and arrogantly expressing how he would never leave her because of how great she is.

There are plenty of men out here who value loyalty and are as loyal as loyal can be.

Dapped + repped.
Pleasantly suprised.
Excellent post.
 
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