Ladies....Is there a problem with being nice/catering to your woman?

[thernbroom]

You cant be TOO accommodating or she'll take you for granted

I'm not saying I give her the world, but I damn sure try to with what I have and can afford

 

[thernbroom]

this is the coli unless you're treating a woman like shyt, you're losing. If you said you slap your woman around randomly throughout the day this would be a 5 star thread.

true so many any youngins are fukked up from what they hear in music and watch on TV that they wouldn't know what to do when an actual good person with good intentions come around :thernbroom:

 

[Elle Driver]

Not all the time.

 

[No_bammer_weed]

Women are gonna tell you there's nothing wrong with that and "its so cute".

But women don't know what they want. Truth is you should never cater to a females need. You have to train girls to respect you and behave a certain way for you. If you're always nice to them then they have no incentive to perform how you want them to perform. They'll walk all over you, lose respect for you, then start searching for the next dude. Make her work for everything.

Are you talking about a human being or a fukking dog? WTF is this shyt?

 

[KinksandCoils]

That's how it should be. Why should a woman be the only one doing the catering? It should be equal. That's the ideal relationship.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

No nothing wrong with that at all

 

[MikelArteta]

My girls says she has never experienced a man like me before and says I make all her past Boyfriends look like shyt and that she doesn't know how to handle all of the good that she is seeing and getting for me. I don't get it:drakewtf:

Eject now

 

[MikelArteta]

Train yourself to watch out for when the code phrase of “you know you are the first guy who has ever treated me this well” and grab the parachute head to the door, eject and jump to safety.

Why?

Because she has a history of making poor choices in men, she already uttered that "scared" bs women use when they screw over decent guys.

Save yourself now

 

[Dwolf]

The psychology behind this is that niceness can cross the line into appearing needy and clingy. If you fall into those categories, women feel like they have to mother you to make you feel safe and you don't want to play the role of the needy child who needs a mothers attention and approval with your sexual partner. It's not sexy and it's not sustainable. Just don't cross that line. Like @FilliBuster said be nice to her but have her cater to you too.

Tell me about it

 

[thernbroom]

Train yourself to watch out for when the code phrase of “you know you are the first guy who has ever treated me this well” and grab the parachute head to the door, eject and jump to safety

seems like you been hurt in past boy

 

[Dwolf]

Not really. just as long as she give it in return. Dont do it for "free"

 

[MikelArteta]

seems like you been hurt in past boy

Be gullible and don't know how to translate what women say, instead i'm sure your ego was inflated when she said that, oh look at me a good man - first dude ot treat her right , when in reality she was telling you a bunch of nikkaz who treated her like garbage she sucked their dikk and rode their dikk and stuck by them, she has never made a good choice in men

usually this is how it goes with women like that, they finally get a good guy then after a while they get "scared" of how good they are treated and feel like they have to cause discord and drama, cheat because that's all they know relationships to be full of emotional mystery and battlefields , women like these need therapy not to be in a relationship.

But oh yeah you know more than me, enjoy breh

 

[Meadow]

What do you define as "nice" and "catering" though? Does she do it in return?

If so, that sounds like a normal, healthy relationship -- something most of these coli nikkas don't know.

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

dont let her get too used to it. Rough her up a bit at random...keep her on her toes

 

[KinksandCoils]

Train yourself to watch out for when the code phrase of “you know you are the first guy who has ever treated me this well” and grab the parachute head to the door, eject and jump to safety.

Why?

Because she has a history of making poor choices in men, she already uttered that "scared" bs women use when they screw over decent guys.

Save yourself now

making poor choices in who u date doesn't mean you're a bad person. According to the things you shared with us you made poor choices too.


Look I just debunked this bullshyt