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some guys take that "women love a$$holes" thing in the worst direction and bring a lot of unneeded negativity into the relationship
Ladies....Is there a problem with being nice/catering to your woman?
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KinksandCoils
African American Queen
id think he was trying to make me feel guilty or make me feel silly for asking him to wear one. Id automatically assume he was lying
When a woman is being treated better than she has before and says she is "scared", what I think she means is she is afraid she can't measure up to the treatment. Either she doesn't think she is worthy (for self-worth problems, or because she really knows she isn't), or because she can't offer the same in return.
If you have an imbalance where you are catering to her and she cannot reciprocate in a reasonable fashion (she doesn't have to spend money to show respect and appreciation) and it makes her "scared", then that tells me she expects to lose you. Deliberately or through her own failings. Tread cautiously.
If you have an imbalance where you are catering to her and she cannot reciprocate in a reasonable fashion (she doesn't have to spend money to show respect and appreciation) and it makes her "scared", then that tells me she expects to lose you. Deliberately or through her own failings. Tread cautiously.
The guys are right...be careful those are code words bruh...she telling you she accepted a lot of bullshyt from a$$holes...that's what she's used to...you taking her out of element... She is getting scared she may not be mentally strong enough to handle being treated good...she may sabotage your relationship ...due to her so called fears...
blockburna420
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Chicks don't want everything they want. If they get everything they want, wats left for them to want. Its like school they gotta have work to do and be tested. So don't completely compromise yourself to make her happy cause that's not gone make her happy, its just gone make her bored.
Very well said, and echo's my feelings and experiences
Bless't
Living the dream
Exactly this. It's like she's self sabotaging the relationship because she's already expecting it to fail in one way or another.
Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
Not if she's earned it 
But that's where the concept of simping/tricking comes in
Catering to a woman that HASN'T earned it
But that's where the concept of simping/tricking comes in
Catering to a woman that HASN'T earned it
I came in this thread for the lulz I knew it would bring..
Have to say I wasn't expecting this post though.
Welp.
I came in this thread for the lulz I knew it would bring..
Have to say I wasn't expecting this post though.
Welp.
Run while you still can.
This girl is basically calling you a sucker.
Like nikka don't you know you could a just got me the kids meal you didn't have to super size type shyt.
Really, do we have to put it in sub titles.
When a woman says that 9/10, shes used to the jerks, the scum, the a holes. Come on op. Its double talk, codes. Think, if she is so good and all that you mentioned. Then why oh why, is she saying your the first to do all this and that for her.
"You're the first man to hold open the door"
"You're the first man to buy me something"
Yes it cool to be appreciated, and someone giving you gratitude, but all the time saying youre the first persin to do this and that.
When a woman says that 9/10, shes used to the jerks, the scum, the a holes. Come on op. Its double talk, codes. Think, if she is so good and all that you mentioned. Then why oh why, is she saying your the first to do all this and that for her.
"You're the first man to hold open the door"
"You're the first man to buy me something"
Yes it cool to be appreciated, and someone giving you gratitude, but all the time saying youre the first persin to do this and that.
She has a shyt ton of insecurities thst are not worth it op. Get it while the getting is good. All that insecure shyt bout you the first, and you the first man....
