Ladies....Is there a problem with being nice/catering to your woman?

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The sin isnt being nice, the sin is being nice for no reason. As with all people men and women.

You can't be nice just because. You don't have to be mean either tho. Just remember whatever you do 3 times becomes an expectation. If you overlook things 3 times, without setting her in her place, when you finally do, she's going to overreact and blame you.

Don't dwell on what she doesn't do, allow everyday to be a new start and the minute she drops a ball, you be sure to correct her on the spot. Most ppl are gonna find what they want at the lowest price they can. So if she can do less and reap the benefits of good treatment she will.
 

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You can cater without being a simp. It doesn't have to be black or white.

Some women don't know how to handle that and give you red flags right away. Act accordingly. That doesn't mean YOU act like a d!ck until proven otherwise. This tit for tat shyt is a large reason relationships are so fukked up right now.

An emotionally stable, relationship ready woman will appreciate and reciprocate.

I'm convinced everyone on this site is 16, or has never dealt with a mature woman.
 

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if i were you , I would donkey fukk her like a mad man tonight and make her cook you some breakfast in the morning

let her know who's boss
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Who put you on game:russ:

Come on, you got like 5 checks running around let a brother at least take care of you and 2:steviej:




Or we can work on the next one:shaq:





2016 is still 10 months away.:sas2:






That reminds me, I really want a kid :mjcry:

:russ: I knew it!!

You want one? That's a coincidence because I just so happen to want another one :to:
 

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Be gullible and don't know how to translate what women say, instead i'm sure your ego was inflated when she said that, oh look at me a good man - first dude ot treat her right :jawalrus:, when in reality she was telling you a bunch of nikkaz who treated her like garbage she sucked their dikk and rode their dikk and stuck by them, she has never made a good choice in men

usually this is how it goes with women like that, they finally get a good guy then after a while they get "scared" of how good they are treated and feel like they have to cause discord and drama, cheat because that's all they know relationships to be full of emotional mystery and battlefields , women like these need therapy not to be in a relationship.

But oh yeah you know more than me, enjoy breh :sas1:

Who are these women? If Idris Elba was treating her right trust she ain't getting tired of shyt.
 
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