Ladies Of TheColi, What Type Of Men Approach You?

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I get approached by all kinds of men. I'm kinda sorta something like a ambivert... so most of the time I will talk to a complete stranger about random things and that segways into other things like exchanging phone numbers.

Ehhhhh... not all of the time. But I have a tiny problem, when I do go out my sister is with me and she looks like my butch lesbian girlfriend... LOL .

I live in a predominately white town.. it's about 7,500 black people here and I don't know who could be a cousin so I steer clear of local men.
looked up the word ambivert and I can be the same way. Sometimes I'm quiet and enjoy time to myself, while other times I can be very outgoing ie starting up conversations with people randomly, talking about anything and everything etc. Especially if the other person is very quiet, then I go out of my way to be more outgoing ans sociable.
 

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looked up the word ambivert and I can be the same way. Sometimes I'm quiet and enjoy time to myself, while other times I can be very outgoing ie starting up conversations with people randomly, talking about anything and everything etc. Especially if the other person is very quiet, then I go out of my way to be more outgoing ans sociable.
That's me all day!
 

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I can't judge myself because I see things when I look in the mirror that others don't see which may be good AND bad.

I do get hit on a lot. There's honestly no specific type of man though. I've been hit on by old white men all the way to the average hood dude.... :yeshrug:

It is what it is though. I'm polite either way. As long as you don't say anything offensive then I'll politely tell you no thanks.
Read on some thread that you were thick, so that's no surprise :mjpls:
 

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I think that appearance has it's place but the factor which determines the type of men that approaches a woman is based on the way she carries herself.
She can be a 9/10 and attracting hood dudes or educated men all based on how she carries herself. In my experience, one type will look with fear of rejection while another type will approach...but there's still a wide range of men interested.
 

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1) What would you rate yourself just by your face from a 1-10? Ugly, below average, average/aight, cute, beautiful, gorgeous, FINE, sexy?

By face I would say a 7.5-8 at best.

2) What would you rate yourself just by your body? What body type do you have? Are you underweight, overweight? Do you have nice sizeable breasts and buttocks (lol)?

I'm under weight/thick. According to Coli men I'm in the thick club and a poster created a thread about my body one time. :skip:

3) Lastly, what would you rate yourself from a scale of 1 to 10 overall?

I rate myself an 8 at best. :yeshrug:

Given all that information, what type of men approach and try to holla at you? Describe them based on looks, socioeconomic level etc. How often are you approached by men? catcalled?

From good looking to average men approach me. From old to young educated business men. Some average with good careers.

Lastly, what type of area do you live in and/or frequent?

A small Carribbean island. :manny:

ETA: when are you going to update the men's picture thread? :usure:
 

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I think that appearance has it's place but the factor which determines the type of men that approaches a woman is based on the way she carries herself.
She can be a 9/10 and attracting hood dudes or educated men all based on how she carries herself. In my experience, one type will look with fear of rejection while another type will approach...but there's still a wide range of men interested.
I agree.

Answer the questions you are comfortable answering.
 

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This posting style resembles a certain female poster :jbhmm:
Right! lol
I knew he had a coli crush b/c he stayed in my notifications (until I said something about it lol), but damn.This nikka is obsessed.

I'm used to it though :queen:

Yes? :queen:
So I've heard from a lot of overweight black women that they get approached by older men who assume they are desperate and will entertain any man who gives them the time of day. Which leads me to the following experiment:

Answer the following questions:

1) What would you rate yourself just by your face from a 1-10? Ugly, below average, average/aight, cute, beautiful, gorgeous, FINE, sexy?

2) What would you rate yourself just by your body? What body type do you have? Are you underweight, overweight? Do you have nice sizeable breasts and buttocks (lol)?

3) Lastly, what would you rate yourself from a scale of 1 to 10 overall?

Given all that information, what type of men approach and try to holla at you? Describe them based on looks, socioeconomic level etc. How often are you approached by men? catcalled?

Lastly, what type of area do you live in and/or frequent?

Please and thank you :queen:

Don't go stealing my shXt boy! :pacspit:
 

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So I've heard from a lot of overweight black women that they get approached by older men who assume they are desperate and will entertain any man who gives them the time of day. Which leads me to the following experiment:

Answer the following questions:

1) What would you rate yourself just by your face from a 1-10? Ugly, below average, average/aight, cute, beautiful, gorgeous, FINE, sexy? I never found myself attractive but I've heard from people that I am very pretty and folks are always looking into my eyes and stuff. It creeps me out lol. I've always had low self esteem issues so I don't really look in the mirror. I don't think I'm hideous, I just wish I was born with a face like Beyonce or Rihanna. :mjcry:

2) What would you rate yourself just by your body? What body type do you have? Are you underweight, overweight? Do you have nice sizeable breasts and buttocks (lol)? Overweight about 10 to 15 pounds but it's not from food. Straight up ovarian issues :mjcry:. When my monthly stops I gain. When it comes back my weight drops and I'm all :blessed:Nice boobs small butt :mjcry:...who am I fooling my butt is struggling for dear life. :mjcry:

3) Lastly, what would you rate yourself from a scale of 1 to 10 overall? I'm honestly not sure. I still wish I had Rihanna's face. Hell I wish I was pretty like her and B combined so I can't give you any honest answer.

Given all that information, what type of men approach and try to holla at you? Describe them based on looks, socioeconomic level etc. How often are you approached by men? catcalled? No man has ever asked me out. They scream and catcall or look at me like they want to steal my head. The men that follow me in the car (it scares me and mama sh*tless!) are men that look like Gucci Man or that weird rapper Stitches or some old man with no teeth. I've had a man flicker his tongue out at me like a snake with his mouth all wide open....really let his window down with my mom in the car....no chill :mjcry:. I want a husband that looks like Big Cass or a Roman Reigns. Unfortunately I live in the hick suburbs so there are no choices. I'm way on the outside of Houston. I've gotten "let me eat yo p*ssy guhl!" and I tear up. Or I get "shawty! what chyo name guhl!?" Straight up :mjcry:face.

Lastly, what type of area do you live in and/or frequent? Hick 'burbs and I don't go out much because I don't know where to go. I have absolutely no friends here at all. I don't know my way around Houston at all. Very much a struggling hermit that is trying to leave soon. :mjcry:I've had absolutely no guidance growing up from anyone in my family. My sisters (all older than me) gave me complete hell which caused me to struggle as an adult. Very sheltered upbringing but I'm getting there.

Please and thank you :queen:...................... you're welcome. I'm taking my a** to sleep now :mjcry:
 
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No man has ever asked me out. They scream and catcall or look at me like they want to steal my head. The men that follow me in the car (it scares me and mama sh*tless!) are men that look like Gucci Man or that weird rapper Stitches or some old man with no teeth.
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I want a husband that looks like Big Cass or a Roman Reigns.
:mjpls:
 

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So I've heard from a lot of overweight black women that they get approached by older men who assume they are desperate and will entertain any man who gives them the time of day. Which leads me to the following experiment:

Answer the following questions:

1) What would you rate yourself just by your face from a 1-10? Ugly, below average, average/aight, cute, beautiful, gorgeous, FINE, sexy?

2) What would you rate yourself just by your body? What body type do you have? Are you underweight, overweight? Do you have nice sizeable breasts and buttocks (lol)?

3) Lastly, what would you rate yourself from a scale of 1 to 10 overall?

Given all that information, what type of men approach and try to holla at you? Describe them based on looks, socioeconomic level etc. How often are you approached by men? catcalled?

Lastly, what type of area do you live in and/or frequent?

Please and thank you :queen:
Not true

It's because they resemble women who are older

Why make stuff up when you don't know the answer?
 

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By face I would say a 7.5-8 at best.



I'm under weight/thick. According to Coli men I'm in the thick club and a poster created a thread about my body one time. :skip:



I rate myself an 8 at best. :yeshrug:



From good looking to average men approach me. From old to young educated business men. Some average with good careers.



A small Carribbean island. :manny:

ETA: when are you going to update the men's picture thread? :usure:
A woman with confidence. I like it. :myman:

And didn't know you were from the Caribbeans, which part?
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Them update pics will drop in September :jawalrus:
 
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