Let’s finally get to the bottom of this bullshyt. Do body counts matter?

[Taadow]

Do y’all nikkas care

Yes

or ask?

NO

 

[King Poetic]

@African Peasant said it best

Women love talking so let the woman talk and they always bring up they past even if they don’t bring up who they fukk, u can tell how they was and what could be the possibility if u dealing with her

if u going to get into a serious relationship with someone the past matters period.. never say the past is the past

u not going to married or be in a relationship with a chick who was once a crackhead are you? Or a chick who embezzled, scam money are u?


Now if the woman is just a random fukk, it don’t matter at all

 

[Blurneed]

If you are never going to get a straight answer from a woman then it clearly matters to her. So it matters

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

If they in the same social circle

Probably

 

[RichYung]

Men won’t hold a standard for shyt lol. Women will call nikkas “community dikk” and judge the nikka off that but we don’t care if 50 nikkas piped lmao

 

[Lilbeast]

To the nikkas that said no, would you marry a 25 year old woman with 200 bodies?

Parade her around on Instagram as black love?


Have a baby with her?

 

[Taadow]

It says all you need to know.

I agreed with everything you said but this.
It’s only a piece of what you really need to know; like @MIKE SPLEAN said, it’s all in the context.
To illustrate:



Scenario A: Say you talking to somebody who has 20 bodies, it’s different if that person’s
age is 30 versus if they have 20 bodies at age 20.

...and, we can all admit a woman’s 20 is different than a man’s 20. Am I right?



Scenario B: Say their number is 4. And they were from 4 actual long term relationships. Okay.
But they may not tell you:

- Their first is their “one who got away”
- They broke up with #2 - #4 because #1 is that “friend who is too close”
- Whenever #1 gets his act together and decides they want to be real, they will drop everything for them



Scenario C: This is somebody you lowkey had a crush on in school but you two never said anything.
You don’t ever remember them going with nobody in school. So y’all meet again on the cool
and y’all start talking. They tell you their number is 7.

You talk to your homie from school and tell them you talking to so-and-so...
and they sound like Daz at the of “Some Bomb Azz Pu—y”.
“She fucced me...fucced my cousin...and fucced Nate...and err one of my homies in the DPG”
(SIDEBAR: for the purposes of this scenario, you are in the DPG).
Now you gotta decide if you still gonna bring them to the cookout where all the homies gonna be



Scenario D: Their number is 8...2 relationships, 6 randos. Okay.
But:

They grew up a fatty, but hit the gym and glowed up...so all 8 of those are from the past 2 years.
Btw - those 6 randos are their current roster.


Scenario E: Their number Is 10...Three relationships. Okay.
But:

- 6 of those are from threesomes. They LOVE threesomes, and of course they still K.I.T.
with those 6 people because threesomes.
- 1 was a teacher they had in High School


Scenario F: Naw I’m just bullchitin’ that’s enough. But you get my point.


You see, it may not be the actual number that’s the problem in the above scenarios -
but the situations around them are a muthafucca. So just asking number isn’t going to give
you the pertinent info...and that’s if they give you the real number.

So I don’t ask the number. I just listen to what they do tell me (like what and who they always talk about)
and watch how they act (SIDEBAR: that’s game I got from The Bible, yo).
There’s some chit you can’t hide forever and it will show itself.

 

[5thbornpowerseed]

Life doesnt exist in a vacuum.
Everything that has ever happenes has led up to today.

The same with people...
People=
natural disposition(decisions+experiences)

If a man or a womans made the decision to lay down with dozens or even hundreds of people that is literally who they are.

It says a lot about character. Impulsiveness. Self worth, etc.

Its not the whole atory. But its a big part.

Especially for women, as they are the ones being penetrated...(let that part sink in).

 

[skylove4]

Not even. Just someone with issues that started fukking at 13.

These women are all lying on their counts but she always kept it real with me.

you can always tease their true numbers out when you make them comfortable and aren’t judgmental

 

[Ashley Banks]

Yes it matters. Someone (male or female) that is used to being with a bunch of different people will have a harder time being satisfied with one person.

 

[skylove4]

I ask because I like to know never really been told a number that bothered me and for the most part I don’t judge unless she slept with a white man or she was into some weird S&M shyt. Numbers themselves haven’t particularly alarmed me

I’m with you on that one. Bodies don’t really bother me because women fukk, it’s natural but finding she willingly gave her body to a cac is unforgivable that shows internal issues because every black women in America knows our history with them demons.

She can be like I have a lot of bodies and I’m but say some were cacs, I’d have to hit her with the Terry crews

 

[KidJSoul]

It does matter, for a couple reasons. But She's never gonna really tell you the real number.

Why it matters:

• If it's too high (like 150+) then it's harder for anyone to be monogamous and faithful
• Could be a sign she has unresolved issues
• If other guys hit her for free, and she makes you wait for sex...
• If you wife up women with high body counts... they sometimes look down on you
• STD'S are a possibility

What you can do:

• Are you too different from her other boyfriends? That's a red flag that she was attracted to unmarriable men, and if she's dating you for some reason even though you arent her type, she's settling for you.
• Make sure she lusts after you. She can't just like you or love you, she needs to be fukked well by you and want you.
• See what her views are on things. Let her open up about her exes, especially when she's relaxed.
• Offer something she can't risk losing if she fukks up the relationship.
• Meet her parents. Pay attention to what her dad says about her and/or how her mom behaves
• Hope for the best

 

[AnotherRoute]

It matters if you want to matter. Not trying to be cryptic or dismissive. Its all about what you can live with.

 

[OliviaTwist]

Is there really a point of asking if she tells you a low number and you won’t believe her anyway?

 

[BaggerofTea]

Is there really a point of asking if she tells you a low number and you won’t believe her anyway?

What does that tell you if the woman has to lie about something like that?