Life lessons that took you too long to figure out

Greenhornet

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This goes with the keep your shyt private thing to a degree


People love winners, but if you win, make sure you win in a different arena
Cause fans and rivals arent a happy homecoming
People only go to the square to see the gladiator die, they arent in your corner
Very few people in the entire world are safe winners




Even if you only like a person for 1 thing and kind of dislike them for most else
you can still learn from the 1 thing they do well.... even further... a person who seems not great at anything relating to you
may have some knowledge that you had no clue about. Keep an open mind for insight, a few people I deemed kind of square, have saved my life with personal knowledge I otherwise wouldnt have thought they knew.
which leads me to say ... I try to be an open book as often as possible, to solve the root of problems quicker. That goes against alot of the good advice of, "Dont tell everyone everything" but you can pick and choose where that applies.
Just for example, this website and thread prove that theory correct.... without bias or judgement you can get an honest opinion from people who dont know you in person. There's someone on this website right now that can answer a question that may take you years to understand.

And lastly, most people will tell you that you cant do something... or that its too deep for you. Nothing is ever too deep for anyone, if you want to learn it... want to understand it.... just like everyone else you can start training yourself to master it. I personally stay away from "ignorant teachers" of advice like this. A good teacher in life will show you steps to become familiar with something easily. That's always been the most strange thing i've encountered in my 33 years of life.
 

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:ufdup:u CANT save a drowning man ... Dont INVOLVE urself with sumone that would DRAG u down with them ...

:ufdup:a friend is an ENEMY waiting to hatch ... The ppl CLOSEST to u would BACK STAB u in a heart beat...

:ufdup:Dont BRAG or BOAST about shyt ... u will attract haterz ...

:ufdup:Learn HUMILITY and dont take shyt PERSONAL ...


:ufdup: time is alwayz AGAINST u ... Make use of what u have ...


:whew:Took Me yearz to UNDERSTAND these RULES , but once I did it made Me a BETTER person ..









you're an alt aren't you
 

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You never really know someone until you’ve seen them at their worst. Basically I don’t trust anyone until I’ve seen them under pressure.
More mondo wombo facts, this why if I don't meet a woman on the way, there no chance of commitment after I get to that level. It's also why circles get smaller as you age. Anyone you meet at 30 you'll never know like someone you met at 15, they coulda gone through 3/4 major character changes/incidents/etc., so you're just getting the most polished version of what they evolved to thus far, but the mean of who they are involves a lot of their older undesirable habits/traits they've learned to hide better over time
 

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Live by the Golden rule - treating others as you want to be treated. Because karma is undefeated you will get back what you put out

Keep quiet and peep game in everything

Gain knowledge and understanding never stop learning

You ARE GOD because you are a part of him. So you have the power of creation which is your own imagination
 

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Actually get to know someone before you judge them just based off of one interaction/observation. I can't tell you how many people I've seen openly call someone an idiot and/or look at them like they're scum just because their first impression of them was of that person making a single, even small, mistake.
 
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1. If you didnt learn financially literacy from your parents, find a good financial class and learn it. Youtube is your friend.

2. If you dont make good money stay away from credit cards. At 27 I had 9K in credit card debt, it took me 2 years to pay it off. As a black male, your 30s should be the golden prime years. Dont let debt and bad credit keep you from enjoying your life.

3. If a chick is suffering from depression and she is NOT seeing a therapist or have a coping mechanism, leave her be. I dont care how fine she is.

3. If you dont see a future with a chick, wrap ya damn dic up. I barely avoided impregnating a fine azz aint shyt hood chick. Dodge a dumb azz ghetto bullet. My cousin is currently going through hell with his ghetto baby mama.
 
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