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ImLionyall
Workin on dat Roar
So many ppl have written me off for not have sm. Even job recruiters.....but nobody wants to befriend a barren profile
even my dad (who came back to my life last year) felt sad that I didn't even have a gf and tells me he prays everyday for me to find one. I don't feel close to my dad at all but I forgive him for the past and I know he didn't mean to leave us but my psychopathic mother caused him to leave. he's a good person at heart, I know
I know marriage can be hard but that companionship makes it worth it. I know I wouldn't be anywhere near as bad as I am right now emotionally if I had a companion. I'm tried of online dating or dating in general I want the one nikka
okie dokieBut seriously, you got to figure out what you want in a woman before you jump into a pawn. Me I went through the woes of online dating and etc, but ended up being with my best friend that would end up being my wife. Even that was a bytch because we were long distanced and I already had a girl. Sometimes, a part of me wish I could have waited for "the one", instead of trying to go on this warpath to find the one.
That's the problem we have, we strive for a woman during our lonely hour, instead of fixing ourselves first. No woman don't want a man that's broken and miserable. You got to work on self, find what you want from a woman, and then let your instincts take the wheel.
Until then, this thread and sadness is not it. Especially this thread where 70 percent of The Coli slays p*ssy for a living, have mansions that have walls doing a 360 and other cap bullshyt
social media tells bytches you ain't it... they see that as more of a red flag than being a convicted criminal (for real). one bytch I was seeing got impreganted by a very dumb convicted criminal in his 50s that still makes soundcloud beat tapes and is STILL in a gang and has a sister that is in prison for MURDER. Yet she blocked me not to long ago after I accepted her to my private instagram, like literally a day later her profile was "user not found". MANSo many ppl have written me off for not have sm. Even job recruiters.....but nobody wants to befriend a barren profile
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I've worked HARD on myself, trust me these past 7 years
But seriously, you got to figure out what you want in a woman before you jump into a pawn. Me I went through the woes of online dating and etc, but ended up being with my best friend that would end up being my wife. Even that was a bytch because we were long distanced and I already had a girl. Sometimes, a part of me wish I could have waited for "the one", instead of trying to go on this warpath to find the one.
That's the problem we have, we strive for a woman during our lonely hour, instead of fixing ourselves first. No woman don't want a man that's broken and miserable. You got to work on self, find what you want from a woman, and then let your instincts take the wheel.
Until then, this thread and sadness is not it. Especially this thread where 70 percent of The Coli slays p*ssy for a living, have mansions that have walls doing a 360 and other cap bullshyt
When I was visiting my wife during the time, Amtrak solo was the shyt and eucalyptus leaves
. I was rocking my Ipod Touch, sammiches, and snacks. No one told me a damn thing
Until I accidentally lost my ticket
I basically have so many things going against me to get a girl man
fukked up family, extremely high iq (they want average to mid-average men), introvert, depression and anxiety, (high functioning) Aspergers. I can't see myself winning if I can't after trying so hard for so long
fukked up family, extremely high iq (they want average to mid-average men), introvert, depression and anxiety, (high functioning) Aspergers. I can't see myself winning if I can't after trying so hard for so long
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
Very true. Not sure what it has to do with the discussion (unless you're quoting someone i have on ignore) but this is truth.
it's just life experience; I never win arguments even though I always end up being RIGHT in the end. The biggest one was when I complained about bias that was made against me after a university interview I had for postgrad. Everyone called me bitter and delusional. Four months later the uni made an announcement that four postgrad courses (that includes the one I complained about) will take part in a startup procedure aimed to counter bias in postgrad applications. The person that ultimately decided my claims were bullshyt I think ended up getting fired (and she's been there for nearly two decades) as her profile in the website can hardly be found anywhere in the website of the university. now this is with professors. Imagine with the lay person that uses online dating?
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Screwed up... till tha casket drops!!
op i'm like the same age as you, same family situation (absent dad and schizo mom/sis), almost the same education (never did postgrad 
), same gifts, same mental illnesses plus some more, less social media, same using message boards as therapy when drunk, etc. etc., i read all of your posts in this thread and relate with EVERY one of them
sometimes i go months or years without leaving the house, like when covid hit i spent 13 months in the woods totally isolated except for the couple weeks of floyd protests which was with strangers (don't have a single friend who lives within 150 miles lmao)
despite this my results with friendships/women have been the exact opposite. i'm sorry breh but ur awful at being a loner and i have no pity for you, i just feel terrible that i can't help you figure out why, maybe when i'm sober i can. i think the only thing i can offer now is that my gf's attracted to depression/bpd and can't be the only woman who feels this way, you just gotta find one who does.
), same gifts, same mental illnesses plus some more, less social media, same using message boards as therapy when drunk, etc. etc., i read all of your posts in this thread and relate with EVERY one of themsometimes i go months or years without leaving the house, like when covid hit i spent 13 months in the woods totally isolated except for the couple weeks of floyd protests which was with strangers (don't have a single friend who lives within 150 miles lmao)
despite this my results with friendships/women have been the exact opposite. i'm sorry breh but ur awful at being a loner and i have no pity for you, i just feel terrible that i can't help you figure out why, maybe when i'm sober i can. i think the only thing i can offer now is that my gf's attracted to depression/bpd and can't be the only woman who feels this way, you just gotta find one who does.
is this a challenge?This is the most depressing thread I have ever read, and I seen some shyt
bro I've been a loner all my life; my mum would leave me at AGE 6 to go to work for overnight pay and leave me home alone. My only friend was playstation, didn't even have internet. She did this for YEARS. I am a true introvert bro trust me; I didn't lose virginity or go clubbing or any of that social shyt til age 21-22! I had to FORCE myself to do these things so that it didn't continue anymore cause I knew it would if I didn't try. I didn't speak to my mum for over 2 years due to an argument we had (from age 24-27). Age 29 and I've disowned her as she's a legit psychopath! I have no extended family except a schizophrenic sister (and her two children) and my mum who I have now disowned. My dad left us age 12 but I don't blame him now I know my mum is a true psychopath. Trust me, I've spent 90% of my life alone, including these past 7 yearsop i'm like the same age as you, same family situation (absent dad and schizo mom/sis), almost the same education (never did postgrad
sometimes i go months or years without leaving the house, like when covid hit i spent 13 months in the woods totally isolated except for the couple weeks of floyd protests which was with strangers (don't have a single friend who lives within 150 miles lmao)
despite this my results with friendships/women have been the exact opposite, i'm sorry breh but ur awful at being a loner and i have no pity for you. i just feel terrible that i can't help you figure out why, maybe when i'm sober i can. i think the only thing i can offer in this state is that my gf's attracted to depression/bpd and can't be the only woman who feels this way, you just gotta find one who does.
is this a challenge?
Just because I'm TRYING to find a gf and maybe a couple of friends doesn't mean I ain't a loner; I'm more of a recluse than anyone I know from work or anywhere
SheWantTheD
Veteran
Jesus Christ.. I really feel for some of you brehs.
SheWantTheD
Veteran
I travelled 4 hours to see her too, I felt like shyt bro