Long Distance Relationships

[OfTheCross]

Have you been in one?

Do you believe in them?

What's the key in order for them to actually work?

I find that people have such varying opinions on this topic...just curious what most of you think. I know people who have had great experiences (leading to marriage etc) and some bad ones as well (just like in regular relationships, of course).

Welp...

Currently in one cause by school...

Obviously I believe in them since I'm in one..

Trust is the key to making it work, though. That and honesty. And lying when you have to..haha..

PM me and we can talk in more detail

 

[Desirous]

Welp...

Currently in one cause by school...

Obviously I believe in them since I'm in one..

Trust is the key to making it work, though. That and honesty. And lying when you have to..haha..

PM me and we can talk in more detail

Agreed that open communication, honesty and trust are key in any relationship.

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

LOL @ the thread title

 

[andre patton]

I live about an hour away from my bytch. Sad part is thats not even far. But still...I see here like...2 days a month on average over the past 6 months or so.

Long distance relationships just dont work period. I can go days...or weeks without speaking to her. Doesnt effect my day whatsoever. She has absolutely no bearing on my day-to-day life, nor mine on hers, so we contact each other outta curiosity mostly instead of some type of need.

Because of this our expectations are managed. I hope she doesnt fukk another nikka...but if she does I can understand why. If one of us doesnt move within 30 minutes of the other one sometime soon then I'll probably just keep her close til I find something else.

So long story short is they dont work. They can...but its rare.

 

[Remote]

I live about an hour away from my bytch woman. Sad part is thats not even far. But still...I see here like...2 days a month on average over the past 6 months or so.

Long distance relationships just dont work period. I can go days...or weeks without speaking to her. Doesnt effect my day whatsoever. She has absolutely no bearing on my day-to-day life, nor mine on hers, so we contact each other outta curiosity mostly instead of some type of need.

Because of this our expectations are managed. I hope she doesnt fukk another nikka...but if she does I can understand why. If one of us doesnt move within 30 minutes of the other one sometime soon then I'll probably just keep her close til I find something else.

So long story short is they dont work. They can...but its rare.

 

[Nasty_Nate]

Not worth it unless you're already married to the person.

 

[PimpHandStrong]

I live about an hour away from my bytch. Sad part is thats not even far. But still...I see here like...2 days a month on average over the past 6 months or so.

Long distance relationships just dont work period. I can go days...or weeks without speaking to her. Doesnt effect my day whatsoever. She has absolutely no bearing on my day-to-day life, nor mine on hers, so we contact each other outta curiosity mostly instead of some type of need.

Because of this our expectations are managed. I hope she doesnt fukk another nikka...but if she does I can understand why. If one of us doesnt move within 30 minutes of the other one sometime soon then I'll probably just keep her close til I find something else.

So long story short is they dont work. They can...but its rare.

Bruh yall ain't in a relationship, yall just cut friends. And of course "long distance relationships" won't work if the bolded above exist.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

no cause I don't feel like Sharing

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I live about an hour away from my bytch. Sad part is thats not even far. But still...I see here like...2 days a month on average over the past 6 months or so.

Long distance relationships just dont work period. I can go days...or weeks without speaking to her. Doesnt effect my day whatsoever. She has absolutely no bearing on my day-to-day life, nor mine on hers, so we contact each other outta curiosity mostly instead of some type of need.

Because of this our expectations are managed. I hope she doesnt fukk another nikka...but if she does I can understand why. If one of us doesnt move within 30 minutes of the other one sometime soon then I'll probably just keep her close til I find something else.

So long story short is they dont work. They can...but its rare.

The odds of her getting her internals rewired by another nikka is pretty high

Does that bother you?

 

[andre patton]

Bruh yall ain't in a relationship, yall just cut friends. And of course "long distance relationships" won't work if the bolded above exist.

i was exaggerating. normally i text about 5-10 messages to her every day. kinda like a short "how are things" type convo. ive gone a week without speaking to her twice...but thats not normal.

thats the thing tho...since we dont see each other that often I plan my life without her...therefore my life runs seamlessly with or without her around. i dunno I can see how someone could say we're not in a real relationship.

The odds of her getting her internals rewired by another nikka is pretty high

Does that bother you?

seems unlikely. if she wanted sex she could just drive to my house. in general, girls tend to go for familiar dikk over new dikk. and if she found someone she wants to date she could just stop answering my phone calls. its pretty easy to break up with me...honestly i dont even really know where she lives.

but to answer your question, if that were the case then yeah i'd be bothered by it.

 

[MexicanKingpin]

Only losers fugly's and desperate ppl do that.

 

[Mike Ock]

Did it, wouldn't do it again. She's actually in Toronto, you might even know her @Desirous

It was a good experience, no regrets. Life goes on.

 

[Desirous]

Did it, wouldn't do it again. She's actually in Toronto, you might even know her @Desirous

It was a good experience, no regrets. Life goes on.

Toronto's a big city...so probably not (but if I did, that would be freaky!)

Good attitude that you have though!

 

[Crakface]

Have you been in one?

Do you believe in them?

What's the key in order for them to actually work?

I find that people have such varying opinions on this topic...just curious what most of you think. I know people who have had great experiences (leading to marriage etc) and some bad ones as well (just like in regular relationships, of course).

They work as long as you have a 2nd relationship with a local chick.

 

[Mike Ock]

Toronto's a big city...so probably not (but if I did, that would be freaky!)

Good attitude that you have though!

That's how I roll