in one now...its hard because cant really see her when I want, she is in toronto, but is like a best friend I have known her for about 7 years as good friends she is moving next summer to be with me though, the traveling is expensive once a month overseas...for both of us.
It can work if you care and are committed all that out of sight out of mind stuff is bs if you actually found someone that you care about.
I was in one prior and she was in jamaica but honestly didnt care for her so I broke it off so I know what I am saying is true, if you find one thats worth it, it can work.