Long Distance Relationships

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I'm 40 mins away from mine right now it's not really long distance but we usually only see each other on the weekends. I find if you can survive them then it take trust to a whole another level if there's no fukkery involved. Besides I kinda like having my space.
 

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Have you been in one?

Do you believe in them?

What's the key in order for them to actually work?

I find that people have such varying opinions on this topic...just curious what most of you think. I know people who have had great experiences (leading to marriage etc) and some bad ones as well (just like in regular relationships, of course).
Never been in one.

It depends on the two people involved. They both have to love each other. If that doesn't exist, then either the dude is going to cheat on her or she is going to cheat on him. I've seen it happen both ways. The saying "out of sight, out of mind" is relevant in this situation.

For the most part, I don't believe in it.
 

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They work as long as you have a 2nd relationship with a local chick.

:steviej:

This man speaketh no lies. That is until she finds out about the local girlfriend, especially if you had the local girlfriend before she became the long distance girlfriend. Then it becomes really complicated.

Peace
 

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Have you been in one?

Do you believe in them?

What's the key in order for them to actually work?

I find that people have such varying opinions on this topic...just curious what most of you think. I know people who have had great experiences (leading to marriage etc) and some bad ones as well (just like in regular relationships, of course).

1. Yep, and I will never do it again :camby:

2. I do believe they can work, but it's not for everybody

3. Be on the same page with you s/o, distance shouldn't last more than a couple months if we're talking out of state, even that is stretching it.
 

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in one now...its hard because cant really see her when I want, she is in toronto, but is like a best friend I have known her for about 7 years as good friends she is moving next summer to be with me though, the traveling is expensive once a month overseas...for both of us.

It can work if you care and are committed all that out of sight out of mind stuff is bs if you actually found someone that you care about.


I was in one prior and she was in jamaica but honestly didnt care for her so I broke it off so I know what I am saying is true, if you find one thats worth it, it can work.
 

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When you coming to meet my family, boo? They promised me they wouldn't whip out the choppas on you :o:

As soon as Spring rolls around :shaq:
I'ma be at the airport wearing a full Tru Religion fit with no shirt underneath, letting that yellow-skin gleam in the Chi-Town sun like a highlighter :wow:
 
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