Ok… step one… he has acknowledged in his own way that he is part of the matrix like 99.99999% of people are. You’re born, you’ll spend most of your life making the 0.001% rich, will probably never own a house, marry a woman he had to settle for and will be lucky to survive off a pension and die struggling to support his children.
That’s sadly the reality for most men. And the majority know this but very few will take the steps to change their situation. And the few who do, only a minority will make the right moves to get out of being a small cog of in this capitalist wheel or will end up doing illegal shyt, they will either get them in jail or murdered.
Now, if you’re smart enough to be in the former of that minority, this should be where you start making moves. Remember, as a black man, no one gives a fukk about you. Yes, it’s the hardest out there for us but no one truly gives a shyt about us. Sadly, crying will generate little to no sympathy.
If he was a semi decent looking white woman, his cash app would be flooded right now, with plenty of men lowering their dikk to help her out of dire straits… but for us, we will never have that luxury nor should we. This country was built for CACs, especially white women.
We are resilient people…. No other group has gone through what we have and have still survived. They’ve tried all kinds of genocide and we’re still alive and breathing.
What he needs to do next is start looking at a trade, skill, diploma. This is the time to start making moves. If your circle isn’t about making money, find a new one. If you’re surrounded by Losers, there’s a high chance you are. Ear hustle with the winners, find out how they make their money, try and find an entry level position, work your way up.
I don’t want to be too long winded but that’s what I had to do straight out of college. No one would was going to give me a helping hand, I had to hustle and grind my way to the top whilst being broke for years and living in a shytty apartment. Now I can retire today if wanted and know my children and grandchildren will be set for life.