Man comes home from work early catches girl in bed with another man and daughter on the floor WTF!!!!

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I honestly don't understand why ppl play with other ppls emotions???

It's one thing to cheat, but to do it blatantly is wild!

All she had to do is tell her BD that she wants to move on and see other ppl. Miss me with the "I didn't wanna hurt your feelings" nonsense! Miss me with the gaslighting and victim blaming nonsense!

Keep it real! Many times, relationships have a finite time period. Many ppl simply can't commit to a long term or lifetime commitment. Just say that off top that way ppl can decide if they want to take that chance with someone.

But, for dude in the clip, did he say something about her converting to JW? If so, don't they have rules when it cones to infidelity? She oukd be ex communicated for things like this, right?

Dude need to leave her alone and fight for joint custody! Don't touch her! Don't reconcile! Let her live with her choices and move on with his life..
 
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These days you don’t know who’s who. She can look decent but then things change quickly. It’s getting spooky out here.

that's why you gotta do your HOEmwork. Especially nowadays.

I don't envy young brehs in this day and age at all, but these broads constantly tell on themselves all the time. The red flags are there!

Stay away from from broads who are

- Selfish
- Attention Whores
- Bad With Money
 
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that's why you gotta do your HOEmwork. Especially nowadays.

I don't envy young brehs in this day and age at all, but these broads tell on themselves all the time.

Stay away from from broads who are

- Selfish
- Attention Whores
- Bad With Money


This is actually good advice. You can definitely tell if they always act a way on social media. A lot of red flags are revealed by behavior.
 

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I guess, just seeing too many of these incidents makes me want to avoid all of this. I prefer peace of mind in my life. It’s already too hectic.

Man, life is about taking risks. We all take risks when we leave our home everyday. We don't know if we will come home safe each day, but we do what we have to do outside to survive.

Yeah, there are a lot of ppl who cheat. Can't argue with you on that. But, not everyone cheats. You just can't be lazy and assume that a relationship is gonna run it's course without doing the work everyday. No different from going to a job and keeping said job.

Personally, I'm not gonna worry about my lady potentially cheating because I told her off the dribble how I felt about cheating.

We discussed this before we chose to be together. We also discussed this some more while in our relationship, so the both of us agreed to the rules of monogamy. Should one of us breach the rules, then we both understand the consequences that may come about it.

Dude in the OP just got with the wrong person. He isn't the first nor last person who caught their significant other cheating. Hopefully, he will do right thing for himself and child.
 

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Man, life is about taking risks. We all take risks when we leave our home everyday. We don't know if we will come home safe each day, but we do what we have to do outside to survive.

Yeah, there are a lot of ppl who cheat. Can't argue with you on that. But, not everyone cheats. You just can't be lazy and assume that a relationship is gonna run it's course without doing the work everyday. No different from going to a job and keeping said job.

Personally, I'm not gonna worry about my lady potentially cheating because I told her off the dribble how I felt about cheating.

We discussed this before we chose to be together. We also discussed this some more while in our relationship, so the both of us agreed to the rules of monogamy. Should one of us breach the rules, then we both understand the consequences that may come about it.

Dude in the OP just got with the wrong person. He isn't the first nor last person who caught their significant other cheating. Hopefully, he will do right thing for himself and child.


I guess but I’ve dealt with one chick who was flip floppy and I couldn’t tolerate it. I need something stable otherwise I’m gone :manny: I’ll be quick to cut someone off if the energy is weird.
 

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I guess but I’ve dealt with one chick who was flip floppy and I couldn’t tolerate it. I need something stable otherwise I’m gone :manny: I’ll be quick to cut someone off if the energy is weird.

I hear ya! I'm the same way. I have zero tolerance for drama! But, once again, I put this all on the table before dealing with someone.

Do what you gotta do! I doubt that you will go through life not dealing with someone. At some point, you gonna put yourself out there like the rest of us.

You just have to be solid and let whoever you choose to deal with known who they will be dealing with so they can decide if they wanna deal with you or not.
 

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I honestly don't understand why ppl play with other ppls emotions???

It's one thing to cheat, but to do it blatantly is wild!

All she had to do is tell her BD that she wants to move on and see other ppl. Miss me with the "I didn't wanna hurt your feelings" nonsense! Miss me with the gaslighting and victim blaming nonsense!

Keep it real! Many times, relationships have a finite time period. Many ppl simply can't commit to s long term or lifetime commitment. Just say that off top that way ppl can decide if they want to take that chance with someone.

But, for dude in the clip, did he say something about her converting to JW? If so, don't they have rules when it cones to infidelity? She oukd be ex communicated for things like this, right?

Dude need to leave her alone and fight for joint custody! Don't touch her! Don't reconcile! Let her live with their choices and move on with his life..

Cheating is one thing, but bringing another man into his own bed is diabolical :scust:
 

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I hear ya! I'm the same way. I have zero tolerance for drama! But, once again, I put this all on the table before dealing with someone.

Do what you gotta do! I doubt that you will go through life not dealing with someone. At some point, you gonna put yourself out there like the rest of us.

You just have to be solid and let whoever you choose to deal with known who they will be dealing with so they can decide if they wanna deal with you or not.


If it comes then it comes, otherwise im
Not really chasing it.
 
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