Man, I Don't Know What To Do. A Trans Started Working At My Company & It's All Uncomfortable Now.

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I worked with a ftm trans person back in the day at a quick lube. Had zero issues. Serviced cars and went on our way. A woman I hooked up with a number of times years ago recently transitioned to a dude. When I happen to run across him at the bar or whatever I address him as his preferred pronoun and engage in whatever small chat and keep it moving.

It really isn’t that hard.
 

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You better focus on that money.

Get over that discomfort. Atleast if you show it doesn’t bother you, it can look good in front of the other board members/execs. You gotta be cool with everyone if you wana get ahead.
 

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Nah OP feelings are normal. some of y'all probably never worked with a trans person before and just talkin out your ass.

I've had it happen at my work as well though it was worse because she worked in a desk near me and was in all the same meetings etc.
It is weird and uncomfortable at first but then you get used to seeing them and it's not really a big deal. It stops being uncomfortable but never really stops being and feeling weird. I mean it's a dude wearing lipstick and coming to work in skirts and boots...:dame:


That being said just mind your own business and do your work. :yeshrug:

Sidenote: When did thecoli become so supportive of trans people and throwing around terms like "transphobic"? :jbhmm: @BmoreGorilla this seems kinda fishy
 

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I honestly think you’re worried about somebodies bussy being moist when the two of you alone:francis: and I think you know it’s going to be yours and it scares you:dame: let your hair down and be yourself
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I worked with a ftm trans person back in the day at a quick lube. Had zero issues. Serviced cars and went on our way. A woman I hooked up with a number of times years ago recently transitioned to a dude. When I happen to run across him at the bar or whatever I address him as his preferred pronoun and engage in whatever small chat and keep it moving.

It really isn’t that hard.
LMAO @ YOU PRETENDING
SOME DIKE TRYING TO BE A DUDE
IS THE SAME TYPE OF VIBE AS THIS.

:devil:
:evil:
 

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LMAO @ YOU PRETENDING
SOME DIKE TRYING TO BE A DUDE
IS THE SAME TYPE OF VIBE AS THIS.

:devil:
:evil:
I’ve been around the other type also. Some of my friends and associates hang out in some really liberal circles. Still don’t have any issue as long as they don’t try to fukk me :yeshrug:
 
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