Marriage Rates Plummet In United States Since 1990

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Its a slow form of eugenics. All the wealthy/educated black folk that should be marryng each other and having kids, decided not to get married and forego having kids altogether. While poor black folk have kids OOW with numerous partners. Thats a disaster in the making for society. A real life version of "Idiocracy" in the making.


Just because someone has the monetary resources doesn’t mean they should get married or procreate.

A selfish person with money can be just as bad a parent/spouse as one without.
 

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Just because someone has the monetary resources doesn’t mean they should get married or procreate.

A selfish person with money can be just as bad a parent/spouse as one without.

True. But the black community would greatly benefit the 2 parent households that have educated parents with disposable income. Too many black kids being born from unwed mothers and not living with their biological fathers.
 
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This is a no brainer. The spiritual element being missing from what marriage actually is why there is so much divorce. Most people who decide to get married do it for selfish reasons. Fear of being alone, Wanting a provider, settling, means to an end. A lot of men on here are manifesting shytty women that enter there lives because you immediately think women ain't shyt. By having that perception all the time you will never find a good women. Even if you do find a good one you will sabotage it in some way. If all you doing is focusing on women just to fukk and just to get p*ssy don't expect to find any quality woman based off that. We as men are afraid to be vulnerable around women and that is usually the ultimate test to see if you have a good one or not. We protect it and we put up a front and women can see through that shyt. You start changing your perception and start looking at ok I want a good woman that is good for my soul and well being instead of wanting a bad bytch to fukk and suck me dry you'll see how the optics change.


Jesus Christ:snoop::beli: This bullshyt of looking at a man threw ONE lense of "if all you want is to have a women suck and fukk you good blah blah blah " You do realize its been more men that actually have fukking tried right ? You do realize that many men no matter the race have tried to settle down MULTIPLE TIMES and it still didn't work right ? You do realize that some of those same men committed suicide because some women took everything and the kids ...TWICE . You do realize that this is a female centric society were women spend more money in America than anybody else ? You do realize that men such as myself at 35 have looked at the whole picture and the world wants to put all these responsibility on my shoulders and many other men's shoulders ...maybe nikkas don't like what they get in return . Maybe just maybe the environment is a little sick and many are just realizing it's not worth it . This passive-aggressive way of shaming men just doesn't work for me at age 35 and ....beyond . I see right threw it ...oh by the in your post you right ...it's ALWAYS a man's fault . That why I don't want marriage either way it's my fault. I get the reason why men don't want to be ...I can tell you I'm all I got . I don't expect nikkas like yourself to understand that .

Edit: Miss me with all this manifest and positive talk . I'm man I journal I make goals and I make into small pieces of each day in order to achieve said goal . I don't have to manifest positivity but I was raised to come from a place of respect and courtesy and everything else will fall into place. In the words of Dave Chappelle "I can't live in the world y'all are trying to create" .
 
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Every other culture, except black American culture views marriage as something you HAD to do. It was just the next step in life.

If anyone has had white friends, or white co-workers who tell all their business, they will tell you how miserable they are, both the men and the women. They’ll have whole ass relationships on the side, and stay married as long as possible for the kids.
 

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Jesus Christ:snoop::beli: This bullshyt of looking at a man threw ONE lense of "if all you want is to have a women suck and fukk you good blah blah blah " You do realize its been more men that actually have fukking tried right ? You do realize that many men no matter the race have tried to settle down MULTIPLE TIMES and it still didn't work right ? You do realize that some of those same men committed suicide because some women took everything and the kids ...TWICE . You do realize that this is a female centric society were women spend more money in America than anybody else ? You do realize that men such as myself at 35 have looked at the whole picture and the world wants to put all these responsibility on my shoulders and many other men's shoulders ...maybe nikkas don't like what they get in return . Maybe just maybe the environment is a little sick and many are just realizing it's not worth it . This passive-aggressive way of shaming men just doesn't work for me at age 35 and ....beyond . I see right threw it ...oh by the in your post you right ...it's ALWAYS a man's fault . That why I don't want marriage either way it's my fault. I get the reason why men don't want to be ...I can tell you I'm all I got . I don't expect nikkas like yourself to understand that .

Edit: Miss me with all this manifest and positive talk . I'm man I journal I make goals and I make into small pieces of each day in order to achieve said goal . I don't have to manifest positivity but I was raised to come from a place of respect and courtesy and everything else will fall into place. In the words of Dave Chappelle "I can't live in the world y'all are trying to create" .

You demand better for yourself and the people around you and you assciotiate yourself will act accordingly. And I’m not man bashing I’ll tell a chick the same shyt if she’s coming with that man ain’t shyt stuff too as well. It’s just this is a male dominant board and I’ve dealt with a lot of females in my life I’ve been cheated on and have also cheated and have had that same bitterness towards woman. Honestly get yourself a spiritual woman who thinks of her higher self and a lot of times you won’t have to go through these issues.
 

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real nikkas ain't scared of divorce white boy

funny you more obsessed about what goes up my ass more than me, even using the slang lol

She can’t take half of what u got since u been an unemployed dead beat dad the whole relationship.

She already took ur bussy with a strap on.....what else she gone take?
 

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idk why you wouldn’t marry someone on the same level as you. Makes no sense. That’s why I don’t get why men discourage women from seeking degrees or hate women that highlight their accomplishments as a dating plus. They’re saying they have their own, you have nothing to lose!
Nah you gotta level up.
 

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a lot of these posters here don't hang around black folk is what it is

then they use trends such as OP to excuse their cornball ways and viewpoints



Wtf kind of bullshyt statement is this? This is the kind of shyt incels and or white supremacists say
 

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real nikkas ain't scared of divorce white boy

funny you more obsessed about what goes up my ass more than me, even using the slang lol
Lol you arent a “real nikka”

You arent even a real man

Your kids even know that, why you think you wasnt counted in the 2020 census for the house as a guardian

I peeped u been lying about having a job to other posters who might know ur an unemployed 30+ year old stay at home dad who gets pegged by his baby mother lol

How do u even wake up in the morning
 
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