Married brehs are in denial. Enter.

[AngryBaby]

Eventually you’ll get older and your desire to slide in a different woman every night will wane.

Marriage is more about the companionship aspect of things and having someone to share the good times with and also lean on during times of turmoil. This is not to mention it’s a more favorable environment for raising children.

A lot of you think you going to be smashing randoms from now until the day you die, but at some point life is going to start life(ing) and when it does you’re going to deal with all kinds of shyt like problems on your job, financial issues, life threatening/altering illnesses, the death of loved ones, etc.

It’s better to have a person that can occasionally be your peace and your help in the midst of the storm than trying to navigate all the aforementioned situations alone as you naturally start aging and many of your close loved ones have moved on to a different chapters in their life that don’t include you such as starting their own families, falling out of contact, death, etc.

Marriage is definitely not for everyone and there will always be what ifs involved. There will always be what seems to be a badder female out there, but there are what ifs in all aspects of life. There is always going to be a better house than the one you’re living in, a better vehicle than what you’re driving, better clothes than the ones you’re wearing, a better job than the one you have etc. You learn to live with it, grow, and make memories and hope by the time you’ve reached the dawn of your life you’ve lived a life worth living and have left a legacy those after you will admire, respect, and appreciate.

Of course, all the above mentioned is possible as a single person; however, you’re highly delusional if you think you’re still going be on that mackdaddy shyt into your 50s, 60s, 70s, and beyond if you’re fortunate enough to live that long. Most people’s priorities change and they seek more meaningful relationships and bonds as they age.

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Ehhh but most of you nikkas get married in your 20's...which is OP's point

I'd say if you're stand out goodlooking with a great physique and a good social life ( thats me :D ) you dont even need that until maybe late 30's or mid 40's. Otherwise I suspect its for nikkas that are religious, brainwashed, or are your average looking guy that needs that dynamic and lack a strong social circle.

 

[Still Benefited]

It would seem to me that marriage isn't for hoes (both men and women). That's probably why, back in history, the emphasis was on virgins entering into marriage. Not people that had a wide variety of sexual experience.

Someone that has had multiple sex partners will never be satisfied in marriage. They will always be comparing. There will always be 'what ifs'.

We live in a society where recreational sex is the norm. Marriage is complicated in this type of environment. To be happy in marriage, limit your sexual partners even though society tells you the opposite (i.e. have as much sex before settling down to get it out your system). But it's already too late for most of you.

I think we would still desire women. But in a non Babylonian nation,women wouldnt be outside. At least not without husbands and brothers. Or at least fully clothed,not saying you have to wear hijabs.

 

[AngryBaby]

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Marriage is designed for people lacking? You got 2 be joking

this is the only platform you could ever get that off and people would actually co-sign.

Everywhere else in every single culture worldwide it is ALWAYS assumed the exact Opposite if you're NOT married at a certain point.

trust me dawg; nobody is looking at you like you're hue Hefner in these streets

Notice how everything you said involved what OTHER people think..."most people will judge" "nobody will think your this or that" . You my friend, just showed me what thos is really all about. What other people think.

And yes, If you are married to a mid chick. Im assuming you are lacking. Yes.

20-40 yrs old. I'd rather be single otherwise.

But most dudes dont think their chick is mid so...

Also this is a mindset about not giving a fukk about what people actually think. Im not trying to prove to anyone that im hugh hefner lol I just value freedom. But you are right, MOST people do judge a person that isn't married by a certain age.

But most people are kinda fat, religious, average looking, have regular jobs, and live in the burbs. So who cares about them. As I said, your average person needs that shyt. So of course they'll spin it as some quality marker for themselves.

 

[The ADD]

“I don’t value X, so you shouldn’t either”

 

[Still Benefited]

Ehhh but most of you nikkas get married in your 20's...which is OP's point

I'd say if you're stand out goodlooking with a great physique and a good social life ( thats me :D ) you dont even need that until maybe late 30's or mid 40's. Otherwise I suspect its for nikkas that are religious, brainwashed, or are your average looking guy that needs that dynamic and lack a strong social circle.

You probably just have no desire to have a family. Which is every bit as unnatural as having sex with one woman. Welcome to the zoo created by the European.


My story is that I was once a ho. Had a child with a good woman,realized she would make a great mother. Tried to settle down but felt supressed. I righteously cheated on the side,but then unrighteously cheated and got caught.


Almost lost my woman and my family. I pretended to find god to get her back. Only to have god find me. Fast foward to today and Im happily and righteously attached. So far I have not been tempted to trade that for pleasure. This may be unnatural in the physical realm. But only because you dont understand the paranormal that comes with spirituality#GodDid. Im currently under possesion by the spirit of a Proverbs 31 woman. Most of you are currently under the demonic pull and possestion of hellhounds. Good luck with that



You 100% cannot be married without god,at least I dont see how.

 

[Kingofthereal]

Didn’t you make this same thread before?

Dude wants to be married so bad but can’t find a bytch desperate enough to marry him.

 

[Kingofthereal]

People certainly arent jealous of your marriage. Thats for sure lol if thats the direction you are heading.

Conceptually marriage isnt even necessary. It changes nothing in terms of the emotions between the two human beings. Its just acquiescing to a social institution.

Why arent you guys more weird? Stop acquiescing to the shyt everyone else tells you to do. Why does everyone just copy eachother? Weird.

Why do y’all care so much though? If you don’t wanna get married don’t, just because you feel one way doesn’t mean everybody else will. Some people want a strong connection with one person outside of just sex.

 

[knickscrusaderm]

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Notice how everything you said involved what OTHER people think..."most people will judge" "nobody will think your this or that" . You my friend, just showed me what thos is really all about. What other people think.

And yes, If you are married to a mid chick. Im assuming you are lacking. Yes.

20-40 yrs old. I'd rather be single otherwise.

But most dudes dont think their chick is mid so...

Also this is a mindset about not giving a fukk about what people actually think. Im not trying to prove to anyone that im hugh hefner lol I just value freedom. But you are right, MOST people do judge a person that isn't married by a certain age.

But most people are kinda fat, religious, average looking, have regular jobs, and live in the burbs. So who cares about them. As I said, your average person needs that shyt. So of course they'll spin it as some quality marker for themselves.

Man if you don’t care about what other people think, who the fukk is supposed to care about what YOU think, miserable babble guy?

Stop consuming redpill loser content and use the shyt between your ears. You’re preaching 2nd childhood my man.

 

[maxamusa]

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Notice how everything you said involved what OTHER people think..."most people will judge" "nobody will think your this or that" . You my friend, just showed me what thos is really all about. What other people think.

And yes, If you are married to a mid chick. Im assuming you are lacking. Yes.

20-40 yrs old. I'd rather be single otherwise.

But most dudes dont think their chick is mid so...

Also this is a mindset about not giving a fukk about what people actually think. Im not trying to prove to anyone that im hugh hefner lol I just value freedom. But you are right, MOST people do judge a person that isn't married by a certain age.

But most people are kinda fat, religious, average looking, have regular jobs, and live in the burbs. So who cares about them. As I said, your average person needs that shyt. So of course they'll spin it as some quality marker for themselves.

Your mentality is beyond juvenile and you lack perspective.


I'll pick you apart and if you have questions about my situation I'll answer; since I'm open about my blessed situation on here. You could learn something if you have the ability to have a conversation.

1st bolded part was for me to shed the societal view on the situation. you're the minority in NOT wanting to be married. there is a small % of people who feel the way you do. I was pointing out how the MAJORITY of people will view an anomaly such as yourself.


The second part; if you don't give a fukk what other people think and you're adult than you're more likely self-centered and an egomaniac. you sound like a a rebellious child.


3rd bolded part is just ridiculous. you're sheltered if you think thats reality. the "who cares about those people" is just as goofy.

Dawg are you 14 or something? From this one exchange you are misfiring on all cylinders. You sound wet behind the ears in all aspects of this thing called life. I'm hoping you're just a kid.....

 

[Peter Popoff]

This should be fun

It's not. OP mad retarded lowkey.

His parents, grandparents, great grandparents, cousins, aunts, unks, etc. married so essentially he just shıtting on everyone choosing to live a monogamous life and not mirror his shıt.

Nıgga probably drank a redbull, took a gas station viagra and fụcked a hooker before going in a dimly lit room and posting this shıt. No offense.

 

[Ryze]

Not indulging in every last one of your desire = living in 'a lie'.

Post modernism and its twitter application have been a disaster for humanity.

Lucid observation. I didn't even realize that I had come to accept the internet-speak post modernist methodology without objection. It's a very contagious way of speaking and thinking, and it's purpose is to disarm, dissuade, and deflect.

 

[The ADD]

It's not. OP mad retarded lowkey.

His parents, grandparents, great grandparents, cousins, aunts, unks, etc. married so essentially he just shıtting on everyone choosing to live a monogamous life and not mirror his shıt.

Nıgga probably drank a redbull, took a gas station viagra and fụcked a hooker before going in a dimly lit room and posting this shıt. No offense.

 

[Carl Tethers]

Married women some of the biggest hos out there. You think she going to the grocery store. She going to stop and get some D first then the grocery store.

Name to post correlation

 

[Taadow]

As for the OP there are many things the mind desires but for the best of myself I do not indulge in for short pleasure.

This is the short answer. Sure I have thoughts at times, but I don’t believe everything that I may think.

The whole point of being married is a partnership between two people. The partnership doesn’t mean just sex, it’s building a relationship, family and a home.

And I would add (in conjunction with what @Still Benefited concluded): That partnership grows to include more people the longer it goes on. Marriage is definitely a God-level situation the more you ponder it - which is why people aren’t doing so good at it today.

Outside of the Monogamy/Sex - I always understood Marriage like this (extreme pre-emptive PAUSE ):

It’s like a Rap Group.
You and your people put your flavors together to make something, and when you thought it was good you put it out in front of the world. Some people are gonna understand it and rock with you, some people will not - but that’s okay. But y’all have a style, a united front, a steez, a way you get down. It’s not just what you do in the studio OP, it’s ALL THE CHIT y’all do together for The Flavor.

I know this sounds out there lol, but let me illustrate:

- Snoop Dogg is on record saying he hates working in The Studio with Dr. Dre because Dre is a perfectionist who pushes you and wants extra takes and all that, but he trusts the process because Dre is a master. To his credit, Snoop is a good producer (beat & executive) also, but Snoop Doggy Dogg + Dr. Dre is some of the best work in Rap History.

- To my recollection, everytime you saw Prodigy (PBUH) somewhere else while he was alive, he was credited as “Prodigy of Mobb Deep”. There are reasons we could speculate why that was, but the point is he didn’t have to do that. He always showed he was a part of an entity, even if he was working separate from Hav at that moment.

- The Fat Boys broke up and niccas was legit sad. They had something that worked.
Lowkey, Markie Dee had more success behind the scenes than he did with the group.
Cool Rock Ski decided he didn’t want to be fat anymore and is now the last living Fat Boy, while not fat.
That’s great for both of their solo lives/legacies - but gottdammit, ain’t nothin’ like “Can You Feel It”

- Guru did not need DJ Premier, and vice versa. Both of them could (and did) do their own thing successfully.
But both of them together is pure hip-hop.

- A Tribe Called Quest released an album a few years ago for the first time in 20 years and it was critically acclaimed.
I didn’t listen to it, because it isn’t a Tribe album without Phife Dawg. WTF?

- DMC said it is the nature of the Rap (nee’ “Music”) Industry to break up groups.
It’s easier to deal with one artist, but a group is more likely to stand together and hold the line for the best interest
of the group. So the executives find a group, figure out who the “star” is, then try to get the “star” to go solo.
Some “stars” peep this part of the game, and still try to help their group.

That seems like the same paradigm with marriage today though - many people either think they’re The Star,
but the truth is they are probably better suited to be part of a group.

 

[Givethanks]

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