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You cannot build a community with a bunch of free agents. Marriage isn't just about sex it's about properly building a relationship and family with someone and having a bunch of people do that in proximity builds a community.

If you think marriage is so bad just don't get married. But it seems that your existence is way more miserable than an unhappy marriage.

Even Kevin Samuels advocated for marriage as an ultimate outcome and he was twice divorced.
 

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Your mentality is beyond juvenile and you lack perspective.


I'll pick you apart and if you have questions about my situation I'll answer; since I'm open about my blessed situation on here. You could learn something if you have the ability to have a conversation.

By the way. For reference, im in a committed relationship with a desirable woman, shes a data scientist. Currently if I were to will it, I could propose right now. Im also in a major city. Living in river north downtown Chicago, working for Berkshire Hathaway. (And a climbing instructor on the side, and do promo modeling for jim beam and bacardi for fun, adds some flavor)

So this perspective isnt some kid that doesnt have nice things or doesnt have a relationship. And kind of difficult to be sheltered living here, abd doing what I do.

1st bolded part was for me to shed the societal view on the situation. you're the minority in NOT wanting to be married. there is a small % of people who feel the way you do. I was pointing out how the MAJORITY of people will view an anomaly such as yourself.

I agree. And as I said, mainstream society's general viewpoint on life, existence, religion, and health, is typically based upon emotional comfort, convenience, and a comparitive nature to others. It's better to be the anomaly.

Read what I just said...does that sound like an individual that has no "depth" in his thoughts or perspective lol

The second part; if you don't give a fukk what other people think and you're adult than you're more likely self-centered and an egomaniac. you sound like a a rebellious child.

Theres a difference between general empathy, and adjusting your social life and relationship moves based upon societal expectations. Thats insecurity. Not being self centered. In fact I'd argue that those that want a family without any regard to their own general well being FIRST or self actualization, are the truly selfish ones. Hence why there are so many broken and dysfunctional homes.


3rd bolded part is just ridiculous. you're sheltered if you think thats reality. the "who cares about those people" is just as goofy.

No...no your viewpoint is generally more simplistic than the ideas im presenting. As expected from someone championing pre-established social instituitions without any pondering of different ideas or falsehoods surrounding it.

Dawg are you 14 or something? From this one exchange you are misfiring on all cylinders. You sound wet behind the ears in all aspects of this thing called life. I'm hoping you're just a kid.....

Once again, committed relationship. Live in a Big city, right in the middle everything. Berkshire Hathaway currently, worked in the seedy underbelly of nightlife industry with women and drugs and all.

Also modeled, and get interactions from women most guys dont get. So no. Not exactly, no matter what you think of my perspective, it didnt exactly hurt me.
 
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I’m not blind. But after years of juggling women, I appreciate the simplicity and stability of being with one good woman. The short term gratification of being with other women would not be worth the long term consequences, and hurting my wife. The more women you deal with, the more potential drama.
 

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U see a fine ass female be like :obama:
Even say I can hit that in your mind but that’s where it stops more or less
Look and don’t touch like someone says
New p*ssy isn’t everything cuz every female prefers different things for sex and every p*ssy feels different every kiss feels different, every moan sounds different but if ur with someone on the same wavelength and it’s good as shyt and happens often why the hell would I want new p*ssy when I can get it at home as often as I want and enjoy it as often as I want and know what works for that person
And I don’t have a problem pulling a women before I was married and even while I’m married I get hit on still doesn’t make me want go fukk another chic
 

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I’m not blind. But after years of juggling women, I appreciate the simplicity and stability of being with one good woman. The short term gratification of being with other women would not be worth the long term consequences, and hurting my wife. The more women you deal with, the more potential drama.


Well in my opinion, too many dudes do the mini relationship shyt with woman when they are out in the field. Lying, scheming, sneaking around.

Should be just sex and then chillin on your own lol
 

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You cannot build a community with a bunch of free agents. Marriage isn't just about sex it's about properly building a relationship and family with someone and having a bunch of people do that in proximity builds a community.

If you think marriage is so bad just don't get married. But it seems that your existence is way more miserable than an unhappy marriage.

Even Kevin Samuels advocated for marriage as an ultimate outcome and he was twice divorced.

The bolded is absolutely ridiculous. And a sad mindset. If you need a relationship, especially a bad one, to find fulfillment in life then you lost.

If a dude is attractive, getting approached by women, has great freindships, and a fun career, abd also strong hobbies. Thats much better than being in an unhappy marriage. Its arguably better than a marriage and kids period. Because some of that would be sacrificed.

You guys are reaffirming exactly what I said.
You arent that guy if you think even an unhappy marriage is better than that. Wow.
 

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The bolded is absolutely ridiculous. And a sad mindset. If you need a relationship, especially a bad one, to find fulfillment in life then you lost.

If a dude is attractive, getting approached by women, has great freindships, and a fun career, abd also strong hobbies. Thats much better than being in an unhappy marriage. Its arguably better than a marriage and kids period. Because some of that would be sacrificed.

You guys are reaffirming exactly what I said.
You arent that guy if you think even an unhappy marriage is better than that. Wow.

Every single man I've come across lie and live double lives, instead of telling women they just want to be single and keep their opinions open. Any woman worth having is not about to get into a open relationship.. So some single men lie just to get with that caliber of woman, then have side bytches. Which is no different than a miserable married man aside from the legal ramifications.

Some single men lie and say their committed some their main bytch don't cheat, yet they're out cheating. Thats stupid to me and a waste of energy.
 

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What’s your favorite food OP? Do you eat it every night? Do you ever get tired of eating it or do you eat it just enough that it’s still special to you when you do?

The key to keeping things interesting is finding ways to spice it up. New locations, new toys, new situations, new thoughts, new things said and maybe acted on, given the right scenario.

I’ll let your mind fill in the blanks.
 

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why are you obsessed with married men?
:dead: :laff:
 

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you still have sex with your girl/wife but you become bored of it.
you do it so she doesnt start getting insecure.

married people dont have that much sex though

But that current wife was once your girlfriend. So its more about confusion what you really want, vs what you are actually doing. If you want that new pu$$y thrill often, why they end up in marriages? I answered this in a post above already.
 
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