Married co-worker: "Once you acknowledge that she controls everything, you'll be set"

[ultraflexed]

Honestly, if you want to maintain a marriage. He's right. Reason why i'm divorced.
Just realize that every man that has stayed married, has only done so because he bends over backwards for his wife. on everything.
If you go into it thinking you can have her be subservient or even just compromise and make it work. You lost.

I've been married for 12 years....and this is the furthest from the truth

 

[King Frost]

You get married because you're too broke to fly out these foreign baddies on the gram

 

[the bossman]

I’m married. I tell my wife what I want and she adjusts. I don’t do things I don’t want. She respects me. She apologizes when she’s wrong. I apologize when I’m wrong. We’re good.

It could all be so simple

 

[True Blue Moon]

Guys please don’t accept this as the only form of marriage.

I think the problem becomes men have or at least try to have game when they are SINGLE.

Then let it go when they get married and become a shell of themselves in EVERY aspect except being a work horse for their family,

NAAAH, you keep them how you got them.

Stay in shape, keep a fresh cut and beard, hang out with the fellas every now and then. Smell nice.

Sweet talk your wife and fukk her good.

Buy her things cause YOU WANT TO not because she demands it.

And if she acts up constantly Let her know that there are consequences ( I’ve cancelled dates on the spot cause my lady was being unreasonable) .

Pick your Battles but BE FIRM. Let her know you ain’t the one to be played with and if she wants to constantly violate she can hit the road. You love her to death but nobody on earth can control you like a child.

EVERY relationship has lines that are not to be crossed.

Women act VERY DIFFERENT when they know the man they love has options.

Communication and understanding on both sides is extremely important.

Man shyt

 

[Rell84shots]

Those are some weak men the op was talking to. Women only get away with what you allow them to get away with.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

One married breh at work legit told me this. And not even in a sad way, more like a way
Dude was like, "My wife doesn't want to work anymore. She worked for 9 years, and she's tired of it. I guess that's what she wants. That's why I'm working overtime"

Then another married dude joined in the convo like "Ask how much money I have on me right now . None, cause my wife controls my money"


Then another joins in saying "She controls everything, and knows my bank info"
Dude said how her wife wants an exercise machine called Peloton Bike. shyt cost like $4000. He's like "This is what she wants, I gotta give it to her"



I'm legit standing there like

Where do you work, Cucks-R-Us

Dudes standing around the water cooler trying to out-emasculate each other

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Where do you work, Cucks-R-Us

Dudes standing around the water cooler trying to out-emasculate each other

Breh... did you or did you not marry a large white woman? Yes or no?

 

[Devil Plisken…CMS]

Bark on her when she’s wrong then choke her out and fukk in the ass as a form of apology

 

[Peter Popoff]

These are situations where men put themselves in relationships where they love the woman more than the woman loves them or love themselves. There's women out there that look for malleable men with low self esteem to mold.

Also, in most of these relationships both parties are cheating. I've seen all sides of the spectrum. There's good women out there and not everything is GMBs.

 

[Peter Popoff]

Exactly. I said that I said there's plenty of exercise bikes at Sears or Walmart

Then he was like. "Nahhh, she said she wants the PELOTON, for bragging rights. I gotta get it for her. It's either that, or she doesn't cook for me"

It's sad that this brother can't cook for himself and then ditch the bytch or let her simmer in her own stew while he works overtime fukking new hoes.

You don't even have to scream at shorty to put her in her place just tell her no or ignore her.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Breh... did you or did you not marry a large white woman? Yes or no?

Tall, yes. Large?

 

[///Vega+++]

My father dead ass told me never to get married. My mom was sitting right next to him when he said it.

She slapped him upside the head.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Tall, yes. Large?

Damn breh. What did the sisters do to you for you to reject them?

 

[Bumblebreh]

What kind of suckas y’all be hanging around

I know plenty married men who don’t let they wives punk them.

These “men” are bragging about their women controlling them

"She has all of my passwords and logins aannnnd she knows my location at all times.I have never onced asked her to give me her logins as i trust and love her"




Meanwhile his wife s looking at him like and

 

[Family Man]

Honestly, if you want to maintain a marriage. He's right. Reason why i'm divorced.
Just realize that every man that has stayed married, has only done so because he bends over backwards for his wife. on everything.
If you go into it thinking you can have her be subservient or even just compromise and make it work. You lost.

Not true. However, glad you refused to martyr yourself and end up in a early grave over a woman.