Married co-worker: "Once you acknowledge that she controls everything, you'll be set"

Ezekiel 25:17

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Honestly, if you want to maintain a marriage. He's right. Reason why i'm divorced.
Just realize that every man that has stayed married, has only done so because he bends over backwards for his wife. on everything.
If you go into it thinking you can have her be subservient or even just compromise and make it work. You lost.


A lot of women can't stand being alone and feel worse as they get older. Men on the other hand have a lot to gain.

This dynamic of the women controlling everything shouldn't be a problem
 

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As a man that's been married for some time, all three of them brehs are gumps. Sure, pick ya battles but to completely acquiesce to her demands and have her tell me what I'm gonna do with my funds? Nah.:heh:
Im saying. If this is your girls mentality (provide everything for me while I bring nothing to the table other than sex), then that's on you for wifing a c*nt. There's plenty of women that are looking for a relationship where both people are providing for "the team."

Im still single and dating but my sister and brother in law are great examples of that kind of relationship. Both work full time and don't expect anything from each other aside from love and support.
 

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One married breh at work legit told me this. And not even in a sad way, more like a :yeshrug: way
Dude was like, "My wife doesn't want to work anymore. She worked for 9 years, and she's tired of it. I guess that's what she wants. That's why I'm working overtime" :yeshrug:

Then another married dude joined in the convo like "Ask how much money I have on me right now :skip:. None, cause my wife controls my money"


Then another joins in saying "She controls everything, and knows my bank info"
Dude said how her wife wants an exercise machine called Peloton Bike. shyt cost like $4000. He's like "This is what she wants, I gotta give it to her"



I'm legit standing there like :mjtf:

were these cac men? Cuz I’ve only heard them talk like that.

I’m engaged and ain’t no way in hell im living like this. But hey, some people are scared to be alone so I let em have it. :hubie:
 

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were these cac men? Cuz I’ve only heard them talk like that.

I’m engaged and ain’t no way in hell im living like this. But hey, some people are scared to be alone so I let em have it. :hubie:


2 of them are black
1 of them is a white latino
 

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Exactly. I said that I said there's plenty of exercise bikes at Sears or Walmart

Then he was like. "Nahhh, she said she wants the PELOTON, for bragging rights. I gotta get it for her. It's either that, or she doesn't cook for me"


:scust:

wanting to stunt is one of the worst things. i think women like stuntin on their friends more than men do. starts with engagement rings, then the wedding, then the house, whip, appliances etc.

smh
 

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It works with the right woman, there's just a shortage of that type of woman......

THIS. Too many feminists out here. Millennial/generation z women are gonna be lonely or married to men they hate. Dudes like me complain women arent feminine but I’m winning looking at the situation. All the women that dealt with me wanted me to soften up, negotiate or bend over backwards I told them follow my directions or leave me alone. They chose to eject from the cockpit. Ether I control the court, stadium or scoreboard or you can wait in the parking lot for a simp.
 
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