Married men who DONT wanna go in the house after work, sit in the driveway, or go to bar...quesiton?

HARLEM AL

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Hide her personality all the way through the dating phase to the point when you propose and then marry her? Come on now, take some responsibility for picking a bad woman.

You niccas need to stop making yourself victims. You're thinking with your penis, thats why your in miserable marriages. Y'all on here acting like bytches is Tom Hanks with the acting. You can only portray to be something your not for so long. If you walk in the house and your wife just starts spazzing, she been doing that. She isnt doing it because you married her. Seems to me yall are the ones not accepting responsibility.



Are you referring to me? lol
Ain’t nobody playing victim. nikkas know how chicks get down For Real. Not that fairytale shyt you trying to pass off.

If a nikka get got he owns it. He knows not trust any other female like that.
 

AZBeauty

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Ain’t nobody playing victim. nikkas know how chicks get down For Real. Not that fairytale shyt you trying to pass off.

If a nikka get got he owns it. He knows not trust any other female like that.

I dont even know what fairytale shyt you're talking about. I don't know any chaos agents who love arguing with their man/woman JUST because. There has to be some issue there that hasnt been resolved, maybe its trivial to him but a big deal to her but just nagging at you for no real reason? She's just a bytch? Then 9x's outta 10, she was always like that and someone still married her.
 

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Damn, that’s no way to live. I usually leave my husband alone for a while after work. Just give him a hug and kissies, then finish whatever I’m doing until he comes and finds me. :yeshrug: I know I just want peace and quiet after I get off work, so I assume it’s the same for him.
 

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But do you really think the perfect person is out there for everybody?

Do you not maybe at some point have to be realistic and take what you can get?
Not perfect, but certainly there is someone out there who is much more compatible that what people have been accepting.

It's better to be single and have joy than to take whatever you can get and be miserable
 

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Hide her personality all the way through the dating phase to the point when you propose and then marry her? Come on now, take some responsibility for picking a bad woman.

You niccas need to stop making yourself victims. You're thinking with your penis, thats why your in miserable marriages. Y'all on here acting like bytches is Tom Hanks with the acting. You can only portray to be something your not for so long. If you walk in the house and your wife just starts spazzing, she been doing that. She isnt doing it because you married her. Seems to me yall are the ones not accepting responsibility.



Are you referring to me? lol
I'm not saying i agree 100% with dude ur arguing with...but you
Acting like women don't change after marriage.

How many countless tales do you hear from dudes about how once they got married the sex decreased quickly, the woman stopped doing certain things sexually and in othrr ways her true character came out bc she's "got him" now.


In any event, you can't deny that ppl can date/live together for 5-6 yrs, then decide to get married and a year later be divorced.
 

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this situation is the worst thing about too many marriages. chris rock had a whole bit on this in one of his specials

the type of people that be like you have to "work" on your marriage. not saying you dont do adjustments and communication but i always felt like they really meant like, you both cant stand being around each other 24/7 and you were rationalizing that it was normal and required "work" like i just worked 12 hours im not trying to come home and work on shyt
 

AZBeauty

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I'm not saying i agree 100% with dude ur arguing with...but you
Acting like women don't change after marriage.

How many countless tales do you hear from dudes about how once they got married the sex decreased quickly, the woman stopped doing certain things sexually and in othrr ways her true character came out bc she's "got him" now.


In any event, you can't deny that ppl can date/live together for 5-6 yrs, then decide to get married and a year later be divorced.

And there is usually a reason their sex life changed. That's my whole point. Women arent nagging for no reason (if she is, she BEEN a bytch before marriage) just like a sexless marriage doesnt happen outta no where. I dont why ppl are taking issue with what I'm saying. And yeah marriage and dating arent the same. It can be added stress and unattainable expectations that ruin a relationship after dating for long periods and then marrying.
 

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dating phase to the point when you propose and then marry her?
My friend who is also my ex told me this story. Her uncle is a doctor, very well off, very Christian, kinda boring likes sci-fi novels and board games.His wife who at the time was his gf pretended to like those things until they got married then became a different person after she got the ring because she knew he didn't believe in divorce. She also cheated mad times. Now she told my ex this candidly. Now it's his fault for not believe in divorce and this is probably not a extremely common occurrence, but it did happen.
 
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