Men Are Now More Likely to Be Single Than Women. It's Not a Good Sign

[Curufinwe]

And they'll flex too..

Get a job and expect not to pay rent if they stay at home.. All while buying clothes and not helping around the house.. This generation wants everything and not lift a finger for it.. And cry bloody murder if they cant get it..

And we talking about 20 something's here..

And they fcking mad about everything.. They're more mad than the people who went through Jim Crow..

This post struck me because I know people like that in my family and friends.
Their parents do everything until there're dead.

And then they realized they waster their life for years. And their former friends who worked hard are settle down and forget about them.

 

[Bossino]

Be careful breh

Once you go there ain't no going back. The further you go down this rabbit hole, the less and less you'll trust women even more.

I'm speaking from experience, you'll long for the days that you were naive and still had love in your heart to give to another woman.

At this point I only have one love left in me, 2 max, but as I get older my cynicism grows anyways, you see more you trust less.

 

[360dagod]

Be careful breh

Once you go there ain't no going back. The further you go down this rabbit hole, the less and less you'll trust women even more.

I'm speaking from experience, you'll long for the days that you were naive and still had love in your heart to give to another woman.

That third eye is a motherfukker.....

The shyt you find out when you play Dr Phil wit these bytches...

 

[Noriega]

Same. I was poor growing up and didn't have access to a car until after I graduated college and got into my current career.

How do you ask broads out on dates in HS when they ALL had rides and you're slumming on the bus (in fukking Dallas)? Couldn't work a part time job because all the employers wanted young adult single moms that could work 40 hrs/week, not teens trying to work 20.

Money changes a lot of things for men in ways that women can't understand.

And this is why I went directly into the workforce at 18. I grew up working class. Mom was always in between jobs, pops had a stable job but his health didn’t allow him to advance anywhere I use to get shyt by counselors and teachers in high school cuz I didn’t even bother applying to schools, shyt I didn’t even take my SAT/ACT

Parents couldn’t give me shyt. They were paycheck to paycheck themselves If I had went to college, that would’ve meant an additional 4-5+ years of being broke asl. Been out the crib since I was 19 and always had a full time job.

23, no student loans, upper 40s rn, will be making 75k+ by the time I’m 26

Why you ain’t go straight into the workforce if you grew up shytty?. Sure I was busting up concrete and crawling into manholes at 18/19. But I had a Union apprenticeship, health insurance and nearly unlimited overtime + a stable 40 hour check

 

[KingFreeman]

Well everyone can't be the top 20% now can they?

Im confused on what point you're trying to make.

Quitting porn, stopping simping, eating right, working on a skill or trade are things any able bodied man can do.

Simply being in shape and dressing right alone will put you in the sexual top 20 percent in most circles.

Self discipline

 

[number21]

Another piece trying to shame men for not getting caught up.

 

[Hungerpain]

These hoes aint shyt and everybody knows it now.
Even the suckers

 

[King]

lost??! The art of the motherfukking conversation. So let’s start there. Maybe THATS why you couldn’t get a job. Because you lack the social acumen to maintain a damn idea in your head while entertaining other possibilities without losing your shyt.
So keep them wack ass insults behind your silly ass teeth.

God you’re an idiot

Quit with your useless ass diatribe about nothing.

You brought ZERO facts to discussion. Hell, your one dimensional respectability ass can only think on a REMEDIAL LEVEL.

The SURFACE level. You ignore and downplay the actual SYSTEMIC. KEY WORD - SYSTEMIC factors that lead this occurring in the first place.

So black people are LAZY AND ENTITLED because systemic racism and income inequality purposely keeps them from entering the workforce and being paid a fair wage that allows them to actually live as human beings? You really expect people to have faith in a broken economic system where MOST people can’t even afford housing and are a PAYCHECK away from poverty???

You aren’t saying SHYT NEW. You are WRONG. You don’t have shyt “figured out” - you are spreading bullshyt lazy ass “black people lazy” “millennials entitled” rhetoric.

These actual statistics aren’t because young men are lazier than they have ever been and it all falls on their INDIVIDUAL ACTIONS and PERSONAL accountability.

Anyone with HALF A BRAIN would KNOW that you cannot equate individual outcomes to SYSTEMIC problems. This is a SYSTEMIC issue. The fact that young people aren’t all home owning 6 figure, 6 cert mfers in stable marriages is BECAUSE OF A FLAWED SYSTEM. The system is the ROOT cause.

But you’re too fukking IGNORANT to understand BASIC FACTS.

But it’s easy to call black people and millennials lazy, huh? We just don’t “work hard” enough, huh? Dumbass c00n.

How about you pick up a fukking book and shut the fukk up?

 

[JQ Legend]

They used to call them shyts shotgun weddings. So where ever that nikka went from then on he had to take that woman with him, because her family was not trying to support her and those kids that she was pushing out with that nikka. They were basically telling the young man to grow up and support your own damn folks.



20+ year olds didn't have shyt to say about arranged marriages. All they have to do was shut up and say that they will in the appropriate places. Otherwise all they had to do was shut up and take that woman with you when you leave.

You find some old Black men right now and they will tell you about arranged marriages. Somebody's uncles, brothers and daddy showed up on your job to kick your ass then you know that you were about to get married. Sometimes the families would just offer the dudes money to marry their daughters.

I don’t believe that part in the last paragraph bout dudes getting their ass whooped into marriage

 

[HARLEM AL]

This is actually really bad news for Black women and Black children. I realize that a lot shyt on the thecoli boils down to some simple minded points of view, but there is a bigger issue in that story and it involves Black women and Black children. A single man can work a bunch of bullshyt jobs and eventually scratch together enough money and economic resources to get into the middle class if he were really motivated to do it. Regular dudes don't really live lavish lifestyles except for fronting purposes to get women. Otherwise a single dude by himself that works a couple of jobs can easily get into the middle class.

The reason this is bad news for Black women and small Black children, is because this is a perpetuation of single family households that continues a trend of perpetual generational poverty. Black women in the lower socioeconomic category that have children out of wedlock and rear the children in a single family home literally have no way out of the lower socioeconomic status. That is horrible and that also means that her children are growing up impoverished.

I concluded years ago that African Americans need to go back to fixed or arranged marriages. I realized that people used to hate that shyt, but in many cases that was the only way that women had husbands and children had fathers which was necessary to lift family units out of poverty. It is sad, but we may have to go backwards in order to go forward.

It will never go back. There to many incentives for women to stay by themselves. What they dont make in income gets subsidized by the government. Which is a problem whether black or white. But as you and I know. White people get a cold, black people get the flu.

 

[HARLEM AL]

But the people I'm speaking on don't do any of this and are still "behind".

That is the issue.

A lot of debt is relative.

I'm $25k in debt and it hurts just as much as someone with $100k in debt.

Both of us are in the hole, struggling to pay it while our landlord shrugs and raise the rent $100-$500 higher.

EDIT: Wanted to add, no one helped me with trying to figure out college and I made sure to make a small enough mistake that I could at least kind of pay for. But I digress.

Understand, folks aren't dumb.

They look outside and realize:

They may never own a house.

They will never see social security (which takes plenty of money out of your check).

They see their friends flying high, then crashing and burning from one medical emergency.

They watched their parents lose everything from the 08 financial crisis.

They watched folks come OUT OF retirement because their pensions/retirement wasn't enough.

Corporations crush their family members with terrible working conditions.

I could go on. Why would folks want to willing go out and slave away?

For what purpose? What is the endgame? Ask these kids these questions, you'll get the same answers I did.

They don't see the point when looking out at the world today.

I don't blame them either.

Real fukking shyt.....

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

And this is why I went directly into the workforce at 18. I grew up working class. Mom was always in between jobs, pops had a stable job but his health didn’t allow him to advance anywhere I use to get shyt by counselors and teachers in high school cuz I didn’t even bother applying to schools, shyt I didn’t even take my SAT/ACT

Parents couldn’t give me shyt. They were paycheck to paycheck themselves If I had went to college, that would’ve meant an additional 4-5+ years of being broke asl. Been out the crib since I was 19 and always had a full time job.

23, no student loans, upper 40s rn, will be making 75k+ by the time I’m 26

Why you ain’t go straight into the workforce if you grew up shytty?. Sure I was busting up concrete and crawling into manholes at 18/19. But I had a Union apprenticeship, health insurance and nearly unlimited overtime + a stable 40 hour check

Mom wanted me to get that education. I worked hard in school and we were poor enough that I got all kinds of free money (grants, scholarships etc).

She didn't have to pay a dime for me to go to school so it worked out.

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

I don’t believe that part in the last paragraph bout dudes getting their ass whooped into marriage

Shotgun weddings.....

If you were messing around with Mr. Jenkins' daughter and accidentally knocked her up, the brothers, daddy and uncles would come looking for you. Even your own pops. The whole "virgin until marriage" thing is bullshyt. A lot of broads got married when they were a couple of months pregnant back in the day.

 

[HARLEM AL]

There aren't too many breakdowns by race in that article, but I'll address it from the perspective of our race only.

First off, get used to the black marriage rate dropping even further the rest of this decade. That will really only be reserved for the upper-middle class, and/or couples truly on the same page in terms of Religious/Political views, parenting, and finances. I do not personally think that is a bad thing. Right now we bring a child into this world first and ask the tough questions later. Single motherhood is massively incentivized, BGS just did a video on this today.



The article from Time only mentions single, not single and childless. Lets not act like women still aren't getting pregnant and bringing children into this world.

Now you have this educated/professional black women sector warming up to co-parenting situations. You fulfill your biological desire to have a child, while still being independent, while cashing in on the "single mother" badge and still receiving all the validation from men in public/online that you desire. Thats a Win for her.

The babydaddy still gets to impress random women with his Dodge Charger and bring them back to his 1-Bedroom apartment and only see his kid a few times a month. Thats a Win for him. All the while the child is taking that L as soon as their memories kick in all the way up to adulthood

Black women were told to become independent and get an education, they did that. I'm not saying its bad. However Gen X and Baby Boomer women did not tell them that for every action there is an equal reaction and still refuse to own up to it. Sheer stubborness to admit they screwed up just like all these articles popping up now. As if men just stopped going to college in 2019, Blue-Collar jobs just started getting phased out, and the income gap was a lie for the most part and has reverted. All while still refusing to admit feminism has over-corrected.

Our race is far more prone to seeing and engaging in Social Media Gender War divide nonsenense "What do you bring to the table, I'm not going 50/50" as well as talkingheads like Derrick Jaxn that gas up unrealistic standards for what women should only accept while never providing said product themselves. 2021 is ending on the same note as 2008 but we've got clowns out here acting like men should be taking women to rooftop bars for the 1st date and cashapping money to them for their time as if they're a Financial Dom.

The average black women does NOT want an average 5'9 man making 42k with average swag. And for black men like me that are somewhat above-average that have some combination of being over 6-feet, Corporate Job or Associates/Bachelors Degree, own a Home/Townhome/Condo, making 50-60k+, we're just in the cut looking at all this like We are very cautious of the women we bring into our space and know it only takes a few small mistakes or one sizeable mistake to end up back at the beginning of the board game.

I won't speak for anyone else that's single but I know marriage is valuable in the right context, and hope to be some day, but only with the right person. If that doesn't happen, that's fine, I'm not on a Red Pill Rage trip and I don't blame any women for how my life turns out at this point.

Last thing i'll respond to is black men staying home after 18 or 21. Overall I believe most (not all) men that stay home after 22 are not performing nearly at the level they could be. Myself included because I was in that category until my mid 20's. If you are working multiple jobs, helping with emergencies around the household, saving 20k+ a year, that's different.

What these articles fail to mention is that men are staying home in part because their SINGLE mother is at home (not usually an apartment) by themselves and needs assistance in some form. Even under-performing men that live at home usually provide a net utility gain through helping around the home/yard and providing security that an adult daughter would not.

I posted this Video in the KS thread. This shyt was spot on. Smoke that bullshyt ass notion that its just "the men aint good enough" bullshyt. Thats why fukk with BGS. His shyt be backed by literature and Data.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

It will never go back. There to many incentives for women to stay by themselves. What they dont make in income gets subsidized by the government. Which is a problem whether black or white. But as you and I know. White people get a cold, black people get the flu.

While nikkas on here going " Just git gud."

They not seeing what else is coming from this
Because if you think bourgeois upper class women and their rhetoric run academia and media now?

Well, wait until you see what's coming...