Men Are Now More Likely to Be Single Than Women. It's Not a Good Sign

[Wild self]

The fukked up thing as a race we fight age the most but at the same time we age gracefully out of all the races if we take care of ourselves. That goes for both black men and women.

Why else you see a group of grey haired brehs 45+, in the club in the VIP section, trying to mack to broads less than half they are? Even worse, those same older brehs dress up like a Gen Z hypebeast, talking about "being fly" and "having drip"

In many ways, a lot of black folk dont mentally mature past high school.

 

[KingFreeman]

hyperglycemia

Women obviously no longer follow what men do or else the state of dating would not be how it is. And the bolded is bullshyt, you cannot say that while calling all men to be 100% on point (which is already unlikely).

The fact that they "won't date down" and follow "successful" men while needing much more than "somewhat" fitting physical preferences is the point. As women socioeconomically elevate as concession will have to be made or else the feast or famine on both sides (subpar sex lives for men, lack of marriage for women) will continue and intensify.

Im convinced alot of yall on here are trolling for the thread or just don't have life experience to debate things properly.

If you think all women don't follow men who are on their squares, you don't know women as well as you think you do.

For the majority of them, the bullshyt stops when you are masculine and taking care of business.

Obviously there are outliers.

 

[SNG]

Why else you see a group of grey haired brehs 45+, in the club in the VIP section, trying to mack to broads less than half they are? Even worse, those same older brehs dress up like a Gen Z hypebeast, talking about "being fly" and "having drip"

In many ways, a lot of black folk dont mentally mature past high school.

It's true alot of my friends that are over 40 kids and wives still outchea chasing chicks in the club. But hey who am I to judge. The clubs are trash these days in my opinion.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Why else you see a group of grey haired brehs 45+, in the club in the VIP section, trying to mack to broads less than half they are? Even worse, those same older brehs dress up like a Gen Z hypebeast, talking about "being fly" and "having drip"

In many ways, a lot of black folk dont mentally mature past high school.

Lets not conflate dudes living a second childhood with dudes wanting a younger women to provide multiple children for him

 

[Wild self]

Its crazy because if anything poor ppl should be cohabitation more

Blame the value system of "having they own space" and not building trust or networks with people.

 

[semicko82]

Why else you see a group of grey haired brehs 45+, in the club in the VIP section, trying to mack to broads less than half they are? Even worse, those same older brehs dress up like a Gen Z hypebeast, talking about "being fly" and "having drip"

In many ways, a lot of black folk dont mentally mature past high school.

Peter pan syndrome

 

[SNG]

Im convinced alot of yall on here are trolling for the thread or just don't have life experience to debate things properly.

If you think all women don't follow men who are on their squares, you don't know women as well as you think you do.

For the majority of them, the bullshyt stops when you are masculine and taking care of business.

Obviously there are outliers.

I've seen chicks flat out turn nikkaz down that got they own business and taking care of business and be with a nikka that they make more than but are physically attracted to him. I'm noticing as more women are successful and independent looks factor in with everything else look how important height is to women.

 

[Wild self]

It was not White people that set up those arrange marriages. It was Black families that set up those arranged marriages. It usually happened when the girl's family found out that she was sexually active with a boy. The girl's family usually forced the marriage, because everybody knew what was going to eventually happen if the kids kept having sex.

This goes to a bigger issue though. Just 40 years ago the Black community frowned upon women walking around pregnant if she was not married. Then that shacking up shyt started and that opened pandora's box on women heading single family households. It has been an all around disaster and created an permanent underclass of women and children in our society that can never leave the lower end of the socioeconomic ladder. It is sad.

The crack era exposed a lot of bad behavior of black folks.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I've seen chicks flat out turn nikkaz down that got they own business and taking care of business and be with a nikka that they make more than but are physically attracted to him. I'm noticing as more women are successful and independent looks factor in with everything else look how important height is to women.

those men become servants because the women have financial leverage they tend to hold over those men. Not all cases but many cases. My thing is if a chick been working 5+ years full time, she may as well dead them im not gonna work dreams, especially if she ran up debt

 

[King Poetic]

We are done in terms of marriage in the black community and it started decades ago

remember by the end of 1969/1970 black women was married close to 60% and only 23% of black kids was born out of wedlock

Fast forward to today and only 25% of black women are married compared to 36% of black men and there’s twice as many sisters, so u can’t blame black men for not marring…. Then we go from 23% to close to 75% of black kids born out of wedlock and as nikkas always do blame others for their poor decisions and then want to shame the blacks who actually have sense to fall into they bullshyt..

Many men have experienced the woman at work, the woman at the bar/club, gym , outside anywhere shaming the brother for not having kids or not wanting to date a woman with 3 kids by 3 different men ..

 

[semicko82]

Im convinced alot of yall on here are trolling for the thread or just don't have life experience to debate things properly.

If you think all women don't follow men who are on their squares, you don't know women as well as you think you do.

For the majority of them, the bullshyt stops when you are masculine and taking care of business.

Obviously there are outliers.

I was joking cause you used the wrong term
It's hypergamy lol

To your point though I've been around mostly working/lower class women the majority of my life
Half of them go for men on their squares, but that's when get older and smarter

 

[King Poetic]

The crack era exposed a lot of bad behavior of black folks.

exactly.. and like I said.. we started blaming others

look at this woman with 12 kids, saying somebody need to help her take care of her kids

 

[semicko82]

exactly.. and like I said.. we started blaming others

look at this woman with 12 kids, saying somebody need to help her take care of her kids

Single moms are for grown men

 

[Wild self]

its never been easy. Unfortunately black people on avg thing just getting a degree = job and do zero networking during undergrad

It WAS the case 25 years ago.

Now, even STEM majors are getting low balled, but thats for another thread and topic

 

[Wildhundreds]

Im convinced alot of yall on here are trolling for the thread or just don't have life experience to debate things properly.

If you think all women don't follow men who are on their squares, you don't know women as well as you think you do.

For the majority of them, the bullshyt stops when you are masculine and taking care of business.

Obviously there are outliers.

The excess porn and IG women fried these dudes brain.. I wish they would just STFU about relationships and fck bytches.. Because thats all that they're good for..