Men can you explain why SOME men break up with a girl only to obsessively watch her stories etc.?

[Slimwithafatgirlsappetite]

...You breakup with a girl, but you continue E-stalking her. Always the first person to see her Instagram story or Snapchat...

What is that about?

This is apparently a really common thing. I genuinely don't get it. Is it curiosity? Wanting to see if she gets a new man? Wanting to see if she falls off and starts looking less attractive?

What is behind this?

 

[HearNoEvil]

Subconsciously, men know that any woman they’ve been with is the potential mother of their children.

Men don’t get over their exes, no matter who broke up with who. There’s no real need to.

 

[ben anderson]

Maybe because all bytches I’ve fukked are bad or have fat asses. Even if I don’t like them or break up with them. They’re still nice to look at when they twerk

 

[...o3]

...y'all shouldn't be generalizing all males.

 

[DON MA MA]

Arsonist staying a lil while to watch the fire burn.

 

[The God Poster]

...You breakup with a girl, but you continue E-stalking her. Always the first person to see her Instagram story or Snapchat...

What is that about?

This is apparently a really common thing. I genuinely don't get it. Is it curiosity? Wanting to see if she gets a new man? Wanting to see if she falls off and starts looking less attractive?

What is behind this?

Only thing I can think of is he didn't want to be in a relationship but obviously thinks she looks good. Probably still wants to fukk

 

[Strapped]

Not me

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Only thing I can think of is he didn't want to be in a relationship but obviously thinks she looks good. Probably still wants to fukk

This. There's a chick I met a couple years back on Tinder, went on a couple dates but I had something better brewing so I ended it. I still watch her IG stories cuz she got some big ass titties. There's also a curiosity element... like "I wonder if anyone wifed up them titties yet."

As for breakups, I can't speak for everyone else but if I've actually dated you officially, I will always care about you. Just because we don't work out doesn't mean I wouldn't be curious about how your life is going. As long as I don't do anything to disrespect my next gf or her current/next bf then it's all good.

OP if you got a problem with it just block the nikka.

 

[Neuromancer]

I've never done this. Sounds like someone needs to choose better.

 

[MaxPain]

Cuz their girl is slim with a fat girl’s appetite

 

[King Khufu]

I've personally never done this.

With somebody I'm crushing on yeah but not with somebody I'm breaking up with.


Somebody's feeling someone where they have to do that! I'd advise just don't get caught up in unreturned feelings bro

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

tfw you dont have social media so they cant play that inconspicuous passive aggressive shyt and have no choice but to email, text, call or stop by and look like a fool

 

[ISO]

Sometimes it hurts us nikkas to break up with y’all even if we believe it’s for the best

Honestly it’s just viewing a story don’t read too deep into it

 

[Calmye]

Yo shut up bytch

 

[Commish]

It has been said that only women break up with men. Men don't break up with women!

Personally, I don't agree. If I break up with a woman, then its over! I don't believe getting back together..

OP..

Some men are territorial..Some men feel that even if they break up with a woman, he should still have some level of access to her, especially if she is single so that when he is in the mood to get some, then she should be available to him.

In other words, he has possessive tendencies as well as possess some insecurities based off of whatever is going on in his life.

I would say to any woman who is going through your scenario the following:

Why are you allowing yourself to be accessible to an ex, if you know he is e-stalking you? Why haven't you blocked him from your social media or phone?

Are you really concerned about your ex keeping tabs on you or are you low key liking the attention he is giving you, even if it is from a distance?

They say that the people we deal with is a mirror of yourselves. Water seeks it'd own level. People are in our lives to give us lessons about ourselves.

If a person truly is bothered by the unsolicited attention, then there are measures available to change things..