Men In Relationships/Marriages. Do You Pay ALL The Bills?

[Coli Bot]

Me and you on the same page

Fukk these hoes, they really think we need em

My g, the comments.... talking bout "he need to holla at me in my cashap for me to even entertain him and he need to pay all my bills or he aint a real man"

I'm looking at it like bruh these new social media twitter women are really trash and do not give a fukk about us whatsoever. What sane man would want to take on a burden like that?

The joke is I make good money but I like to come off as a bum to keep these types away.

If I find another good woman in the future who actually gives a fukk about me and not just what I can do for her then I might entertain her. For now I'm chilling.

 

[DreadBrown]

Men should have a willingness to pay the bills

but its 2020 and women make their own money so Im supposed to pay everything while she stack her paychecks under the mattress?



I remember after my son was born I didnt really want his mom to go back to work but she wanted to.

Most of the extra income went to daycare (cuz she was at work) and a trip to Jamaica she didnt need

we broke up a couple years later after 14 years

 

[AAKing23]

My g, the comments.... talking bout "he need to holla at me in my cashap for me to even entertain him and he need to pay all my bills or he aint a real man"

I'm looking at it like bruh these new social media twitter women are really trash and do not give a fukk about us whatsoever. What sane man would want to take on a burden like that?

The joke is I make good money but I like to come off as a bum to keep these types away.

If I find another good woman in the future who actually gives a fukk about me and not just what I can do for her then I might entertain her. For now I'm chilling.

Exactly bro.

These hoes want you to pay to be in a relationship with them and also spoil them with gifts consistently on top of that

If simps wanna go underwater financing some used p*ssy then go ahead, I'll be chilling

 

[AAKing23]

Most women who talk like that dont have careers they truly enjoy or passionate hobbies they can make money doing. Majority of women who say that work at call centers, failed models, walmart, or some job they hate. Every women who i dated that loved their career or job had no problems paying bills or paying bills in marriage. But a woman who posts on facebook all day browsing the shaderoom and going to lunch everyday probably wouldnt be that productive at home anyway.

An idle mind is a devil's playground, Idc if I made a million a year, I still want her to work, you need to be doing something

 

[Cynic]

It depends where you live.. living with women in any western jurisdiction is foolhardy

 

[Still Benefited]

I work she doesn't,so yes I pay all of the bills. It is a mans job to provide after all. If your woman is working and paying her own bills you share her with the white man. It will take a psycological toll on her subconscience. She will see the European as her provider and protector. Black men are basically allowing the white man to make Indecent Proposals right to our face.


Not judging if you need to do it temporarily for some reason or the other. But it shouldn't be a permanant situation imo.

 

[Pseudonym]

He pays them, but my money is in there too

 

[Bumblebreh]

I work she doesn't,so yes I pay all of the bills. It is a mans job to provide after all. If your woman is working and paying her own bills you share her with the white man. It will take a psycological toll on her subconscience. She will see the European as her provider and protector. Black men are basically allowing the white man to make Indecent Proposals right to our face.


Not judging if you need to do it temporarily for some reason or the other. But it shouldn't be a permanant situation imo.

 

[Swirv]

I pay all the Bill's

Me too. She’s a housewife right now so I don’t expect her to generate income. To be honest I don’t want her to go back to work anytime soon. Life is good.

 

[Heafcliffe]

I can say this is a big reason I married my wife. Through her actions and our convos, I know if I made crazy money, she'd still work, pay bills and still feed her husband. She's built different than these hoe babbles.

 

[Big Boss]

These chicks be listening to city girls

 

[se1f_made]

Men should have a willingness to pay the bills

but its 2020 and women make their own money so Im supposed to pay everything while she stack her paychecks under the mattress?



I remember after my son was born I didnt really want his mom to go back to work but she wanted to.

Most of the extra income went to daycare (cuz she was at work) and a trip to Jamaica she didnt need

we broke up a couple years later after 14 years

I promised mine she wouldn’t have to work once I can command a little bit bigger salary and of course have a baby. It’ll actually make sense for her to stay home as high as day care costs are

 

[Blankthawtz]

I pay cable/electric she pays phone and food..... We split the mortgage and miscellaneous....... We both make over 85K so no problems...
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[trapnerd]

I told mine that if she want to live like it’s 1950 and have me pay all the bills while she sit at home all day.....

don’t be mad when I got a whole other family across town like my granddad.

 

[Crude]

We split the bills, before she graduated from law school I paid just about everything on my own.

I was actually making a lot less money then than I am now too. As soon as my girlfriend now wife got in a position to help more she did.

I understand that this isn't the nature of everyone's relationship and that's fine. I know some ladies and men alike expect the man to front all the bills. That isn't realistic in most situations though. Your grandparents werent living in 500K homes and driving around in 80K vehicles.

We wouldn't be able to live in a 400K-500K home, both drive new model vehicles, and have the investment portfolio we have currently only utilizing one income either.