Men Reveal The Moment They Knew Their Marriage Was Over (article)

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Call me crazy or whatever but I'm starting to feel like marriage and having kids isnt worth the headache. I mean I've got one seed but when I think about having another I'm like :scusthov:

Right!?

If anyone is capable of entertaining themselves, can be okay with being lonely here and there (but still having relations) and is solidified in THEIR life...

Why take that "chance" on having someone else dictate your own happiness.

We all evolve differently.

Who knows... maybe one day I'll be all for it.

Not now though.

fukk it.:yeshrug:
 

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You're not crazy. Being a child of divorced parents and seeing the effects of that on our family, I don't have much a desire for marriage or children either.

I think the black community has done the "no marriage" thing long enough and the stories from these white men are tame compared to the generations of horrors stories from broken families in the hood.

Sorry.
 
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1. "I actually realized my marriage would not go the distance while talking with a friend over breakfast. My buddy was lavishing praise on his wife and said something to the effect of 'She always has my back.' Suddenly, it hit me: I got the complete opposite from my wife. I received disdain, disrespect and disinterest. It was a few years before we separated, but the path was set that morning.

i feel this cat's pain.....:leostare:
Second dat....:mjcry:

welp...! :francis:
 

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I think the black community has done the "no marriage" thing long enough and the stories from these white men are tame compared to the generations of horrors stories from broken families in the hood.

Sorry.

True but they're no marriage didn't also include no children and that's where the problems happened.
 

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It gets even better though, one of the dudes that posted on that site ended up coming here :dead:

Oh wow. I'm still reading through the thread. I haven't got to part yet, lol. Most of those stories though smh.

The wife having sex with men off craigslist doing everything with them she would never do with the husband but he's still trying to make it work :francis:



The pregnant wife cheating in their bed while the husband is visiting his sick brother :whoa:
 

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3. "After my Hollywood writing career hit a sudden wall, I got a job with BMW Design to write a movie about how they design cars. When I arrived in Munich, they gave me a brand new convertible sports car and said, 'Take it up to the Alps for a few days and come back when you feel like you understand the car.' Speeding through the snowy Alps, blasting music, roof down, heater fan blowing, I had this revelation, 'I’m happy! This is what happiness feels like.' And then I had a second revelation: 'If my wife were here, she’d tell me to slow down. Turn down the music. Put up the roof. And she’d be complaining about smelling cigarette smoke from passing cars.' In that moment, I realized I had forgotten what it felt like to be happy in my body." -- Adam G.



i could see this being me if i got married. :sadcam:
 

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Exactly, I walk through life knowing I'm not immune to anything, eyes wide open.

yep
Once you lose your "innocence" you realize what it is.

I like my girl but I know I can wake up tom with a we need to talk text and bla bla bla, all of that zeros in your bank, height, taoist thrust , mouth piece coli jargon dudes utter mean nothing at the end of the day

wrote on this a while back

I was naïve and innocent to say the least, trusting of all and presuming the best of others objectives. I believed that people were honest, kept their promises, appreciated kindness and lived by a moral code of integrity and loyalty. In essence I believed the majority of people thought and lived like I did – and well I was totally wrong. My innocence and open heart was shattered to say the least, like when a kid finally finds out that wrestling is fake and Santa Claus is imaginary there is no going back from this point – I can’t undo what has already been done. I’ve learned that the things I assumed could never ever happen to me can and did happen. I’ve learned that you can be the most moral person with the highest character, loyal, humble, honest, being funny and you’ll still take blows and beatings you don’t deserve – how do I know because I’m that man. So no longer will I be caught being oblivious anymore. I’m wiser now. Maybe I’m melancholic, I don’t know. All I know is the cataracts have been removed and I see everything clearly now.
 

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Our generation is going to have alot of broken, lonely people in their 40's. Hell im in my 20's and it only took me two relationships to find out it wasnt for me. Love is for fools, and peace of mind is priceless. You can have all that shyt.
 
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