"Men" who complain about women shyt-testing. Right or Wrong?

Should we adapt to the tests?


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Larry Lambo

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I just do me. I don't really care about whether she "sh*t tests" me or not, because ultimately that's on her if I don't meet her requirements.

Once I reached a certain age, I stopped giving a f**k about petty stuff like that. Yes, I've adapted my approach to be more confident and dominant. But that's more based on my maturity and understanding the mating process in general, versus being a certain way for these brauds.
 

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It's interesting that few people have even tried to give examples of actual shyt tests other than some corny 80s sitcom "can you hold my bag" bullshyt that pretty much never happens in real life.




Well yes and no. It's in a woman's nature to subtly test for fitness and competence (it must be done), but it really ain't nowhere as deep as what some of these brehs are saying (or should I say insinuating since I haven't seen many real examples) in this thread. Woman will say or do certain things and observe the reaction as a way to gauge where the man's head is at. It's simply a woman evaluating certain behaviors exhibited and making judgments from there.

An actual example of a shyt test is a woman asking her partner whether he thought her friend was attractive. OR, how he would feel about a threesome (her and another girl). If we're talking about a woman you barely know or just met, she might say something like "Oh? I heard you were a player". Another would be if for instance, you've had plans to go to a BBQ or picnic for a min but on the day of (or before) suddenly your girl says she doesn't want to go because she doesn't think your auntie likes her, or she doesn't get alone with your homie's girl, shyt like that. She already has the answer(s) she wants or a few acceptable ways to respond in mind, but if you falter, are slow to react or say the "wrong" thing, you've failed her shyt test.

Any of y'all remember those social media joke posts from a couple years ago where it would be a picture of Deebo or some other beefy nikka and the caption would be something like "you out with your girl and this dude comes up and smacks her ass. WYD?" That's basically a shyt test put into meme form. It's highly dramatized but the scenario is basically a shyt test personified nonetheless.
there's a difference between showing you are solid and reliable vs. putting up with a broad who is a habitual line stepper

naturally occurring scenarios vs. bullshyte games goofy hoes play

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Listen, if u dont wanna deal with shyt tests from a woman thats cool....hell if u give off the vibe u wont put up with it then they wont or atleast rarely...

But ur gonna get tested ur entire life...

Im not saying to put up with a million tests and bs games...thats actually failing a shyt test..

The man who cuts a woman off whose playing games or checks her and sets boundaries actually passes it...

Cuz ur gonna get “shyt tested” if u live in a bad neighborhood by the lil goons around ur way to see if ur soft or not, and if u are that might cost u ur life...

U get “shyt tested” in jail if u dont pop off when u first come thru...

U get “shyt tested” at work by employees to see where ur head is at or by ur boss to see if ur competent enough for the next level/promotion..

U can even get “shyt tested” by ur friends and family...

Passive men dont get far in life, u have to overcome some adversity....men are made..

Its up to u as a man to set boundaries, cuz ur gonna get shyt tested in every angle of life....and if u nip shyt in the bud u will minimize it but itll never go away...

U think bullies will continue to bully u if stand up for urself? They go for easy targets.....dont fail their first shyt test

Oddly enough, us as men shyt test women all the time and dont even know it, and if u dont ur a loser with no standards and deserve to pay child support for a kid thats not even urs (all the guys who say body counts/past dont matter im talking to u).....

If u cant handle that, keep yo ass in the house...







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